| Ok, I'm here. Now what are your other two wishes? |
| about myself: |
"I'll be your dream... I'll be your wish... I'll be your fantasy.
I'll be your hope... I'll be your love... be everything that you need."
In the past I have always "settled" for less than I deserve in a relationship. Recently, I have done a lot of soul searching, and I finally realized that until you know YOURSELF, you will never know what you are searching for.
I am brutally honest and upfront. I feel it scares a lot of men off... I'm a woman who knows who she is and what she wants in life. I am NOT looking for a man I can live with, but rather one I cannot live without. I believe that is developed by being FRIENDS first.
There's no skipping the appetizer and going straight for the dessert with this girl. I will not get involved with anyone on a sexual level until we are intimate friends first. I do not want the illusion of intimacy... I want the real thing. So, take your time and enjoy the "foreplay".
I am looking for someone to share my hopes and dreams with, and maybe even help make some of them come true. I believe that a good relationship is built on trust and being open with one another. I want to be able to communicate with you, and be accepted and respected.
I don't NEED a man... I WANT one... and when you get to that point in your life, I believe you are a gift to the one that finds you because you will give from your heart and appreciate all the little things the right person has to offer.
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| willing to relocate: | Perhaps, if it was for the right person |
| marital status: | Single |
| seeking relationship: | Casual dating, Friendship, Long term relationship, On line chat, "Intimate" activities, Marriage, Whatever works |
| looking for a match: | Anywhere |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Brown |
| hair: | Dark brown |
| hairstyles: | Shoulder-length, Straight & natural |
| body type: | Curvy |
| height: | 5'2 (157cm) |
| bodyart: | Hidden tattoo, Ear piercing(s) |
| Background |
| education: | Some college |
| ethnicity: | Caucasian |
| religion: | Other |
| Lifestyle |
| smokes: | No, don't smoke |
| drinks: | Rarely |
| living status: | Living with kids, Living with pet(s) |
| pet(s): | Cat(s), Fish, Reptile(s) |
| has children: | Yes |
| how many: | Two |
| about my children: |
I have devoted the last 22 years to two beautiful daughters... and one adorable granddaughter... they are my reasons for living.
When my youngest graduates in two more years, I plan to become a "gypsy" and travel the world... |
| wants children: | Already have one/a few and no more |
| job: | Other |
| about my work: |
| I feed my bank account by being creative... my heart by loving... and my soul by dreaming... my job does not define who I am... sometimes I am the life of the party... and at other times, I am happiest when alone... I have been a Multimedia Digital Designer for 22 years... I really love the creative outlet, and can not imagine doing anything else... except being a mom (which is the toughest job I have ever had... but I wouldn't change it for the world). |
| political position: | Don't really care |
| Qualities |
| activities: | Antiquing/collecting, Board games/cards, Computers/surfing the web, Family/children, Fashion events, Gardening, Home improvement, Museums/arts, Music/concerts, Reading, Spending time with pets, Travel, Volunteer work, Working out, Shopping |
| attributes: | Funny, Active, Adaptable, Adventurous, Caring, Communicative, Family Oriented, Generous, Goal Oriented, Honest, Intelligent/Bright, Opinionated, Positive Attitude, Problem Solver, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy |
| my idea of a great date: |
A "perfect" first date... is that even POSSIBLE? Should we really have expectations of perfection? We will only be disappointed when we discover that "perfect" does NOT exist. I think we should just enjoy people for WHO they are without "expectations"... then we can be pleasantly surprised when things go well rather than disappointed when they don't.
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***Today someone sent me this email... and I wanted to include it (along with my responses), so as not to mislead anyone about who and what I am.
I was thinking... wow, brains, attitude and looks.
But I think you might have left out a few things like:
extremely challenging... (yes, but only in the beginning)
hard to communicate with... (not even close to being true)
difficult to understand... (aren't all women? lol)
hard to read... (that could possibly be the email thing)
brash perhaps... (okay, this one I do get called sometimes)
cold... (not unless it is below 65 degrees)
nonchalant... (only on the surface)
demanding... (sometimes, but not unreasonably so)
Not that those are bad qualities... just qualities a lot of men don't know how to handle or don't want to handle.
(true... but I am only interested in the man who CAN handle it, and actually ENJOYS it)
Now let me say, I was not offended at all by this man's email.
I like an honest man.
One who is not afraid to tell me when the dress I am wearing is NOT very flattering.
Actually, this email was much more of a turn on to me than a bucket full of sexual innuendos :) |
| the person I would like to meet: |
The ONE for me will encompass all that it means to be a "real" man.
I want a NICE GUY... BAD BOY... FUNNY MAN... SEX TOY... and SERIOUS PHILOSOPHER all in one wonderful package...
and I will NOT settle for less this time.
I do not know where he is but I know he exists, as surely as I know my own heart. He is the man that lives each night in my dreams. I know his presence so well I can almost smell him, taste his lips. When I find him I will know him. In spite of the fact we have not yet met, I can tell you exactly WHO he is. I don't know what he looks like, but he is confident, intelligent, fun, passionate, thoughtful, trustworthy and sensual. I long to find this man who is patient, relaxed, easy-going, down to earth, and yet still maintains a measure of responsibility and ambition, as well as strength of character.
I want his respect, protection, loyalty, and guidance for my children, as well as myself. I want to listen to him in distant conversations across the room and be proud that he has a mind and chooses to use it wisely.
He will be considerate of my feelings, and truly care about what I have to say. He must be able to look through me and see my soul, and I him.
He has no trouble expressing his emotions, but never lets his emotions rule his head. Almost obsessive, he latches on to a goal and does not let go until he reaches it. He is not easy to get close to. His trust has to be earned and he will examine people ruthlessly before they pass his inspection. But once his love is granted, he is fiercely loyal.
He is a reluctant yet brave warrior, never entering a battle lightly, but for a noble cause will risk everything. He will always hold true to his beliefs and values, and never forget "who" he is.
In my dreams he always kisses me softly before he goes – when we finally meet, I know he will never leave.
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| Ideal Match |
| drinks: (low) | Never, Rarely, Socially |
| attributes: (low) | Adaptable, Adventurous, Caring, Communicative, Family Oriented, Goal Oriented, Honest, Humble, Intelligent/Bright, Positive Attitude, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy, Funny |
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