Moving on posted 11/11/2008 9:33:17 PM | 2 kudos what's this?     report abuse

kjac

Here is a little something for those of you who have trouble moving on from a broken relationship.


Step 1) Accept responsibility. Even if your role was small, you had a role in either the breakup, or prolonging the inevitable breakup.

Step 2) Forgiveness. Whether it be forgiving yourself, or them, this part is the most crucial.

Step 3) Face reality. You and that person weren't meant to be together. Accept that as a fact. This is often the hardest step for those with dependency issues.

Step 4) Take time to yourself. This is vital. A key in preventing a "rebound" relationship that turns into one dead end relationship after another.

Step 5) Look forward, not backwards. This is easy once you've accomplished steps 3 and 4. Find someone who you can really connect with. Make sure they see the real you, and not what you think they'll like.


And now that you've seen the 5 easy steps to moving on, you are free to look elsewhere for advice. Because if I actually knew what I was talking about, I wouldn't be single.

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