Yes, this year was a very good Thanksgiving. I mean in all the right ways. After all of the things I have experienced in the last 2 years, the death of my fiance 2 years ago this coming New Years Day, the breakup of a very dear, close male friend of mine, drama, just crap in general, I can honestly say that from all that I have learned, and went through that this year has changed how I feel, and think about certain things in my life. Keeping drama out of my life, by being in control of who comes into my life has made a Big Difference for me. Wasn't easy to get to where I am now, but I have done it,, and I am so much better for my decesions.
Taking the time, the tears, and the steps in my grief has been trememdous. I learned that you can only do this in your own time, no matter what others may say, or how impatient they are for you to get back to normal( in their eyes).And if you are stuck in it, feeling like you aren't going forward with the feelings of your grief, then it is ok to have some "grief therapy" to help you along. I know I have only been there for 6 weeks, and have made so much progress. It is an exceptional feeling to know that my life can be normal again after such a loss of someone I loved so very much. I have the "inner peace" that tells me that I am ready to move forward, to have another "special one" in my life, without any of the guilt, or wondering if it is the right time. I feel relaxed now that I know I am where I need, and want to be.
It has been a year now since I have allowed any "drama king or queens" in my life, for whatever reasons they have. If you have drama, you aren't a part of my life at all. My life is so good now, so thanksgiving and life is good,,,
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