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posted 11/15/2008 6:57:08 PM |
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  poniepower

As many of you all know, I am usually found in the forums, chasing my friends, laughing at their antics and silly comments, having fun.
Sometimes, a serious thread comes along that touches my heart and I can't help but stop and smell the roses.

Recently a thread was started, "What Makes You Happy"......I posted, but can't get it off my mind. Thinking about what is going on with these 2 lil beautiful babes.

My post in the tread.....Wrapping my arms around this little 2 y/o baby girl, who's Mother walked out and left her when she was 2 mths old and her brother a year old.

I have sooooooo much love to give...and she is soooooo deserving of it. They both are.
So Unconditional, so innocent, so loving, so precious, so unaware, so terrified. Always asking questions or repeating what we say, just to get that attention they so crave.
These 2 lil ones are starved for attention from a Motherly figure! Actually, from anyone.
It makes my heart swell to know they are comfortable and "happy" being here with "Gramma".
When I look into those huge blue eyes, I see the unconditional love there for me....THAT makes me happy!!!

Now, my question is....how can someone create these GORGEOUS babies and walk out on them, letting them fend for themselves, to figure out on their own how to get the nurturing they need to survive? These 2 babies have even told me where there Mom is....NOT by my doing either, and NOT something i would have done with my own children....."Mommy is in Jail, she don't want us".
What kind of animal could do this. Even some of the most vicious animals on the planet stay with their young!!
What goes through these peoples minds as they walk out that door, do they even hear it slam behind them?? Do they care who is on the other side, crying, wondering where or when they'll meet the one who "truely" loves them?
My heart goes out to the single men and women raising their children by themselves. Even having a significant other there to help, doesn't really lighten the burdens or rearing alone.
I've been a single Mom of 5 children for almost 13 yrs now. I did it because I LOVE my children.
I've even let my kids' friends live with us, when their parents kicked them out into the cold, or 100 degree weather even.
I just don't understand..........
I want to tell the single parents raising their children on their own,....stick with it, the rewards are Monumentous!! Unconditional LOVE!

Don't forget to Hug and Kiss Your Babies Today!

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Comments:
imlost2

Nov 15 @ 7:48PM  
People just are unbalanced is all I can say. It's not natural to not love your young. Perhaps a chemical imbalance not yet diagnosed? Maybe a mental diagnosis not yet found? Not everyone is cut out to be parents sad to say. Just because you are female doesn't mean you are meant to be a mother. Same thing with a male, doesn't mean you are meant to be a dad. Doctors don't know everything nor how the mind works. Look how parents kill their kids, or even how many kids kill their parents. It's a crazy world out there. So much left unexplained. Those children are lucky they have you. I am not making excuses for their mother, but I'm sure there is some mental disease or imbalance somewhere and if doctors did a follow-up to these type of parents they might find schizophrenia later on in life or some other kind of problem that crops up, it wouldn't surprise me. tc and good luck Lost
Fender

Nov 15 @ 8:22PM  
Your wonderful Ponie and they are lucky to have you as you are lucky to have them
jamie63

Nov 16 @ 6:29PM  
At least these children have their grandma to be there for them when their mother isn't. I hope that they will remain with you all of their childhood years.
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