| Wanted: Part Gentleman, Part Scoundrel |
| about myself: |
To begin, I am mentally and emotionally stable, fairly intelligent, and I don't do drama. I have recently finished my degree and I have a decent job. I like people with strong work ethic, so if you are perpetually unemployed, thanks for looking, but please look elsewhere. I am looking for a long term relationship, but I will not turn down any potential friendships either. I have a good (often sarcastic) sense of humor, and can be very witty. I have two sons - a teen and a tween- and they are part of the package. If you can't deal with forming relationships with them (eventually) then you need to look somewhere else. Do I sound harsh? I don't mean to, I just want to make sure these things are out on the table. There is nothing worse, in my opinion, than finding out that someone is not the person you thought they were. Having said that, I am not a mind reader, and my crystal ball is in the shop more often than not, so I hope you are a great communicator.
I am the type of woman that will dress up for dinner out, but will take off my shoes to play in the puddles. BTW, in case you didn't see it in the briefs, I have "a little extra padding". There was a lot more padding, but I am on my way down the scale. I don't consider myself to be fat, but losing another 15 or 20 isn't going to kill me. I'm working on it, but if the thought of dating a plus size woman is unappealing, then please continue your search elsewhere.
I am looking for someone that is kind, not mushy. Passionate without being a skirt chaser, fun loving, but takes time to be serious. Must love to kiss and be good at it. I don't think that crazy hot passion is too much to ask for, do you? |
| willing to relocate: | No |
| marital status: | Divorced |
| seeking relationship: | Casual dating, Long term relationship, Whatever works |
| looking for a match: | within Illinois, United States |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Blue |
| hair: | Auburn |
| hairstyles: | Shoulder-length |
| body type: | Full-figured |
| height: | 5'6 (168cm) |
| bodyart: | Ear piercing(s) |
| Background |
| education: | Bachelor's degree |
| ethnicity: | Caucasian |
| speaks: | English |
| religion: | Christian / Protestant |
| denomination: | Baptist |
| attend ceremonies: | Never |
| Lifestyle |
| smokes: | Light smoker |
| drinks: | Socially |
| living status: | Living with kids |
| has children: | Yes |
| how many: | Two |
| about my children: |
| My boys are everything to me. I am teaching them how to be men when they are older. I mean men I can be proud of. |
| wants children: | Do not want children |
| job: | Management/Consulting |
| about my work: |
| It's a nice place. |
| income: | $25,001 to $35,000 |
| political position: | Liberal |
| Qualities |
| activities: | Antiquing/collecting, Board games/cards, Crafts, Computers/surfing the web, Family/children, Gardening, Home improvement, Movies, Museums/arts, Music/concerts, Outdoor activities, Reading, Sporting events, TV, Wine tasting, Shopping |
| attributes: | Funny, Attractive, Caring, Communicative, Family Oriented, Generous, Goal Oriented, Honest, Intelligent/Bright, Low Maintenance, Opinionated, Positive Attitude, Problem Solver, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy |
| my idea of a great date: |
| A decent meal, doesn't have to be fancy, just something nice. Picnics with wine. Lots of talking about the ideas and events that made us the people that we are today. Miniature golf is great. Hotdogs around a campfire. |
| the person I would like to meet: |
| The person I would like to meet is kind without being a push-over, Amusing, but doesn't think that EVERYTHING is funny, and can make a decision without consulting every living member of his family. He is smart without being dull, charming without being a skirt chaser, and willing to put forth the effort needed to make a relationship work (as will I). He must be open to dating a full bodied woman. He should be a good speller, (because that is a nasty little quirk I have) and he must be a good kisser :-) |
| Ideal Match |
| education: (med) | Some college, Associates degree, Bachelor's degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral |
| smokes: (low) | Average smoker, From time to time in clubs and bars, Light smoker, Trying to quit! |
| activities: (med) | Antiquing/collecting, Board games/cards, Family/children, Home improvement, Museums/arts, Reading |
| drinks: (med) | Rarely, Socially |
| ethnicity: (med) | Caucasian |
| living status: (low) | Living alone, Living with kids, Living with pet(s), Living with roommate(s), Living with kids (part time) |
| attributes: (med) | Adaptable, Attractive, Caring, Communicative, Family Oriented, Generous, Goal Oriented, Honest, Intelligent/Bright, Low Maintenance, Organized, Positive Attitude, Problem Solver, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy, Funny |
| pet(s): (low) | Bird(s), Cat(s), Dog(s), Fish |
| speaks: (high) | English |
| body type: (med) | Average, Few extra pounds, Stocky |
| height: (med) | 5'8 (173cm) |
| religion: (low) | Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual, Christian |
| job: (med) | Accounting/Finance, Advertising/Public Relations, Architecture/Engineering, Agriculture/ Forestry/Fishing, Artistic/Creative/Performance, Banking/Mortgage, Computers/IT, Construction/Facilities, Education/Training, Executive/Management, Financial Services, Government, Healthcare, Hospitality/Travel, Human Resources, Insurance, Internet/New Media, Law Enforcement/Security, Legal, Management/Consulting, Marketing, Medical/Dental/Veterinary, Not for profit, Pharmaceutical/Biotech, Political/Govt/Civil Service/Military, Real Estate, Restaurant/Food Service, Retail, Retired, Sales/Marketing, Self-employed, Teacher/Professor, Telecommunications, Transportation/Logistics, Travel/Hospitality, Work from home |
| income: (med) | $25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+ |
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