| Seeking blue eyed female, born 12 January 1983 |
| about myself: |
A recipe for Forgiveness.
The ingredients, and directions for use, may vary with your imagination.
Select a container, such as a plastic spice bottle. Label it: Forgiveness
Add some cornstarch or cocoa to the container.
You may also want to put some "Directions for Use" on it, such as:
1 Accidents can happen, and sometimes we break things, or hearts, unintentionally.
2 It can be much easier to make mistakes, than it is to admit and correct our mistakes.
3 When you make, or find your mistake, sprinkle just enough of this "Forgiveness" on it to mark it plainly as yours, and prevent the cat, or anyone else from being blamed.
4 Leave the mistake in plain view until everyone sees you prefer to deal with it honestly; and honorably accept the responsibility for it.
5 Are you the first one to make this mistake? Do you want to be the last one?
6 We waste a mistake by hiding it. By sharing our mistakes with others, they may pay for themselves more fairly, in preventing more of the same mistakes.
7 Concealing a mistake may cause many other mistakes, more difficult to correct.
8 The value of mistakes is in understanding the lessons they are trying to teach us.
9 Genuinely participate in discussing how to avoid making this mistake again, and get any help you need.
10 Forgiving ourselves, may prove to be the most difficult part of making a mistake.
11 We may find forgiving our own mistakes easier after we practice, forgiving the mistakes of others.
12 Forgiveness feels good, whether given or received.
13 The unforgivable; fail to ask, accept, or give their Forgiveness.
“Forgiveness is one of, “The best things in life [that] are free”
This may only be the beginning, of a more complete set, of useful tools.
What would our children and grandchildren do; with bottles of: Enthusiasm, Courage, and Hope, along with Forgiveness?
A pleasure to contribute something helpful when it is needed. |
| willing to relocate: | Yes |
| marital status: | Divorced |
| seeking relationship: | Friendship, Long term relationship, On line chat, Marriage, Whatever works |
| looking for a match: | Anywhere |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Blue |
| hair: | Dark brown |
| hairstyles: | Straight & natural |
| body type: | Average |
| height: | 5'8 (173cm) |
| weight: | 185 lbs (85kg) |
| bodyart: | None |
| Background |
| education: | Associates degree |
| ethnicity: | Caucasian |
| speaks: | English |
| religion: | Other |
| Lifestyle |
| smokes: | No, don't smoke |
| drinks: | Never |
| living status: | Living alone, Living with pet(s) |
| pet(s): | Cat(s) |
| has children: | Yes |
| how many: | One |
| about my children: |
My daughter attends college and stays with her mom on the East Coast of the United States.
I miss the, "Pick me up, Daddy." fun parts, about 3 to 8 years old, the most. She was always at the top of her class, until High School. Mean girls took her down a notch, her parents relationship failed, and a stable home life was forfeited.
*******
It invigorates the weak,
Overwhelms the strong.
It bewitches the good,
And captivates the evil.
Strikes like lightening,
Is as gentle as the dew.
We might be blinded,
Or we may truly see,
With its light shining,
From within our hearts.
This wondrous treasure,
We share with others,
Is a welcome comfort,
When they feel it too.
Giving, and receiving,
Love, embraces us all.
Within our own minds, in an alternate reality, our imaginations may create the gentle person we imagine each other to be. This person we imagine, can have a very powerful influence over us when we eventually meet somebody. Will this real person be exactly like they are in our dreams? In reality, people we meet are very different from the most wonderful persons to whom we have generously given, with our imaginations, everything we wanted them to have. When the real person that becomes our future mate fails to be the person we expected them to be, our disillusionment is unable to hide itself. We read each others body language and feel the disappointment, loneliness, and rejection. Success in relationship is more easily attained when we are ready to allow the real person we find to have some major disadvantages. We can make believe with the most wonderful persons we create in our imaginations, or we can make love with the real people we actually meet. We will choose to hold on to our dreams, or to hold each other in our arms, and exchange real love. . . always. . . completely. . . forever. . .
You may Google, b9f8, to open our communication link. |
| wants children: | Maybe/Undecided |
| job: | Retired |
| about my work: |
I explore and express alternative viewpoints
In this world, there are, "The Laws of Nature", and there are the guidelines of men and the Gods, men created. Man makes all of the easily broken rules, laws, and guidelines. Nature created all the unbreakable Laws. Men choose to abide by His Rules, or not. Rules created by men apply to some men, but not to others, and man's law has obviously inferior enforcement. Nature holds each of us fairly to the same Laws, without regard for our status. Man, nor his Gods, are strong enough to break the Laws of Nature. “Time and tides, wait for no man.” is truly a Law, because we all are held in perfect obedience to it.
