| I am amazed and amused with one's "Reasoning." |
| about myself: |
Is it "impossible" that I only look for "ordinary mind" person who is able to work out with me in marriage ??
I am not a trendsetter,nor inspiration for any married woman ,nor some entertaining network nor for entertainers talk show. I don't like to be followed and be followed too long. Please consider if you were in my situation. Will you feel comfortable ? Life has been so different since eighteen years of divorce.Yes, I am old( I have severe osteoporosis.) So far, these aging issue doesn't really bother me. I deal with it and live it fine. I am not here to compete with any single 20's, 30's or 40's woman. It's me. Sorry, I am looking for a marriage partner here. We can sort things out and not bump into each other. Just give me a buzz. I will get your message. I can't turn back the time.The only regret I have is I should persist what I believe, what I have and live my life even I have to live by myself without anyone. Eighteen years of divorce is sufficient to show I can stand alone most of time except I am ill.:-) Agree ? I have been wondered why it takes so long I am still "single" here ?. Are there any terrorist group behind to destroy all the roads and connections ?? Just wondering....It shouldn't be too difficult, should it ?.One thing I am quite certain is NO Financial, Insurance or banking man. I am not going into that direction, sorry. |
| willing to relocate: | Yes |
| marital status: | Divorced |
| seeking relationship: | Marriage |
| looking for a match: | within Florida, United States |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Dark brown |
| body type: | Average |
| height: | 5'2 (157cm) |
| weight: | 125 lbs (57kg) |
| bodyart: | None |
| Background |
| ethnicity: | Asian |
| speaks: | Chinese, English, Japanese, Other |
| Lifestyle |
| smokes: | No, don't smoke |
| drinks: | Rarely |
| living status: | Living alone |
| has children: | Yes |
| how many: | Two |
| about my children: |
Older daughter is nurse and plans to go to graduate school. Younger daughter is senior and will be elementary school teacher. They both work with scholarship during school years. They both have nice boyfriends too.
I believe all the children belong to God. God is too busy and not be able to take care of each of His child so God creates the "role" of mother. Mother/Father simply is the "Caretaker" for God's property - His beloved children. Caretakers do have certain times doing not so good,have tempers and sick that need time to rest. Whether the child is good or bad, God will evaluate him/her in His kingdom by the time of face to face. I don't "own" children but God does. |
| wants children: | Do not want children |
| about my work: |
| Contract Interpreter and monitor for immigration, healthcare, district court, etc., I have priviledge to listen all kinds of other people's experiences in life without experiencing my own it The challenge and due to job's problems don't bother me. It has its rewards and It pays my bills. I like the experience it accumulates.I like to do more in the future if there's chance. I also do translation as well as freelance writing. |
| Qualities |
| activities: | Museums/arts, Music/concerts, News/politics/following current events |
| attributes: | Respectful of Others Opinions |
| my idea of a great date: |
"Ordinary" is so precious these days. I have "seen" so many "special" men in the past years. Now, I treasure "ordinary." Only "Ordinary" lasts and goes for many miles. "Special" or "uniqueness" is like thunder. It strikes but it perishes and soon dies out.
Married men (married women too) are "special" to me because they don't belong to single life scene(Gays and lesbians are "special" to me too. My mind and hands are full, sorry.) If someone told me, they are married, my backbone starts to straighten up and feel alert. Sorry, eighteen years of divorced single life has changed me. Unless some try to play games with me or there's some misunderstanding, I will straighten it out myself sooner or later. My personal life is my personal life and my job is another. My life is not boring at all. I don't feel like having complicated personal life or family life. I am quite certain. That kind of fun I am not even interested. I have no time, no mood for that at all. My love is not free, sorry. |
| the person I would like to meet: |
This is my profile and my page. I don't care how you think of me. What my main concern is I am looking for a good man here and develop something my own I like to do other than marriage partner. The man who understands me and supports me. If you are really serious, please don't keep sending me e-mails or offline messages, text message. I don't want to read repeated, same messages. Please be openly, directly ask me whether we should meet at the first place. I will reply to you directly, Yes or No.
Please keep the connection between us straight and clear. Don't I give you my phone number ? Why did you still send me lengthy e-mails and offline messages ? Are you playing games with me or what ? I will ignore all your messages and e-mails for sure. If you said you are serious and want to meet me. Please keep your promise. If you change your mind, please let me know as well. I won't feel bad if you reject me. I have rejected other men too. There's nothing we can do about it for one person likes this person and doesn't like the other. At least, we know it's over and we both can move on. However, It's very mean and impolite to say one thing but do another. Please don't waste our time and don't even meet me at the first place. Most Importantly, I am looking for marriage only. Please go back to RE-READ my profile again. I am NOT for long term relationship, NOT for intimacies, NOT for casual dating. Yes, I am still looking for FUN. It's fun AFTER marriage, Not fun BEFORE marriage. It's final, no bargain. I can think of many funs I like to do. I will be thrilled and enjoyable to have lots of funs after marriage but I will feel very timid, strange and uncomfortable to have fun before marriage. Sorry, that's me. If you want to change me, you have to marry me first, then you can change me. Pen-pal I can accept but no sex talk, no fling. I only want maximum of 3 pen-pals and no mor |
| Ideal Match |
| smokes: (med) | No, don't smoke |
| drinks: (low) | Socially |
| ethnicity: (med) | Other |
| living status: (high) | Living alone, Living with pet(s) |
| has children: (high) | No |
| height: (low) | 5'10 (178cm) to 6'4 (193cm) |
| willing to relocate: (high) | Yes |
| wants children: (high) | Do not want children |
| job: (high) | Other |
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