| Michelangelo said David was already in the marble |
| about myself: |
To be perfectly honest, that is a perfect metaphor for my existance.
For as long as I can remember, I have been the type of person to "become" what the woman I'm with, wants me to become. A lump of clay, if you will, which a woman can shape and mold into her perfect man.
Don't get me wrong, I still have my likes and dislikes, my own identity for lack of a better term. But I believe the woman comes first. She should be honored, reviered, and cherished. After all the purpose of a relationship is to have the knowledge that the your mate is loyal, in love with you, and ultimately proud of the person you are.
In a relationship, or with me, even dating someone, there is nobody else but them. A one woman man, thats what I am. No games, fooling around, or flirting. That just wouldn't be fair. Its hard enough to find someone anymore in this crazy world we live in to rock the boat.
I have been alone now for about 2 years, by choice, to kind of re-assess my morals and values. I'm content, but starting to reach the point of feeling lonely for companionship. Having fun is number one. Falling in love is number two. And becoming one, where there once was two, is number three.
Age dosen't matter to me. Time is irrelavent. And stature, both physical and financial, are things that shouldn't be important as long as people are compatable.
My past is behind me, and my future is bright. My appearence is present in my photos. The rest is up to you. |
| willing to relocate: | Yes |
| marital status: | Single |
| seeking relationship: | Casual dating, Friendship, Long term relationship, On line chat, "Intimate" activities, Marriage, Whatever works |
| looking for a match: | Anywhere |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Brown |
| hair: | Dark blonde |
| hairstyles: | Shoulder-length |
| body type: | Slim / Slender |
| height: | 6'0 (183cm) |
| weight: | 150 lbs (69kg) |
| bodyart: | Visible tattoo, Ear piercing(s) |
| Background |
| education: | High school |
| ethnicity: | Caucasian, Other |
| speaks: | English |
| religion: | Spiritual |
| Lifestyle |
| smokes: | Average smoker |
| drinks: | Rarely |
| living status: | Living alone |
| has children: | Yes |
| how many: | Three |
| about my children: |
| Although I have stated that I am single, I have been married from 1989-1993 and have two boys from that marriage. Alex is 18, and Bobby is 17. They live in Ft Wayne with their mother and her husband. After I was divorced I was in an on again/ off again relationship that produced my youngest boy, Charlie, who is 12. He lives in Muncie with his mother. All three boys are smart as a whip, and get their creative talents from me. I don't get to spend a lot of time with them lately because of my financial obligation to them. Its like a double sided coin. I'm just praying they understand and will be a bigger part of my life in the future. |
| wants children: | Maybe/Undecided |
| job: | Artistic/Creative/Performance |
| about my work: |
I have been given the greatest gift in the job that I have. I worked for a cleaning and hauling company. What we did is haul off just about everything that people don't want anymore. Everything from building materials from a contruction site, to unused goodies out of people's garages. I got my computer from one of those cleanouts. I not only got a chance to excersise and stay in shape, but got to meet new people all over the city, of varrying lifestyles and ethnicities. Not to mention getting to know my way around. It didn't pay much at all, but the benefits outwayed everything.
I now work for a powder coating business. Painting various metal objects with electrified powdered paint, and then baking them to form a finished surface. I love it because it not only takes advantage of my skill as an artist, but satisfying to experience the results and a job well done.
In my spare time I am an artist in another sense, I love to paint, draw, sculpt, and write. Possibly one day when I am unable to continue as a working man, I hope to make a living in the creative field. |
| income: | $35,001 to $50,000 |
| political position: | Middle of the road |
| Qualities |
| activities: | Antiquing/collecting, Board games/cards, Crafts, Computers/surfing the web, Home improvement, Movies, Museums/arts, Music/concerts, News/politics/following current events, Outdoor activities, Spending time with pets, Sporting events, Travel, TV, Video games, Shopping |
| attributes: | Funny, Active, Adaptable, Adventurous, Athletic/In Shape, Caring, Generous, Honest, Humble, Intelligent/Bright, Low Maintenance, Problem Solver, Respectful of Others Opinions, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy |
| my idea of a great date: |
| My idea of a great date is first meeting for a cup of coffee, then a walk, either in the park, or at the mall, or even at a flea market or event at the fairgrounds. Then a light, sit down, afternoon snack,and a chance to talk again. Then if it leads to a second date, maybe a movie, play, concert, or dvd at home. |
| the person I would like to meet: |
| I would like to meet someone who is fun, faithful, and willing to work together to accomplish mutual goals. No controllers. Like I said before, I try to get along with everyone, but the only personallity type I can't stand is someone who thinks they are better than someone, because I don't. I have run the spectrum of wealth, you could say. I have seen and interacted with people of all kinds, rich and poor, and know you can find an angel under a cardboard box. I do like women who are smarter than me, it stretches my intellect. And someone who can teach me things I don't know. Beauty and wealth are not important to me. |
| Ideal Match |
| smokes: (low) | Average smoker |
| activities: (med) | Antiquing/collecting, Board games/cards, Crafts, Computers/surfing the web, Family/children, Gardening, Home improvement, Movies, Museums/arts, Music/concerts, News/politics/following current events, Outdoor activities, Spending time with pets, Sporting events, TV |
| drinks: (low) | Socially |
| ethnicity: (low) | Asian, Caucasian, European, Hispanic/Latin, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, Other |
| living status: (med) | Living alone, Living with kids, Living with pet(s), Living with kids (part time) |
| attributes: (med) | Active, Adaptable, Adventurous, Caring, Communicative, Family Oriented, Generous, Goal Oriented, Honest, Humble, Intelligent/Bright, Organized, Positive Attitude, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy, Funny |
| pet(s): (low) | Amphibian(s), Cat(s), Dog(s), Fish |
| speaks: (high) | English |
| height: (low) | 4'2 (127cm) to 5'10 (178cm) |
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