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| about myself: |
Dear God.. .another rewrite of my profile begins...
I want everyone to read this first paragraph as many times as necessary to allow the words to really sink in: I am looking for the last best friend of my life.. no separated or married..I mean this!!
I don't worry much about: my nails, perfect hair, or if I have the correct shade of lipstick to match my outfit. I adore harleys and when I retire from my full-time position in this every day world to pay bills, I am looking to purchase a Harley Fat Bob to ride when the horses deserve a break.
I dabble in writing poetry, am decent with photography, love camping and hiking and do some stained glass work when time permits. I have my hands full with mowing of fields and trimming of trees, brush hogging and just keeping on keeping on, but would absolutely melt while I slow danced the night away with a warm heart that matches my laughter.
Laughter and honest genuine warm love is what life is about.. it is not about: the amount of toys we accumulate in life, the # of rooms in our house, the type of car we drive, but the honest and willing determination to make it on our own through life's valleys and setbacks that determine the type of person we are. We can either wallow in self pity and dwell on the bad in our lives, or we can stare that shit directly in the eye, cuss it up one side and down the other and be stubborn-azzed enough to laugh our way through it with a good and warm heart to hold us when we need it, a great kisser to take us to places without leaving the safety of our arms, and someone that knows and understands that life is much more fulfilling and warm together than it is apart.
Rascall Flatts said it well... there is a place in your heart, no one's been.. take me there.. there is a secret you have that you've told no one, tell me!!!
I await my partner in crime to laugh our way to health & love. |
| willing to relocate: | No |
| marital status: | Divorced |
| seeking relationship: | Friendship |
| looking for a match: | within 200 miles of Stillwater, Pennsylvania United States |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Green |
| hair: | Auburn |
| hairstyles: | Long & lush, Straight & natural |
| body type: | Curvy |
| height: | 5'2 (157cm) |
| weight: | 145 lbs (66kg) |
| bodyart: | Hidden tattoo, Ear piercing(s), Scarred, Other |
| Background |
| education: | Associates degree |
| ethnicity: | Caucasian |
| speaks: | English |
| religion: | Christian / Catholic |
| attend ceremonies: | Solitary worshipper |
| Lifestyle |
| smokes: | No, don't smoke |
| drinks: | Socially |
| living status: | Living alone |
| has children: | Yes |
| how many: | Two |
| about my children: |
| I have the absolute best adult children ever!!!.. one of each gender. They are my heart, but I have done my duty as a parent & though I will always & foremost be their mom, they have their own lives. This is what parenting is about, bringing your children to a point where they will function separate from you, but still WANT and need to visit and share their lives with you. My son is married and lives close to me and is a great help when his mom needs some help when I need it. I have learned many things from him, funny isn't how that happens - you first teach them, and then they return the favor. He has taught me basic mechanical maintenance!!! Yea for me!!! He is kind, caring and intelligent and I have often said I would like him as an individual even if he were not my son - don't know quite how I got so lucky. My daughter lives an hour and a half away is accomplished and bright beyond her years. She is a strong and resilient young woman (had to be with her past relationship - story for another time). She was my "wacky, wonderful" child and gave me most of my grey hair... My marriage, though ended, gave me 2 great blessings and I would never have wished for a different life as I would have been denied these two kiddos.. they are without doubt the best around! I have often said to them even if they were not my children, I would have liked them as individuals .. make that loved them for their hearts, their ambition, their caring for others. |
| wants children: | Already have one/a few and no more |
| job: | Education/Training |
| about my work: |
| My work is coming to a place where I can see the turn of retirement in sight. This has been a labored journey of 22+ years at the same place & though I love my work & helping the people I do, in about 6 more years, I am looking forward to taking only a part-time job at a place where this is no extra stress. As I am a realist, I do understand that retirement may not provide all I need to be on my own in life and not a burden to either of my children. But it will bring with it the reward of knowing I have taken care of myself and lived through storms but came out on the other side and that is something to be proud of (yea Montgomery & Gentry). I continue to work on improving my land here and working toward my dream of owning my own horses. I have been blessed with wonderful health and energy and I am hoping and planning on being able to keep this place as it is today and better in the years to come.. work keeps us young, like it or not... the absence of doing something makes us tired and ages us faster. |
| income: | $35,001 to $50,000 |
| political position: | Non-conformist |
