And so to bed...... posted 10/7/2008 11:42:39 AM | 3 kudos what's this?     report abuse tagged: dating, sleeping, bedroom, love, romance

CHARLIgurl1

It’s a great to know that after meeting someone online, the mails and photographs have been shared, the first few dates have gone really well, and the relationship is ready to go a step further… in to the bedroom.

To be compatible sexually is of course is what everyone wants, but there’s more to the bed scenario than just sex.

It’s how you sleep.

After being alone in the bed for a period of time, we get used to our own way of sleeping, maybe sprawled out across the bed, arms and legs in all directions, or that one arm that likes to rest across the bed to the other side.

Suddenly you’re sharing a bed, there’s no room for those limbs that like to adventure across all areas of the bed anymore, and that one arm becomes a slap in the head to your new bed partner!

Some people like to sleep curled in a ball, knees pulled up and arms crossed across the chest, others flat on their bellies with arms and legs stretched out like a star. Some, like to sleep on their backs, but this can induce snoring for some, which can be very annoying to anyone who is used to silence.

Then there are the people who like a light on, a night light, or the hallway light on with the bedroom door ajar, this again can interrupt sleep for someone who is used to complete darkness.

Pets too can cause friction, when someone’s pet has been used to sleeping on the bed, then the new partner stresses no animals on the bed… some may say not even in the bedroom at all and poor kitty or Rufus is banished to the hall.

Then there’s which side of the bed, some say they can only sleep on the left or right, or like to be nearest the door, this can be to do with which side of their body they like to sleep on.

Of course there’s people that talk in their sleep, some even sleep walk, which is ok, if their new sleeping partner is warned about it before hand, it can be quite a shock to see someone wandering around in the dark still asleep!

Oh and we mustn’t forget the cover bandits!... Waking in the night to find your bed partner fast asleep with all the covers wrapped neatly around them while you shiver and gently try to retrieve some covers!

Some couples are perfectly compatible straight away; others take longer to find that ideal sleeping arrangement.

But of course, if both couples like to sleep on opposite sides, you either get warm breath up your nose, or unpeeling the butts when they’re stuck together in the morning!!

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