| A Moment In Time! |
| about myself: |
| I am widowed now almost 5 years. I have three young children living at home with me. I am a responsible father and I take my responsiblity very serious. "Oh, and just to be very clear here"....My kids are not excess baggage as some prefer to call kids! My life is not drama free. How can you have a life drama free when you have kids. I am a simple man. I live a very simple and quiet life. I have a good heart full of kindness and love. Never would I purposely set out to hurt or harm anyone. My friends say I have a good sense of humor. I am not into fun and games when it comes to matters of the heart or another persons feelings. At my age I have no time or desire for non-sense. I am always willing to do what I can to help someone in need. It's called "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you". All I ever ask for is complete honesty. Because without honesty there can be no trust. And without trust there can be no friendship let alone a relationship on any level. I am open and honest about my life and who I am as a man. I am not rich by any means. Everything I have is but modest means compared to many others in this world. All I want is to find someone who will really love me no matter what. Whether I am rich or poor, in good or bad health, good-looking or ugly. I do not lie about who I am nor what my life was or is about today. I am very serious in my search for someone who is willing to share their life with my children and I. Not searching for a one night stand or just sex. I know alot of guys are posting just looking for the score. But if I want a score, I'll watch sports on TV. I am not a young man anymore neither am I a handsome man. I am not slim, fit and trim. More like Doc Hudson and Shrek rolled in one....lol. I am a faithful, loving, committed, romantic, passionate, and humble man. |
| willing to relocate: | No |
| marital status: | Widowed |
| seeking relationship: | Long term relationship, On line chat, Marriage, Whatever works |
| looking for a match: | Anywhere |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Brown |
| hair: | Black |
| hairstyles: | Above the ears |
| body type: | Big and beautiful |
| height: | 5'8 (173cm) |
| bodyart: | None |
| Background |
| education: | Some college |
| ethnicity: | Hispanic/Latin |
| speaks: | English |
| religion: | Christian |
| Lifestyle |
| smokes: | No, don't smoke |
| drinks: | Never |
| living status: | Living with kids |
| has children: | Yes |
| how many: | Three |
| wants children: | Maybe/Undecided |
| job: | Retired |
| political position: | Some other viewpoint |
| Qualities |
| activities: | Antiquing/collecting, Bible study/prayer groups, Board games/cards, Computers/surfing the web, Family/children, Home improvement, Movies, Music/concerts, News/politics/following current events, Reading, Travel, TV |
| attributes: | Adaptable, Caring, Communicative, Family Oriented, Generous, Honest, Humble, Intelligent/Bright, Low Maintenance, Positive Attitude, Religious, Respectful of Others Opinions, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy |
| my idea of a great date: |
| Have not had a date since I was a teen-ager...lol |
| the person I would like to meet: |
| I am disabled but not in a wheelchair. I am just not able to be as active as I once was. Not looking for a nurse, maid, or housekeeper. I have taken care of myself and three kids just fine. I am active in that I walk for excersize. The kids and I do go to the local parks. However, I won't be mountain climbing, sky-diving or bungee jumping anytime soon...lol. I do not drink alcohol or smoke nor do I do drugs...I live a pretty clean life as far as vices are concerned. I attend church as do my kids also. I am not a fanatic and would not ever impose my beliefs on anyone as long as I am respected for what I believe in. I am open to anyone, I do not judge anyone regardless of their past or present circumstances. Any person wanting to develop a relationship with me must understand that I have young children and must be willing to accept them. As I am a package deal. Wisdom has also taught me that you should never rule out any possiblities when it comes to love. Because ultimately, love is what we all want and seek. And not just any love at that, but "unconditional love." To be accepted for who we are and not what someone else wants us to be. The only thing I know for sure in this life is the moment I am in at this very second. Wisdom has taught me to be careful, because expectations are just that, "expectations". What happens is not always what we expect. Love is not a respector of persons. In other words love does not care who you are, where you are, where you have been or where you are going. Love is love, no one has the formula for making it happen. A new day is dawning with all new possiblities and hopes. Wisdom has taught me never to judge a book by it's cover until I have read the whole story. Thank you for reading my message. |
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