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| about myself: |
My profile clearly states that I am hoping for my best friend.. not someone that I met for the first time, looks at me and says.. "I like you.. you are HOT! after I wiggle out of that uneasy corner, while I am walking away, say.. "and I love that azzz"... then when the time comes to leave, sticks their tongue down my mouth and whispers in my ear... "you have me so hot right now, you could do anything you want." Really? Can you guess what I want???? I have been lied to too many times and with those lies came heart hurts.. I want time to let them all heal before I get involved again.
I don't worry much about: my nails, perfect hair, or if I have the correct shade of lipstick to match my outfit. I adore harleys, roller coasters, hot air balloons. I am a bit of a tomboy.
Laughter & HONEST GENUINE warm love is what life is about.. it is not about: material things.. but the honest & willing determination to make it together through life's valleys and setbacks that determine the type of person we are. I wish for a warm heart, a great communicator, a great kisser and cuddler, one who listens and knows and understands that life is much more fulfilling and warm together than it is apart. My best friend...if you will...
"I miss the sound of your voice
Loudest thing in my head
And I ache to remember
All the violent, sweet
Perfect words that you said
I feel the beat of your heart
I taste the sparks on your tongue
I see angels and devils
And God, when you come on
Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on"
"And in the end the words won't matter
'Cause in the end nothing nothing stays the same
And in the end dreams just scatter and fall like rain.
Love is real!
Bad habits: I tend to be a brat.. love sarcasm, don't like to share my guy, do not webcam neeked, do not talk dirty over the phone, have a lead foot on the gas pedal! |
| willing to relocate: | No |
| marital status: | Divorced |
| seeking relationship: | Friendship |
| looking for a match: | within 200 miles of Stillwater, Pennsylvania United States |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Green |
| hair: | Auburn |
| hairstyles: | Long & lush, Straight & natural |
| body type: | Curvy |
| height: | 5'2 (157cm) |
| weight: | 145 lbs (66kg) |
| bodyart: | Hidden tattoo, Ear piercing(s), Scarred, Other |
| Background |
| education: | Associates degree |
| ethnicity: | Caucasian |
| speaks: | English |
| religion: | Christian / Catholic |
| attend ceremonies: | Solitary worshipper |
| Lifestyle |
| smokes: | No, don't smoke |
| drinks: | Socially |
| living status: | Living alone |
| has children: | Yes |
| how many: | Two |
| about my children: |
I have the absolute best adult children ever!!!.. 1 of each gender. They are my heart, but I have done my duty as a parent & though I will always & foremost be their mom, they have their own lives. This is what parenting is about, bringing your children to a point where they will function separate from you, but still WANT and need to visit and share their lives with you. My son is married & lives close to me & is a great help when his mom needs assistance. I have learned many things from him - funny isn't how that happens - you first teach them, and then they return the favor. He has taught me basic mechanical maintenance!!! Yea for me!!! He is kind, caring and intelligent and I have often said I would like him as an individual even if he were not my son - don't know quite how I got so lucky. My daughter lives an hour and a half away is accomplished and bright beyond her years. She is a strong and resilient young woman (had to be with her past relationship - story for another time). She was my "wacky, wonderful" child and gave me most of my grey hair... My marriage, though ended, gave me 2 great blessings and I would never have wished for a different life as I would have been denied these two kiddos.. they are without doubt the best around! I have often said to them even if they were not my children, I would have liked them as individuals .. make that loved them for their hearts, their ambition, their caring for others.
They know their mom as someone that occasionally still finds a need every now and again to have a good-ole-fashioned sit down and let em rip with them, but they understand that sometimes, because of my experience, I just might bring a new light to the subject they are so gal-dang stubborn about.
They love me WITH my faults.. my bratty side, my always happy in the morning, my led foot, my tendency to lose control when really stressed! |
| wants children: | Already have one/a few and no more |
| job: | Education/Training |
| about my work: |
My work is coming to a place where I can see the turn of retirement in sight. This has been a labored journey of 23+ years at the same place & though I love my work & helping the people I do, in about 4 more years, I am looking forward to taking only a part-time job at a place where this is no extra stress. As I am a realist, I do understand that retirement may not provide all I need to be on my own in life and not a burden to either of my children. But it will bring with it the reward of knowing I have taken care of myself and lived through storms but came out on the other side and that is something to be proud of (yea Montgomery & Gentry). I continue to work on improving my land here and working toward my dream of owning my own horses. I have been blessed with wonderful health and energy and I am hoping and planning on being able to keep this place as it is today and better in the years to come.. work keeps us young, like it or not... the absence of doing something makes us tired and ages us faster.
I love working with wood.. staining, varnishing to bring out the inner beauty .. sorta like people.. though there is beauty on the outside, when you get past that, you learn what is inside, and the inside is what brings warmth and tenderness to you.
I can sometimes be moody, not often, but I am human and things sometimes get the better of me no matter how diligent I am to better myself. I am sometimes a brat listening to that dare-devil part of me that pushes that red button marked.. "what if"... I can throw tools as good as any man when attempting to fix something and I break it. But I know the difference between letting THINGS that go wrong interfere with a GOOD relationship.
