| Consider yourself warned!! |
| about myself: |
Don't come at me with any BS & we'll get along just fine. I'm a very honest person & I expect the same from others. I don't have time nor patience for liars, jerks or games. Ok, now that I've scared off the jerks........I am who I am. I'm mother. I'm daughter. I'm sister. I'm cousin. I'm friend. I'm silly. I'm extremely Southern! I'm a damn good mom. I'm playful. I'm helpful. I'm respectful. I'm kind. I'm strong. I'm independent. I'm pro-accountability. I'm imperfect. I'm a chocoholic! I'm driven. I'm brave. I'm bold. I'm scared to death. I've been both the hurter & the hurtee. Hell, sometimes I'm even bitchy. But one thing is certain.....I'm very straight-forward! I hate BS. I hate lame pick up lines. Don't lay it on thick cuz I'll call you on it every time. Just relax, slow your roll & talk to me.
(The baby in the pix is my cousin's baby....and MY sweetheart. My kids are teenagers.)
Oh yeah, one last thing.....Mean people can kiss my @ss!!! |
| willing to relocate: | No |
| marital status: | Divorced |
| seeking relationship: | Friendship, On line chat, Whatever works |
| looking for a match: | Anywhere |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Hazel brown |
| hair: | Light brown |
| hairstyles: | Shoulder-length |
| body type: | Average |
| height: | 5'6 (168cm) |
| weight: | 135 lbs (62kg) |
| bodyart: | Hidden tattoo, Tongue piercing(s) |
| Background |
| education: | Some college |
| ethnicity: | Caucasian, Hispanic/Latin, Mixed Race |
| more specifically: | Mexican |
| speaks: | English |
| Lifestyle |
| smokes: | Average smoker |
| drinks: | Socially |
| living status: | Living with kids |
| has children: | Yes |
| how many: | Three |
| about my children: |
| I have 3 teenagers. All 3 live with me. They are my entire world. |
| wants children: | Already have one/a few and no more |
| job: | Sales/Marketing |
| about my work: |
| Work is the second biggest part of my life. I am a bit of a workaholic at times. |
| Qualities |
| activities: | Bars/pubs, Board games/cards, Clubbing, Crafts, Computers/surfing the web, Dinner parties, Family/children, Home improvement, Museums/arts, Music/concerts, Volunteer work, Wine tasting, Working out, Shopping |
| attributes: | Funny, Adaptable, Adventurous, Attractive, Caring, Communicative, Family Oriented, Generous, Goal Oriented, Honest, Humble, Intelligent/Bright, Opinionated, Positive Attitude, Problem Solver, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy |
| my idea of a great date: |
| A Dave Matthews Band concert! |
| the person I would like to meet: |
The Invitation
It doesn't interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.
It doesn't interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love..for your dream...for the adventure of being alive.
It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon...
I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow..if you have been opened by life's betrayals
or have become shrivelled and closed from fear of further pain.
I want to know if you can sit with pain..mine or your own..without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.
I want to know if you can be with joy mine or your own
if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes
without cautioning us to be careful to be realistic
to remember the limitations of being human.
It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true.
I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself.
If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul.
If you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.
I want to know if you can see Beauty even when it is not pretty..every day.
And if you can source your own life from its presence.
I want to know if you can live with failure..yours and mine and still stand at the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,Yes!
It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair
weary and bruised to the bone and do what needs to be done to feed the children.
It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.
It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away.
I want to kn |
| Ideal Match |
| activities: (low) | Family/children, Movies, Museums/arts, Music/concerts, Wine tasting, Working out |
| hair: (med) | Bald or shaved, Black, Brown, Dark blonde, Dark brown, Light brown |
| ethnicity: (low) | Caucasian, European, Hispanic/Latin, Mixed Race, Native American, Other |
| hairstyles: (low) | Above the ears, Bald or shaved, Straight & natural, Teased or spiked |
| speaks: (low) | English |
| body type: (low) | Athletic / Toned, Average, Few extra pounds, Muscular, Slim / Slender, Stocky |
| height: (med) | 5'8 (173cm) to 6'6 (198cm) |
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