the more hidden, personal facts you expose to a friend, the greater the chance you will expose something they cannot or will not tolerate. even close friends will distance themselves from you, because of that one particular fault, that they cannot forgive,,, (sort of like the straw that broke the camel's back.) or not...
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Gary51hwd
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Oct 2 @ 6:27AM
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Which is why I subscribe to the Mushroom Treatment
Keep 'em in the dark and feed 'em shit!
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luvshorses644
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Oct 2 @ 6:43AM
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I know.. what's up with that? LOL... I have had the same thing happen to me, a really good friend really distanced herself because I was in a funk and something I said put her off. I think forgiveness is something that is hardest to come by.
Good point....
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imlost2
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Oct 2 @ 8:03AM
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There have been a few blogs lately about what a true friend is. Choose them wisely and pick whom you can confide in. They will accept you for who you are and visa versa, if not, you have lost nothing and if you cannot return the same, you were never a friend to begin with. Remember not one person on this earth is perfect, trying to hide flaws is just a lie, which is worse, being a friend that keeps a bunch of lies or one that is honest? Take care Lost
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kywonder
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Oct 2 @ 9:31AM
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True friendship is rare. Almost non existent. Which is why the wise words spoken long ago that said, "Greater love hath no man, than one who would lay down his life for a friend" are so true. You will have acquaintances in this life and many of them, but if per chance, you find a true friend, you are blessed and rich.
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butterfly943
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Oct 2 @ 10:18AM
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This is so true...but then you nned to ask yourself if you really wanted a friend like that anyway 
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debbz32
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Oct 2 @ 10:45AM
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So sad - but unfortunately this blog in my opinion is so true 
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poeticcougar
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Oct 2 @ 11:05AM
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It's not only friends who back away but potential partners. So why is it we should share our secrets to make us feel better psychologically but we end up feeling worse 'cause we lose those we trusted and cared for enough to tell? It's mixed up.
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SallyF
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Oct 2 @ 11:10AM
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This being authentic can be a double edged sword (or not)
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