| A gentleman seeks a real lady |
| about myself: |
My friends would say that I'm intelligent, confident, easy going, at times seriously contemplative, and at other times, a real clown with a silly sense of humor and a quick wit. I can really enjoy a deep conversation about the "big questions" of life, but I often laugh at life's ironies and especially at my own foibles and mishaps. My thoughts and passions may run deep, but my sense of humor makes life worthwhile. Although I approach most aspects of life with calm reason, I also believe that there is something deep and mystical about real love, something that defies all logic. Sometimes you have to stop thinking about something and simply trust your intuition and the impulses of your heart. Love can be an exhilerating and intoxicating form of "madness". But real love also needs time to grow as two people get to know each other. That requires spending time together and talking about a variety of subjects while you're having fun. I can become infatuated as easily as the next person. However, I much prefer the true emotional and mental intimacy of mature love to the fleeting gratification of "instant chemistry". While physical appearance is certainly not everything, it does count for something. We all have our preferences and hang-ups, and I prefer ladies who still like to look feminine and take pride in their appearance. I'm open about my feelings, about my likes and dislikes, and I expect the same from you. I prefer having an argument to get things out in the open rather than keeping things locked up inside. While I might not agree with you, I will listen carefully and treat your feelings with the utmost respect. Honesty is essential in a relationship, but it also seems to be very rare these days.
By the way, I do not respond to winks or to profiles lacking recent photos. If you don't have time to write a few words, I don't have time to respond. |
| willing to relocate: | No |
| marital status: | Single |
| seeking relationship: | Casual dating, Long term relationship, Whatever works |
| looking for a match: | within 50 miles of Bethel Park, Pennsylvania United States |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Hazel |
| hair: | Dark brown |
| body type: | Average |
| height: | 5'8 (173cm) |
| weight: | 165 lbs (75kg) |
| bodyart: | None |
| Background |
| education: | PhD / Post Doctoral |
| ethnicity: | Caucasian |
| speaks: | English |
| religion: | Spiritual |
| Lifestyle |
| smokes: | No, don't smoke |
| drinks: | Socially |
| living status: | Living alone |
| has children: | No |
| wants children: | Maybe/Undecided |
| job: | Architecture/Engineering |
| about my work: |
| I love my work and my job. I work with a great bunch of people who are very creative and technically skilled. However, when it's time to go home, I leave all the problems at the office so I can relax and have fun. |
| income: | $75,001 to $100,000 |
| political position: | Middle of the road |
| Qualities |
| activities: | Antiquing/collecting, Board games/cards, Computers/surfing the web, Home improvement, Movies, Museums/arts, Music/concerts, News/politics/following current events, Reading, Travel, Video games |
| attributes: | Caring, Communicative, Goal Oriented, Honest, Humble, Intelligent/Bright, Organized, Positive Attitude, Problem Solver, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy |
| my idea of a great date: |
| A great date can be a slow relaxing dinner in a nice quiet restaurant, where we can talk and get better acquainted, or trying something totally new. |
| the person I would like to meet: |
| Needless to say, I value honesty, maturity, and integrity. I also think its important to spend time with each other and really get to know each other. Too many people these days seem to be in a rush to find the "perfect" mate, but I value patience, especially the patience you need to really get to know someone. I don't believe in instant relationships. Anything that has real depth requires time and nurturing. |
| Ideal Match |
| attributes: (high) | Adaptable, Attractive, Caring, Communicative, Honest, Intelligent/Bright, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy |
| body type: (med) | Athletic / Toned, Average, Curvy, Slim / Slender |
| willing to relocate: (med) | Perhaps, if it was for the right person |
| wants children: (low) | Maybe/Undecided |
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