| Looking for a real woman. |
| about myself: |
Okay, I am tired of the usual BS that comes with dating. I don't want to play games, and I don't want to get played.
I've been through a marriage, and I truly don't think I want to be married again. I am capable of making the commitment, it's just the crap that I went through to get divorced I never want to go through again.
I am kind, honest and true. I don't cheat, I don't feel the need to control, and I even can pamper the one I love. |
| willing to relocate: | No |
| marital status: | Divorced |
| seeking relationship: | Casual dating, Friendship, Long term relationship, On line chat, Whatever works |
| looking for a match: | within 150 miles of Grand Rapids, Michigan United States |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Blue green |
| hair: | Light blonde |
| hairstyles: | Teased or spiked |
| body type: | Athletic / Toned |
| height: | 6'0 (183cm) |
| weight: | 150 lbs (69kg) |
| bodyart: | Ear piercing(s), None |
| Background |
| education: | School of life |
| ethnicity: | Caucasian |
| speaks: | English |
| religion: | Spiritual |
| attend ceremonies: | Solitary worshipper |
| Lifestyle |
| smokes: | Trying to quit! |
| drinks: | Socially |
| living status: | Living with roommate(s) |
| has children: | Yes |
| how many: | Two |
| about my children: |
| This is always weird to explain to first timers. I have 3 kids. One passed away four years ago at age seven. I also have a eight year old son, Preston. He is in a combined 1st, 2nd, and 3rd grade class. Way above average intelligence, and has even given me great advice at times. My other child, Virginia, is 4. She is my female twin. If you saw pictures, you would understand. |
| wants children: | Already have one/a few and no more |
| job: | Other |
| about my work: |
| Lead sales in a tech related job. |
| income: | $25,001 to $35,000 |
| political position: | Middle of the road |
| Qualities |
| activities: | Bars/pubs, Clubbing, Computers/surfing the web, Dinner parties, Family/children, Gardening, Home improvement, Movies, Museums/arts, Music/concerts, News/politics/following current events, Outdoor activities, Reading, Spending time with pets, Travel, TV, Video games, Volunteer work, Working out |
| attributes: | Funny, Active, Adaptable, Adventurous, Athletic/In Shape, Attractive, Caring, Communicative, Family Oriented, Generous, Honest, Humble, Intelligent/Bright, Low Maintenance, Outdoorsy, Positive Attitude, Problem Solver, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy |
| my idea of a great date: |
| Everybody always gives the stock cheesy answer. I don't think location matters. I don't think the event matters. Honest communication and lack of BS is so important. Just trying to bridge the gap and make a connection is hard enough, why fill it full of obstacles right at the start? I think the best possible date would start with a simple walk. A movie is THE WORST idea for a first date. You need to be able to talk, right? Maybe follow the walk with a simple dinner. Not McDonald's or any fast food place. Just a simple "Ma and Pa" type place. |
| the person I would like to meet: |
| HONESTY. You have no idea how important that is to me. I found out at the end of marriage that the whole thing was a joke to my spouse. When someone offers their heart to you, it isn't a game. It isn't funny to screw with one's feelings at all. (Honestly, I'm really not THAT jaded. Just a little). I need somebody that will not only accept my weaknesses, but will challenge me in the time we spend together to become a better person. I want to build up, never tear down. Negative and bitter people need not read on. You can move on to the next person, please. I consider myself happy-go-lucky. I've always taken life as it comes. Money really doesn't matter too much to me. I'm pretty simple in that aspect. I need a person that believes in LOVE. Not the stupid sappy Hollywood love, or the twisted neurotic head game shit, either. I expect to be challenged to grow as a person, as I will challenge you as well. I'd hope that you would also call me out when I get out of line, too.I don't want a mother, I already have one. I want a partner. An equal. Is that too tall of an order? |
| Ideal Match |
| attributes: (med) | Active, Adaptable, Adventurous, Athletic/In Shape, Attractive, Caring, Communicative, Generous, Honest, Humble, Intelligent/Bright, Low Maintenance, Organized, Positive Attitude, Religious, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy, Funny |
| body type: (low) | Athletic / Toned, Slim / Slender |
| religion: (low) | Spiritual |
| wants children: (med) | Maybe/Undecided |
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