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posted 11/29/2008 7:57:32 PM |
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Mr. Todd pulled out of his drive in his new pickup truck and stopped in front of our house. He was rich by our standards and a ride in the pickup was something of a luxury. It happened each Sunday. Mr. Todd was our landlord and in that day in Northern Mississippi, he was several steps above us socially. He probably wouldn’t have been seen with us other than going to church. All that aside, he was a kind man and concerned himself with our souls.

We drove four miles to Flatrock Baptist Church where we children attended Sunday school while the Adults chatted and visited. When Sunday school was done, we all went into the church, sat in the hard wooden pews, and listened to an hour-long fire and brimstone sermon. In summer, the windows were opened and the screens dusted so they would let in more air. In winter, the potbellied stove would be fired up and fed constantly until the sermon started. Firewood was provided by members of the congregation. Cookies, pies, cakes, and any other specialty a member was proud of were brought to share after the service. When the church needed repair the congregation pitched in to get it done. The cemetery was fenced and attended by members also. If there was a community emergency, the church was the command center. However, as in any other church the collection plate was passed around. It passed by me and if I were the lucky kid who’s turn it was I got to drop in the family contribution.

That old church was one room. It sat on its hill with its faded paint and grassy parking lot and saved countless souls. It’s weather beaten siding saw every wedding and every funeral procession as they left in exultation or in deep sadness at the loss of another member. It was just a little one-room church that was the equal of any cathedral. No church ever served its congregation better.

I went to visit that old church and my ancestors who are buried in its cemetery just a few months ago. It has gone the way of progress. There’s a new chapel and classrooms. There are outbuildings for Sunday school classes and meetings. There’s a chain link fence around the cemetery, now maintained by contract. The parking lot is paved. There’s a fancy glass enclosed sign at the highway announcing times of services and the minister’s name. The sermon is more often than not concerned, at least partially, with tithes. It takes a lot of money to run such a fine church. Now the people don’t volunteer to do the repairs. It’s hired out. The pews are padded and central air purrs on the sleepy congregation as the minister speaks into the microphone. Souls get saved and community emergencies are handled there. Nothing has changed except appearances.

Last year my brother bought a house in a little town in Kentucky. It’s a poor town with very little industry and a poor tax base. The school offers only state required courses and can’t support sports or the arts. Tax referendums are defeated and the school deteriorates year by year. In this same town, there are five large masonry churches with outbuildings, auditoriums, paved parking lots and all the amenities. I’m talking huge impressive structures. If they were filled each Sunday, they would have to recruit members from out of town. So I wonder what’s right about this situation.

Don’t churches have a moral obligation to assure the welfare of the children in the community? Are we only worried about the souls of our oldest members? Is it necessary to appear so extravagant in our worship while our children lose the opportunity to compete in the world they will live in? Can a church, whether it’s Christian, Jewish, Muslim, or Hindu be so interested in such a show of the “Glory of God” that they will take the resources of the community away from the school?

I think the answer is no. We cannot make religion big business, taking the resources needed for the future of children. Our souls can be saved in a one-room church with hard wooden pews. Perhaps faster than in the luxury of padded pews and conditioned air. God hears our prayers if we say them in the garage just as well as in the Cathedral. I don’t think God wants the children to be denied.

That’s what I have against organized religion. It’s self interested. Give my tithes to the school district. I’ll get to heaven just as fast as you.

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Comments:
missliss78

Nov 29 @ 9:09PM  
Jake! Great blog, man!~*~
I had no idea where you were going with this when you started the story.
And a wonderful story you wove.
But I have to tell you I see eye to eye with you 100% on this topic.
In addition to what you've said here, I've also seen those big churches turn their backs on members when those members needed their church fathers, brothers & sisters the most. God loves us all, no matter where we talk to him from.
bardnsage

Nov 29 @ 9:10PM  
But the pendulem swings both ways,,,,,

How many very fine looking school buildings, with fancy computers, lab equipment, and all the "amminities",,,, sitll can't manage to teach anything other than the lowest levels of any subject, and struggle with that.

Is the problem money at the local level? Well, per pupil, they seem to have more money in the total budget than area private schools, or charter schools, yet the scores are consistantly lower than these other schools.

Of course, these other schools don't devote as much of their resources to "STAFF" and "ADMINISTRATION".

hmmmmm
redtigr

Nov 29 @ 10:45PM  
Bravo !

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ttomtarr

Nov 29 @ 11:27PM  
Another excellent, dead center blog, Jake.
imlost2

Nov 30 @ 10:13AM  
Those same church members each month decide and vote where that money is to be spent. I know they did it in my church. It's the congregation that is making the decisions as the church grows, so all in all it's the people's choices and there is your blame Sloriver. The members that once were young and now are grandparents have lost their voice I'm guessing? Each church has a committee that decides on how the money is to be spent, and what it's to be spent on, so I don't know what happened in your church but priorities seemed to have went out the window somewhere. I know in our old church the pews are still hard and it looks the same as it did years ago when I was a child. Take care Lost
pinkypaula2

Dec 1 @ 2:42PM  
awesome blog jake, i do not attend church services but i do pray, im like you god can hear me anywhere im at even in the bath tub, i wasnt raised in church my dad did have a very strong beleif in hown churches not all, are always tellin ya youre gonna go to hell if ya dont go to church blah blah blah, my sister and i did attend salvation army as children thats where i first really learned about god we attended every tuesday night to sumbeams graduated to girl guards went to camp every yr we loved it, thanks for sharing
sloriver

Dec 1 @ 2:55PM  
How many very fine looking school buildings, with fancy computers, lab equipment, and all the "amminities",,,, sitll can't manage to teach anything other than the lowest levels of any subject, and struggle with that.

Thanks for the comment and you are right. Our teachers are underpaid. Another problem is state mandated programs that the state doesn't fund such as driver's ed.

Mismanagement of school funds wasn't the point of my blog though. The point was that religeon sometimes gets all the descretionary funds a community has and leaves less than enough for schools. I couldnt' help but compare the huge immaculate churches with the small dingy school. Priorities are all wrong when a church engages in such extravegance while being unconcerned with public education.

sybnann

Dec 1 @ 3:13PM  
I do agree with what you are saying and you have written a great blog. I would add however that I know for a fact that not all churches do things this way. The ones that do seem to want to appeal more to the mind than the soul, which certainly was not and is not God's intention for the church.

When I was a teenager, I lived a while with my paternal grandparents in W.Va. They attended a tiny one room church in a single wide trailer every Sunday. The people were poor, but all helped each other when they could. The minister was the poorest of the congregation. He and his wife had nothing, wearing clothes with holes in them and putting their total faith in God for everything. THAT pastor however, even though he left school after the third grade, KNEW that bible so well, he could quote it all. It turns out during his last sermon before he died, he said that he would not be the minister there any more. That week he had a heart attack and died.... Amazing!!!!!!

There are reasons I am nondenominational, and this is one of them. Thanks for the blog... got my wheels turning lol

misschoos

Dec 1 @ 3:59PM  
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