| I'm a sensitive Viking Raider |
| about myself: |
| Sometimes when we stare to long into the abyss, the abyss stares back. That is from Nietszche, not me. I always liked how it sounded. I am basically a caring, compassionate guy with great intelligence and broad ranging interests. I prefer honesty and consideration and try to always give it back. I'm an easygoing nice guy, very adaptable, with the appearance of a biker or a Viking raider from what everyone tells me, a really clean polite one, lol. I love working on bikes, etc., but hate being greasy all the time. I am compassionate, considerate of whom I am with and not violent at all, especially towards women, even when they are trying to hurt me seriously. I'd rather hold you and try to talk you down than ever hit you. Also into outdoor activities, animals, kids, reading, writing, etc. If you are really interested, write please. Even my ex thinks I am a great guy and is still a best friend. I get along with her and her husband very well and visit frequently, as well as the rest of her family. Very open minded about just about everything, mainly as long as we talk it out first and set boundaries and it is mutually agreed upon. I am naturally slightly dominant, and can be more strongly so if the occasion requires, but I'm always considerate of whom I am with, extremely caring and careful. I am very open and understanding of other's fantasies now that I have fulfilled most of my own and really get into making love with imagination and creativity. Physically I have long reddish-blond hair and a short beard and like to keep in shape. I'm fairly muscular but heavier than I would like right now after not being able to work out for quite a while after surgery. I wear glasses or contacts. I rarely drink but I do enjoy a rare beer or glass of red wine. I quit drinking because of medication I was on but it was rare even before that. |
| willing to relocate: | Yes |
| marital status: | Divorced |
| seeking relationship: | Casual dating, Friendship, Long term relationship, On line chat, "Intimate" activities, Marriage, Whatever works |
| looking for a match: | Anywhere |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Gray |
| hair: | Strawberry blonde |
| hairstyles: | Long & lush |
| body type: | Few extra pounds |
| height: | 6'4 (193cm) |
| weight: | 265 lbs (121kg) |
| bodyart: | Scarred, None |
| Background |
| education: | Associates degree |
| ethnicity: | Caucasian |
| speaks: | English |
| Lifestyle |
| smokes: | No, don't smoke |
| drinks: | Rarely |
| living status: | Living alone |
| has children: | No |
| wants children: | Yes, probably |
| job: | Student |
| about my work: |
I'm back in College right now doing gunsmithing, then possibly going back into Anthropology, my first love, later on, or even that and psychology as well. I really don't do well with a "day to day grind", especially if it requires me to sit in a little cubicle with no real contact with people all day and no variety, even though I could excell at that for a while if I wanted or to do the same thing repeatedly on an assembly line. Tried that before, it just doesn't work out. My academic background is Anthropology and Psychology equally, with some Human Services, Sociology, Agribusiness and Gunsmithing thrown in. I also write a bit, novels and articles, but can't really do what I have been recruited to do, cover the Broncos for a certain sports website, until I finish school and can move closer to Denver, or find another team to cover somewhere else, in some sport I know a little about, and I try to do commentary in general no matter where I am.
