There is always ONE person on this planet you cannot say NO to. In my case, there are 2 people who fit that description. 
A few weeks ago when my sister was visiting we went to karaoke. I strutted my stuff on stage singing away, than dancing (well rephrase, attempting to 2 step). I ran into one of these guys I can never turn down. He was an octopus  and kept trying to kiss me well obviously I wasn't drunk enough 'cause when he asked if I was gonna give him a chance, I said no. I've NEVER said no to him before so I was proud of myself. We had a slight history. When he stood me up one time (he says it was twice but I don't recall that) I met someone else (the OTHER guy I can't say no to) and we dated for 5 1/2 months. anyhow..........
after that night, I came home and composed an email to him that said:
if you're sober and serious, call me
i would come by if you really wanted but i'm not a standby if ya cant' find anyone.
2 guy in weyburn I can't say no to....you are one of them and you damn well know it.
since that fateful night a few weeks ago I seem to run into this guy all the time (Guess it doesn't help that I also clean his house when need be) but nothing has been said about that night at karaoke. That is, until today. He wrote me back:
Thanks for cleaning, but I'm just going to bed so when you wake up come wake me up the best way you can think. I'm waiting as of now. Get here.
ok YOU might think that is rude but it's just one of his endearing qualities  BUT not only am I saying NO, I am not responding...let HIM sweat it out for a change. I CAN say No to him...and that makes me happy.  Do I want to say No? Not all the time but I want seriousness too....and realness....and not sure if he can do that, if he's ready for a relationship. I don't wanna be a part of that as a relationship is what I seek. And because he KNOWS I can't say No to him...well a pat on my back is sooooooooooooo deserved because I did it and I can do it. Feels good 
Wonder how long he wants to play cat and mouse? 
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