| Qualities |
| my idea of a great date: |
| A great date.. is one where talking is easy and comfortable the same way an old pair of worn jeans feels to wear. An individual with the ability to speak in more than 2 syllables is awesome. Someone that has enough wit and charm to make me laugh is a Godsend! Would love to walk up to my date, smile at him and have the smile returned, be able to talk like we were old friends while we sit with a warm cup of coffee or hot chocolate (did I mention I love chocolate?? ) - head out for a concert or movie, then to dinner and a nightcap all the while enjoying each others company and laughing. Two souls on a journey of laughter, sharing, companionship!!!!! If you can sing or play an instrument (sax, guitar, piano) that would send shivers all over me. My passion other than horses is music so it comprises a huge part of who I am. I promise you that I would be willing to try anything you might enjoy .. (and for all ya thinking with the wrong brain).. hiking, camping, target shooting, archery, etc... etc.. and, trust me here this is really saying that I am open to whatever you might enjoy.. I would even try... oh, I cannot believe I am saying this.. golf!!! Comedy clubs would be fun also.. there is a world of possibilities... let's explore! Let's make dating history.. give all of the MD community something to write about for years! If you are just looking for a piece of azz, then move on to someone else, I WANT that last best relationship, then you can have all those pieces you & I both want. Deal with your demons first before you contact me, don't wait until I care and then tell me it is impossible. I guess what that all boils down to is being mature & truly wanting a relationship that will be great for us both without the drama and lies. |
| the person I would like to meet: |
| Most importantly you should be articulate & willing to communicate your feelings in a sane, rational & mature manner as I truly believe that to do so ensures what I believe is most important in any relationship - communication. The bond of trust & honesty is important ..someone that is my best friend, 1st & foremost, if you have said "I LOVE YOU" to more than 2 people romantically this year, pass me by. If you have been intimate with more than 3 people this year, PLEASE look somewhere else. Make me laugh until my sides hurt & tears roll down my face, I want a partner who knows the best intimacy begins with each of us pleasing the other (you need to be able to make love to me in all phases: body, soul, and MIND: someone who can turn me on with spoken word or look, send tiny rivulets of tingles running down my spine that will travel to my core and ignite a fire that will make me want to stand up & drag you to a dark corner so that I can drink you in), who will love me even when I am not so nice, because you can look past the heat of the moment & see the real me. Two imperfect people accepting each other as they are. As far as interests... I would hope there are many of them in your life, some that we share, some that we can explore together & some that we would like each other to experience. Finally, if this upsets anyone, then I apologize - be financially (working no matter what the job, just working) & emotionally secure in your own right. I am & I would not appreciate putting that type of burden on you if I were not nor would I tolerate that type of burden being placed on me (once burned, twice shy?) I WILL NOT BE ANYONE'S SUGAR MAMA. Life takes us through many stages, sharing is the best way to get thru all those stages. I WANT to be able to share, to touch, be touched, love & be loved in every aspect..body, mind, and soul. |
| Ideal Match |
| education: (high) | High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelor's degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral |
| smokes: (med) | No, don't smoke, From time to time in clubs and bars, Light smoker, Trying to quit!, Enjoy Cigars or pipes |
| eyes: (low) | Blue, Blue gray, Blue green, Dark brown, Green, Green brown, Green gray |
| activities: (med) | Board games/cards, Cars/motorcyles, Crafts, Dinner parties, Family/children, Gardening, Home improvement, Movies, Museums/arts, Music/concerts, Outdoor activities, Reading, Sporting events, Travel, TV, Volunteer work, Wine tasting, Working out |
| hair: (low) | Auburn, Bald or shaved, Black, Brown, Dark blonde, Dark brown, Gray, Light blonde, Light brown, Lots of colors!, Salt and pepper, Silver or white |
| hairstyles: (low) | Above the ears, Bald or shaved, Straight & natural |
| living status: (med) | Living alone, Living with kids, Living with parent(s), Living with pet(s), Living with roommate(s), Social household (family and/or friends over often), Living with kids (part time) |
| attributes: (high) | Active, Adaptable, Adventurous, Caring, Communicative, Honest, Humble, Intelligent/Bright, Outdoorsy, Positive Attitude, Respectful of Others Opinions, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy, Funny |
| pet(s): (low) | Amphibian(s), Bird(s), Cat(s), Dog(s), Fish, Reptile(s), Other |
| speaks: (low) | English |
| body type: (low) | Athletic / Toned, Average, Few extra pounds, Muscular, Stocky |
| willing to relocate: (med) | No, Perhaps, if it was for the right person |
| income: (med) | $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000 |
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