| Intelligence Isnt Gone, Its Lost In Assumption. |
| about myself: |
I think i am going to try a novel idea...i am going to try something most men on here wont try, or most men in general wont due...be totally honest.
Some of you might be shocked by this, and honestly i am too, but hey this is yahoo personal's right, so why not get personal right??
I am a 24 year old college graduate, musician, and writer here in Kansas, Junction City to be more specific. I am back where it all started, and quite honestly, i hate it. But sometimes people have to play with the hand they are dealt with and move on.
Alot of men go there whole life knowing where their faults are, with no real plans of fixing them, or improving themselves, and whats worse, most of them have millions of opportunities to make change, and never make one attempt.
They say that a man never knows what kind of man he is going to be, until he finds the woman he wants, and god knows i have fumbled that ball with that. So now its time to get serious.
Things i enjoy doing in my spare time are singing, playing piano, writing. i am addicted to Madden Football (playstation 2). I also enjoy cooking and cleaning. I love children,( dont have any) but hopefully one day i will.
There are some things that i look for in a woman that most guys probably dont look for...and i know that to be true. The touch of a woman you love is more intoxicating than any drug. I am looking for alot of different things in a relationship and a woman..i do have to apologize for a few things now though. I have been in some bad relationships, and some great ones as well.
The bad ones have made me untrusting at times, and the good ones have made me see exactley what im looking for in a woman. Ill give you a few of them.
1. A woman must be willing to be real with me at all times. None of the fake un emotional type stuff. I need a woman who is not affraid to be emotional and let me know how she feels, good or bad.
2. A woman must have some kind of goals and dreams. just being stuck in one place is not |
| willing to relocate: | Yes |
| marital status: | Single |
| seeking relationship: | Friendship, Long term relationship, Whatever works |
| looking for a match: | Anywhere |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Hazel brown |
| hair: | Black |
| hairstyles: | Above the ears |
| body type: | Heavyset |
| height: | 6'0 (183cm) |
| bodyart: | Lots of tats |
| Background |
| education: | Bachelor's degree |
| ethnicity: | African American |
| speaks: | English |
| Lifestyle |
| smokes: | No, don't smoke |
| drinks: | Rarely |
| living status: | Living with roommate(s) |
| has children: | No |
| wants children: | Yes, probably |
| job: | Self-employed |
| about my work: |
| i own a graphic design company here in my hometown. We specialize in business signs, cards,vinyl graphics and a ton of other things. |
| income: | $100,001 to $150,000 |
| political position: | Very Liberal |
| Qualities |
| activities: | Board games/cards, Cars/motorcyles, Computers/surfing the web, Music/concerts, Sporting events, TV, Video games |
| attributes: | Adaptable, Caring, Communicative, Goal Oriented, Honest, Intelligent/Bright, Opinionated, Organized, Positive Attitude, Strong Integrity |
| my idea of a great date: |
I meet a woman named (single ladies insert your name here) at the grocery store one afternoon. We talk and joke and laugh for a while, we exchange numbers. One dark rainy afternoon around noon, i call her, inviting her to a early evening dinner. Its rainy, the fresh scent of rain is in the air. I open all the windows, and turn off all the lights. I lite some candles.
I greet her at the door with a single red rose, and lead her to the dinner table. Where we sit and laugh for hours, just enjoying the intelligent conversation of one another.
Then me and (single ladies insert your name here) make our way to the front porch area where there are more candles.
I play for her for hours, eventually singing the rain and gloomieness of the day away.
THINGS I LOOK FOR IN A LADY
-SKINNY WOMEN MIGHT AS WELL NOT EVEN APPLY…I NEED A GIRL WITH SOME MEAT ON HER BONES…NOT HATING ON THE LITTLE WOMEN…JUST NOT MY PREFERENCE
-A LADY THAT CAN BE A LADY. KNOWS HOT TO BE A FREAK BETWEEN THE SHEETS, BUT CAN BE A TOTAL WOMAN AROUND MY CREW, MY BUSINESS ASSOCIATES ECT.
-A WOMAN WHO HAS DRIVE AND DETERMINATION. A WOMAN WHO I KNOW IS OUT MAKING IT HAPPEN LIKE I AM. A WOMAN WHO IS NOT AFRAID TO WORK FAST FOOD TO PAY THE LIGHT BILLS….BUT IS ALLWAYS STRIVING TO IMPROVE.
-A WOMAN THAT DOESN’T MIND LETTING ME PAY FOR DINNER EVERYNIGHT, BUT WOULDN’T MIND IF I LEAVE MY WALLET ON THE DRESSER.
- A WOMAN WHO CAN CUT HAIR IS ALLWAYS A PLUS.Nothing like a fresh edge up( FELLAS YALL KNOW.
- A WOMAN WHO WILL SIT ON THE PORCH WITH ME AND WATCH IT RAIN.
-A WOMAN WHO WILL BRING HER MAN A SANDWICH AT THE STUDIO WHEN HE CANT LEAVE..LOL.(yall musicians know what i am talking about...be hungry as hell in the studio sometimes)
-A WOMAN WHO WILL ALLWAYS LOOK OUT FOR ME….LIKE I WOULD LOOK OUT FOR HER……ONLY REAL LADIES NEED APPLY.
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| the person I would like to meet: |
1. A woman must be willing to be real with me at all times. None of the fake un emotional type stuff. I need a woman who is not affraid to be emotional and let me know how she feels, good or bad.
2. A woman must have some kind of goals and dreams. just being stuck in one place is not a good thing. A woman who wants to better herself. Someone with prode and a sense of worth. If a woman i date is a fry cook at mcdonalds, she should strive to be the best fry cook ever, never being satisfyed with one thing or another.
3. INTIMACY. Sex is not something that , it i am worried about...or that i stress about. if it happens, it happens. but i am huge on intimacy. a man should want his girl to know she is wanted, and vice versa. I want a woman who is not affraid to come up and give me a hug and a kiss. a woman who is not affraid to cuddle up with me and watch TV.
4. Intangibles-A woman must have the ability to keep me interested. intelligence is huge for me. they say a way to a mans heart is through his stomach, others, they say sex, but for me, i need a woman who i can talk to....without communication, everything else is pointless. I tell you one other thing that is totally off the subject, but very true...a really good back rub and a kiss on the cheak is the way to a real mans heart(for all you ladies curious).
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