To sum up, I think that if you are unhappy in your work it doesn't really matter what you do, it is just for the paycheck, but if you lucky enough find something you enjoy and be able to do it for your living then the pay doesn't really matter as long as you get by. That's how I feel about both Gunsmithing and Anthropology. Writing too, at least when the words are flowing like they were here. LOL. Even Psych would be interesting for me. Even though I would be in an office most of the day everything would change each hour when the next client came in so it wouldn't be so repetitious, and more importantly, I would be helping people. I suppose I used to do that as a bartender too, at times, but in the office you USUALLY don't have to deal with belligerant drunks or strung out druggies. I'm burnt out on that. LOL. |
| income: | Less than $25,000 |
| political position: | Non-conformist |
| Qualities |
| activities: | Antiquing/collecting, Bars/pubs, Board games/cards, Cars/motorcyles, Clubbing, Crafts, Computers/surfing the web, Family/children, Gardening, Home improvement, Movies, Museums/arts, Music/concerts, News/politics/following current events, Outdoor activities, Reading, Spending time with pets, Sporting events, Travel, TV, Video games, Wine tasting, Working out |
| attributes: | Funny, Active, Adaptable, Adventurous, Attractive, Caring, Communicative, Family Oriented, Goal Oriented, Honest, Humble, Intelligent/Bright, Opinionated, Organized, Outdoorsy, Positive Attitude, Problem Solver, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy |
| my idea of a great date: |
| Love at first sight? If that happens nothing else really matters does it? If that is too sappy and unrealistic then getting to know you over coffee or drinks and/or dinner, then walking in the park, preferably under the moon, and long, slow, deep kisses and holding hands. Or sitting on the couch doing the same. Going to the beach, romantic movies like Dr. Zhivago and/or romantic music and candlelight and/or firelight are nice too, but optional. |
| the person I would like to meet: |
| This is hard to do as I am more interested in individuals than someone who fits a preconceived idea of mine. How is that for ambiguity? LOL. I am actually fairly open on this, mainly someone who is understanding and has some consideration for others and nonviolent, towards me, kids or animals. I would hope you have a clear idea of what you expect from any kind of relationship, and don't start a relationship thinking you are going to change me later, take me as I am because I will probably never be good enough for you otherwise if you don't like me now. I really would like you to be my "best friend", I think that couples have to be that most of all to be successful. Well, at least like each other a lot. LOL. I would prefer to get acquainted first instead of rushing anything. There are a lot of things I could put in here, but when I consider them I find that I have never stuck that closely to what I think of as my "preferences", it is more dependant on the the person I perceive to be inside, not so much on what is outside. I would hate to pass by someone who might turn out be a very nice experience for me because of my "limits". Some of my requirements are STD free and tested, as I have been, no hard drugs or needles. While a mild drinker is okay, a raging alcoholic is definitely not. I am very understanding and considerate of recovering alcoholics and addicts because of my academic background and past work but won't tolerate someone who is still using or at the very least not working hard at recovery. Been there, done that already, and I'm not going to waste my time doing it again. That may sound harsh but that's just the way I need it to be. A nonsmoker or at least trying to cut down or quit and respectful of my rights to clean air, and that of my pets. |
| Ideal Match |
| smokes: (low) | No, don't smoke, From time to time in clubs and bars, Light smoker, Trying to quit!, Enjoy Cigars or pipes |
| eyes: (low) | Blue, Blue gray, Blue green, Gray, Green, Green brown, Green gray, Hazel, Violet |
| activities: (low) | Antiquing/collecting, Bars/pubs, Board games/cards, Cars/motorcyles, Clubbing, Crafts, Computers/surfing the web, Family/children, Gardening, Home improvement, Movies, Museums/arts, Music/concerts, News/politics/following current events, Outdoor activities, Reading, Spending time with pets, Sporting events, Travel, TV, Video games, Wine tasting, Working out |
| hair: (low) | Auburn, Black, Copper red, Dark blonde, Dark brown, Gray, Light blonde, Light brown, Lots of colors!, Salt and pepper, Strawberry blonde |
| hairstyles: (low) | Bob, Curly, Long & lush, Shoulder-length, Straight & natural, Other |
| living status: (low) | Living alone, Living with kids, Living with pet(s), Living with roommate(s), Social household (family and/or friends over often), Living with kids (part time) |
| attributes: (low) | Active, Adaptable, Adventurous, Athletic/In Shape, Attractive, Caring, Communicative, Family Oriented, Generous, Honest, Humble, Intelligent/Bright, Low Maintenance, Organized, Outdoorsy, Positive Attitude, Problem Solver, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy, Funny |
| body type: (med) | Athletic / Toned, Average, Curvy, Few extra pounds, Full-figured, Muscular, Slim / Slender, Stocky |
| willing to relocate: (low) | Yes, Perhaps, if it was for the right person |
| wants children: (low) | Already have one/a few and want more, Yes, ABSOLUTELY, Yes, probably, Maybe/Undecided |
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