Natural Laws are not able to pardon us, for creating carbon dioxide overloads, with our Black Magic Lifestyle. We have gained partial control of our living environments now, thanks to life's 3 billion-year struggle. In cosmological time, life on this planet has only just recently crawled out of the primordial mud, from which it arose. Because we are a young species, human greed, the need for conformity to beliefs, and the ostracism of diversity, is apprehensible. Humans are now poised to fail, reversing the tenacious advance of life, and fall; back into the primordial mud. We will stifle and perish, along with all the other higher life forms. Humans have created conditions that humans can not survive. We blame and evade our own personal responsibility for this imminent disaster, rather than avoid it, by removing the excess atmospheric and oceanic carbon dioxide, we created; immediately. Destruction of the natural environment by humans will end, here on this dying planet, as we assist to create our own hideous extinction. Our love of power, strife, and conquest, will not spread throughout the galaxies.
The Universe will be left in peace. . . once again.
We understand, not. . . The Empire, we are. |
| political position: | Non-conformist |
| Qualities |
| activities: | Antiquing/collecting, Board games/cards, Computers/surfing the web, Gardening, Home improvement, Movies, Music/concerts, News/politics/following current events, Spending time with pets, TV, Volunteer work, Shopping |
| attributes: | Adaptable, Communicative, Low Maintenance, Trustworthy |
| my idea of a great date: |
When we learn to make the music, we may dance to our own tune. . . for free.
Love calls... throughout the entire world... with subtle glance, captivating perfume, alluring song, or coarse remarks; and awaits the just right answer. Some may pine long and lonely, waiting for True Love; until at last, The Someone, appears. Joyfully we embrace in our opportunity to feel Love; as powerfully as we can manage to GIVE it... for the rest of our lifetime... or, alas; even for the brief moments in time when we are chosen to blossom. We risk all of our emotional vulnerability, with fearless, imaginary trust in each others charms; feeling our sentimental lives are now safe, once again... in a new caress.
Love, I hear you calling. “Prince Charming. . . Prince Charming. . . where are you?”
I answer, “Rribbitt; aaribbitt! Splash!”
Soon you hear the leaves rustling as I approach, you look down as I throw myself at your feet, your eyes open wide, as you jump away startled to see a frog.
You were expecting me to be mounted, on Steed.
Quickly, I must convince you that I AM whom you seek, now while we are together, before you turn this page. How will I manage to hop into your heart, and be felt by you in there, as one meant for you?
Imagination. . . Invention. . . Intention. . . Faith. . .
Miraculously, I feel your warm hands grasping me. I am uplifted into your tenderness. You hold me close for awhile, I feel your lovely radiance, filling me.
Love light grows bright, we share a bliss.
Aahhaaa; mmhhmm! This is so exquisite. . . to live, in love.
Why are you looking at my legs like that?
Oh no: your reality and my fantasy have gotten mixed up. You want me for lunch, not for our happily ever after!
My. . . how brilliantly your blue eyes twinkle, when I tickle your funny bone.
Love, is as blind as Justice aspires to be: and Love, has the courage to be kind. |
| the person I would like to meet: |
You enjoy demonstrating inclusive humanitarian philosophy, and developing comprehension between our points of perception, thoughtfully, rather than quick; and sincerely, rather than lavish.
<3 I know that you want Romance. <3
You enjoy charming me, into enthusiastic support for your ideas of direction, purpose, and growth in our relationship. You are usually hot, for me, and let me know it.
If I could buy you, I would; but you are priceless, so the best I can hope to do is a trade. 2 hearts 4 free: give one and get one.
You may understand that the value of spiritual belief is associated with where it comes from. When we receive, as children, teachings given to us by someone else, they may have less real value, than what comes from within us, from our own internal spiritual awareness. Buddha, Mohammed, Christ, Lao-Tzu, and many others shared with us the Inspirations that came through, or from within them. By the time this information is made available to us it is very distant hearsay. Apparently, religious conviction provides the stimulation for most of this planet's combat and devastation. When our spiritual illumination comes from within, we will want to champion peace. When our illumination is imported from without. . . annihilation.
Why do we meek, mimic the powerful, in righteous condemnation of the weak; without ever truly knowing the heart of the cursed? We boldly confirm Management's brutal response to the whistle blower. Fire him, then spread misinformation to vilify and malign the victim into our scapegoat, Lucifer.
If You only want "Yes men", Create and surround Yourself with puppets.
Violent outbursts of Wrath may indicate, Intermittent Explosive Disorder.
Do not judge, and you will never be mistaken.
- Jean Jacques Rousseau
The difference between being right and wrong, is admitting it. - J. Allison |
| Ideal Match |
| eyes: (med) | Blue, Blue gray, Blue green, Turquoise, Violet |
| hair: (low) | Dark blonde, Light blonde, Strawberry blonde |
| hairstyles: (low) | Long & lush, Shoulder-length, Straight & natural, Other |
| attributes: (low) | Adaptable, Communicative |
| body type: (low) | Athletic / Toned, Average, Slim / Slender |
| height: (low) | 4'10 (147cm) to 6'0 (183cm) |
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