You won't be able to label me as an azz-kisser.. sorry, I don't like that flavor of chocolate!!! LOL.. if that makes me a loser, so be it.. I have standards / morals I will not bend. |
| income: | $35,001 to $50,000 |
| political position: | Non-conformist |
| Qualities |
| my idea of a great date: |
An awesomely great date.. is one where talking is easy & comfortable the same way an old pair of worn jeans feels to wear. PLEASE BE HONEST W/YOURSELF & MOST IMPORTANTLY ME.. DON'T TRY TO PLAY ME UNTIL SOMEONE BETTER COMES ALONG... I WILL NOT TOLERATE IT!
An individual with the ability to speak more than 2 syllables is awesome, who has enough wit & charm to make me laugh (belly laugh) is a Godsend! Would love to walk up to my date, smile at him, have the smile returned, be able to talk like we were old friends while we sit with a warm cup of coffee or hot chocolate (did I mention I love chocolate?? ) - head out for a concert or movie, then to dinner & a nightcap all the while enjoying each others company & laughing. Two souls on a journey of laughter, sharing, companionship!!!!! If you can sing or play an instrument that would send shivers all over me. My passion other than horses is music so it comprises a huge part of who I am. I promise you that I would be willing to try anything you might enjoy .. (for those thinking with the wrong brain).. hiking, camping, target shooting, archery, etc. etc.. there is a world of possibilities... let's explore! Let's make dating history.. give all others looking something to write about for years! If you are just looking for a piece of azz, then move on to someone else, I WANT that last best relationship, then you can have all those pieces you & I both want. Deal with your demons first before you contact me, don't wait until I care and then tell me it is impossible. I guess what that all boils down to is being mature & truly wanting a relationship that will be great for us both without the drama. Don't you hate coming home to an empty house, with only the cat or dog to tell about your day? I sure as heck do, I would love to come home to a smile, a wink and laughter topped with cooking together, talking, dancing.... |
| the person I would like to meet: |
| HONESTY IS MOST IMPORTANT followed by: articulate & willing to communicate your feelings in a sane, rational & mature manner as I truly believe that to do so ensures what I believe is most important in any relationship - COMMUNICATION!!! The bond of trust & honesty is important ..someone that is my best friend, 1st & foremost, if you have said "I LOVE YOU" to more than 2 people romantically this year, pass me by. If you have been intimate with more than 3 people this year, PLEASE look somewhere else. Make me laugh until my sides hurt & tears roll down my face, I want a partner who knows the best intimacy begins with each of us pleasing the other (you need to be able to make love to me in all phases: body, soul, and MIND: someone who can turn me on with spoken word or look, send tiny rivulets of tingles running down my spine that will travel to my core and ignite a fire that will make me want to stand up & drag you to a dark corner so that I can drink you in), who will love me even when I am not so nice, because you can look past the heat of the moment & see the real me. Two imperfect people accepting each other as they are. As far as interests... I would hope there are many of them in your life, some that we share, some that we can explore together & some that we would like each other to experience. Finally, if this upsets anyone, then I apologize - be financially (working no matter what the job, just working) & emotionally secure in your own right. I am & I would not appreciate putting that type of burden on you if I were not nor would I tolerate that type of burden being placed on me (once burned, twice shy?) I WILL NOT BE ANYONE'S SUGAR MAMA. Life takes us through many stages, sharing is the best way to get thru all those stages. I WANT to be able to share, to touch, be touched, love & be loved in every aspect..body, MIND, & soul. Be grown up please |
| Ideal Match |
| education: (high) | High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelor's degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral |
| smokes: (med) | No, don't smoke, From time to time in clubs and bars, Light smoker, Trying to quit!, Enjoy Cigars or pipes |
| eyes: (low) | Blue, Blue gray, Blue green, Dark brown, Green, Green brown, Green gray |
| activities: (med) | Board games/cards, Cars/motorcyles, Crafts, Dinner parties, Family/children, Gardening, Home improvement, Movies, Museums/arts, Music/concerts, Outdoor activities, Reading, Sporting events, Travel, TV, Volunteer work, Wine tasting, Working out |
| hair: (low) | Auburn, Bald or shaved, Black, Brown, Dark blonde, Dark brown, Gray, Light blonde, Light brown, Lots of colors!, Salt and pepper, Silver or white |
| hairstyles: (low) | Above the ears, Bald or shaved, Straight & natural |
| living status: (med) | Living alone, Living with kids, Living with parent(s), Living with pet(s), Living with roommate(s), Social household (family and/or friends over often), Living with kids (part time) |
| attributes: (high) | Active, Adaptable, Adventurous, Caring, Communicative, Honest, Humble, Intelligent/Bright, Outdoorsy, Positive Attitude, Respectful of Others Opinions, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy, Funny |
| pet(s): (low) | Amphibian(s), Bird(s), Cat(s), Dog(s), Fish, Reptile(s), Other |
| speaks: (low) | English |
| body type: (low) | Athletic / Toned, Average, Few extra pounds, Muscular, Stocky |
| willing to relocate: (med) | No, Perhaps, if it was for the right person |
| income: (med) | $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000 |
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