| A Light in the darkness and darkness in the light |
| about myself: |
As with most people, I'm a conflicting mass of emotions, lol, though unlike most people I accept it. I calmly accept the good and bad, and somehow find a balance between both of them. I'm a goth and a hippy, some sort of mix of happy thoughts and dark thoughts. I hate games and drama, so if you are one of those people, bugger off. ;)
I used to do Renaissance festivals, traveling all over the country (US) and spending 2 months at each festival in a tent, slowly getting to a bigger and bigger tent as I went, lol. I loved living in a tent much better than living in a house, living about as close to nature as you can get. I miss hearing the insects chirping at night and the sound of rain on my tent, waking to the fresh air with the sun warming the tent. Whether in the desert in Arizona, the mountains of Colorado, or the woods in Texas, Ohio, or Georgia, I was completely at home. I've climbed a mountain and sat on top of it, watching the eagles fly by, swam in an ice-cold stream in the mountains that pop up out of the desert, sat in the clay filled mud in a rainstorm and molded little heads out of the clay, and swam naked and sunbathed by the falls with other people while we tattooed each other with mendhi dyes (indian dyes made of leaves that you squeeze from a tube in neat designs).
I may not meet the "norm" as set by popular belief, but I've never been one to allow others to decide things for me. I think that everyone should do whatever makes them happy, life is too short to constrict yourself by worrying about what others think and letting yourself be made to do what other want and not do things for yourself.
There's a lot more, including some things others may think are strange, but I guess the rest of my profile can explain it, so I would suggest you read it. I am married, but don't hold that against me, lol, just take a look, it's an interesting read anyway. ;) |
| willing to relocate: | Perhaps, if it was for the right person |
| marital status: | Married |
| seeking relationship: | Casual dating, Friendship, Long term relationship, On line chat, "Intimate" activities, Whatever works |
| looking for a match: | within United Kingdom |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Green brown |
| hair: | Auburn |
| hairstyles: | Long & lush, Straight & natural |
| body type: | Average |
| height: | 5'8 (173cm) |
| weight: | 160 lbs (73kg) |
| bodyart: | Visible tattoo, Ear piercing(s), Tongue piercing(s) |
| Background |
| education: | High school |
| ethnicity: | Caucasian, Native American |
| speaks: | English |
| religion: | Other |
| attend ceremonies: | Never |
| Lifestyle |
| living status: | Living with partner |
| has children: | Yes |
| how many: | One |
| about my children: |
| I have a beautiful son with red hair and blue eyes, though he doesn't live with me but lives with his mother in Texas. I stopped doing Renaissance festivals for a girl (yeah stupid me) and we decided, after a year together, to have a child. We moved to Ohio from Texas, and one time, when she went with my son to visit her mother in Texas, she cheated on me there and decided not to come back to Ohio, she's now married to the guy. She stole my heart when she left, not because she left, but because she took my son away from me. I was with him 24 hours a day and took care of him while she worked, she wasn't happy when I worked because she could make so much money than I could at the time, which was plenty but not what she was used to, she was an exotic dancer. My son means everything to me and I miss him more than anything in the world, but I haven't been able to afford to move close to him yet. I hope to someday have half custody of him so he can come live with me for the summers, wherever I'm living, whether it be here in the US, or in Scotland. My son is 6 now and born on the lunar eclipse January 20th of 2000. He's a magical boy. ;) |
| wants children: | Maybe/Undecided |
| job: | Other |
| political position: | Non-conformist |
| Qualities |
| activities: | Antiquing/collecting, Bars/pubs, Computers/surfing the web, Gardening, Movies, Museums/arts, Music/concerts, Outdoor activities, Reading, Spending time with pets, Travel, TV, Video games, Volunteer work, Shopping |
| attributes: | Funny, Adaptable, Adventurous, Attractive, Caring, Communicative, Generous, Honest, Intelligent/Bright, Low Maintenance, Opinionated, Outdoorsy, Problem Solver, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy |
| my idea of a great date: |
| Any date where all parties involved have fun. Fun is important, no matter what form it takes. ;) |
| the person I would like to meet: |
1) Friends
-Friends are great, you can never have enough friends, male and female. If you would like to be my friend I'll accept you, I can always delete you if you annoy me, though that takes a lot, lol. Religion isn't my thing, especially Christianity.
2) Possible dates for my wife and I. ;)
-Women that would be willing to go out on dates with my wife and I would be great. As you know, dates can turn out to just be fun meetings or can turn into something more, it just depends on how things go, you never know. ;) We are more than happy to just go out with someone to do something without expecting things to end up in bed, just a good time out. If things do end up going farther, we would prefer to end up at your place, because we are bigtime cat people, we do some rescuing, and we don't like to subject people to being overrun with cats, lol. The first meeting should always be somewhere neutral, in a bar, Putt Putt golf, etc., we don't want people feeling unsafe, etc., even ourselves. Right now we're not looking for a "relationship", though we're looking for that special someone, we are patient and whatever will be will be. If our outings with someone are for just one night, that's ok, ya never know what may happen. We are open and honest people who treat anyone with respect that treats us the same way, and will also be loving in turn. My wife is on here too, her username is Incilli. We may have a different type of view on relationships, but we're looking for that someone the same as you. ;)
My wife and I met on Matchdoctor by the way, she moved here to be with me and we've lived happily ever after (hey, time and age are measured only by man and the constraints we put on ourselves, so "ever after" is now). ;) So, if our idea of what we'd like isn't your thing, maybe you WILL find that special someone on here, never give up hope. :) |
| Ideal Match |
| smokes: (low) | Average smoker, From time to time in clubs and bars, Light smoker, Enjoy Cigars or pipes |
| eyes: (high) | Black/Ebony, Blue, Blue gray, Blue green, Brown, Colored contacts, Dark brown, Gray, Green, Green brown, Green gray, Hazel, Hazel brown, Turquoise, Violet |
| activities: (low) | Antiquing/collecting, Bars/pubs, Board games/cards, Clubbing, Crafts, Computers/surfing the web, Dinner parties, Fashion events, Gardening, Home improvement, Movies, Museums/arts, Music/concerts, News/politics/following current events, Outdoor activities, Reading, Running/jogging, Spending time with pets, Travel, TV, Video games, Volunteer work, Wine tasting, Working out, Shopping |
| drinks: (low) | Rarely, Socially, Yes! |
| hair: (med) | Auburn, Black, Brown, Copper red, Dark blonde, Dark brown, Light blonde, Light brown, Lots of colors!, Strawberry blonde |
| hairstyles: (low) | Above the ears, Bob, Braided or cornrows, Curly, Long & lush, Shoulder-length, Straight & natural, Teased or spiked, Other |
| living status: (med) | Living alone, Living with pet(s), Living with roommate(s), Social household (family and/or friends over often), Living with kids (part time) |
| attributes: (low) | Active, Adaptable, Adventurous, Athletic/In Shape, Attractive, Caring, Communicative, Generous, Honest, Humble, Intelligent/Bright, Low Maintenance, Opinionated, Outdoorsy, Positive Attitude, Problem Solver, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy, Funny |
| pet(s): (low) | Amphibian(s), Bird(s), Cat(s), Dog(s), Fish, Reptile(s), Rodent(s), Other |
| body type: (high) | Athletic / Toned, Average, Curvy, Muscular, Slim / Slender |
| religion: (low) | Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Hindu, Spiritual, Other |
| wants children: (low) | Already have one/a few and no more, Yes, probably, Maybe/Undecided, Do not want children |
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