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| about myself: |
"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed." - Carl Jung
I want to find that spark, that attraction, that chemical reaction that can only be found when you’re in the presence of someone with whom you share a bizarre and extraordinary connection that neither one of you can understand or explain. There’s not usually any rhyme or reason to it, it just happens. Sometimes it develops slowly between friends, but most often you can feel it almost immediately. It’s as if all the atoms in your body are straining themselves toward the other person because they can sense that’s where they belong.
I understand that all relationships take work. Eventually, somewhere down the line, yes, but I don’t believe they should be difficult from the beginning. I don’t believe that you should have to work on liking someone or work on having a connection. You either do or you don’t and something within you both will let you know whether it’s there or not. That voice is unmistakable when it’s yelling in your head and your heart. You definitely know it when you hear it and it’s almost impossible to ignore.
I’m probably the coolest cucumber you’ll ever meet. There isn’t much that fazes me. It takes quite a lot to raise my hackles and disturb me. Believe it or not, I’m not all that different from you men. You nagging me is just as bad. I love attention, but smothering me and hanging all over me in public like I’m some possession is also bad. I'm not opposed to PDAs, but there is such a thing as too much.
One final thing that may be difficult for most of you to swallow unless you’re one of the more enlightened out there: I'm very serious about never wanting any children and have taken permanent steps to make this decision impossible to argue. |
| willing to relocate: | No |
| marital status: | Divorced |
| seeking relationship: | Casual dating, Friendship, Long term relationship, On line chat, Whatever works |
| looking for a match: | within 30 miles of Wickliffe, Ohio United States |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Dark brown |
| hair: | Dark brown |
| hairstyles: | Curly, Shoulder-length |
| body type: | Few extra pounds |
| height: | 5'6 (168cm) |
| weight: | 180 lbs (82kg) |
| bodyart: | Hidden tattoo, Ear piercing(s) |
| Background |
| education: | Associates degree |
| ethnicity: | Caucasian |
| speaks: | English |
| religion: | Spiritual |
| attend ceremonies: | Never |
| Lifestyle |
| smokes: | Light smoker |
| drinks: | Socially |
| living status: | Living with pet(s) |
| pet(s): | Cat(s), Fish |
| has children: | No |
| wants children: | Do not want children |
| job: | Administrative/Clerical |
| about my work: |
| I work as the Administrative Assistant to the VP of New Business Development at a major commercial real estate company. |
| income: | $35,001 to $50,000 |
| Qualities |
| activities: | Board games/cards, Computers/surfing the web, Gardening, Movies, Museums/arts, Music/concerts, Outdoor activities, Reading, Spending time with pets, Travel, TV, Video games |
| attributes: | Funny, Adaptable, Adventurous, Attractive, Caring, Communicative, Generous, Honest, Humble, Intelligent/Bright, Low Maintenance, Opinionated, Organized, Outdoorsy, Positive Attitude, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy |
| my idea of a great date: |
| It wouldn't matter what we were doing. If we have good chemistry, we can make any activity interesting and fun. |
| the person I would like to meet: |
I like smart men who have not become arrogant because of their intelligence. Teach me something interesting. Teach me something trivial. Don't laugh at me if I don't know the answers. I love to learn new things and if you can teach me something without making me feel like an idiot, I’ll love you more for it. Show me that you are a patient person and accepting of diversity. My family and friends are wonderfully varied and all are important to me.
I don’t require a whole lot to make me happy, but I am old enough to know what I do and don't want. I don’t want you at my house all the time and certainly not every day. I like my privacy as much as you like yours. I don’t need you to call me, text me and email me constantly. One phone call a day would be nice and even then I totally understand when something comes up. Just don’t leave me in the dark wondering if you’re alive or dead. Common courtesy goes a LONG way with me.
Don’t give me a reason to be suspicious or jealous and be true to only me. If you become unhappy in the relationship, please don’t go behind my back. I would much rather you tell me the truth and give us the chance to fix things. I’m always willing to work with you. Either that or break up with me and give me the option of moving on with my life and being happy. Don’t put my health and my life in jeopardy by cheating on me and bringing something nasty home. That’s just cruel, rude and unnecessary and I would never do that to you. Be honest with me and 9 out of 10 times everything will be just fine. Honesty also goes a LONG way with me. |
| Ideal Match |
| smokes: (med) | No, don't smoke |
| ethnicity: (med) | Caucasian, European, Hispanic/Latin |
| living status: (low) | Living alone, Living with pet(s), Living with roommate(s) |
| speaks: (high) | English |
| body type: (low) | Athletic / Toned, Average, Few extra pounds, Muscular, Slim / Slender |
| has children: (low) | No |
| height: (low) | 5'5 (165cm) |
| willing to relocate: (low) | Yes |
| wants children: (high) | Maybe/Undecided, Do not want children |
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