| Dontufakeit |
| about myself: |
So it’s me and I am totally redoing my whole ad.... I was watching this show on TLC and it was a dating show that these middle aged people are a part of... So as I was watching I thought about how they were responding to each other on the first and second date. So through out the show it dawned on me that my ad is all wrong(I was totally missing the point) on what type of guy I am as in the types of situations I have encountered with relationships and how I am with kids....
Well as stated in my profile I have no kids of my own and with just that someone like you with kids would pass me by... Without knowing that I was in a relationship with a woman that had three girls... They really took to me right from the get go, I was nice and acted like their second father by reading them bedtime stories and spending time with them. Taking them too the park to play and setting out front or outback with them as they played in the yard. I never took my eye off of them.
I fixed them three meals a day and did the laundry and did everything, basically I was a Mr mom until she got off work. I even picked them up for school and helped them with their homework...
Now for the sad ending to that relationship, We had differences because she wanted to work and not have a sitter for them because she felt it wasn’t good for a stranger to watch them. Well I just didn’t feel it was 50/50 at the time so I moved back home. I miss that part of my life more than ever I miss the girls a lot they really took to me well.
So that’s what I missed in my profile a part of me that I have always wanted is to meet someone with kids that I could be a role model in their lives as well.
Besides that I work full time and live a fairly low key life style, not into the drinking or doing my thing I am looking for someone that we can do things together or as a family unit.
I’m a great listener and |
| willing to relocate: | Perhaps, if it was for the right person |
| marital status: | Divorced |
| seeking relationship: | Casual dating, Friendship, Long term relationship |
| looking for a match: | within 300 miles of Peru, Indiana United States |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Hazel |
| hair: | Dark blonde |
| hairstyles: | Above the ears, Straight & natural |
| body type: | Athletic / Toned |
| height: | 5'6 (168cm) |
| weight: | 135 lbs (62kg) |
| bodyart: | Hidden tattoo, Visible tattoo |
| Background |
| education: | Some college |
| ethnicity: | Caucasian |
| speaks: | English |
| religion: | Christian |
| Lifestyle |
| smokes: | Light smoker |
| drinks: | Never |
| living status: | Living with roommate(s) |
| has children: | No |
| wants children: | Yes, probably |
| job: | Healthcare |
| about my work: |
| I am a social worker and work in the Mental health field. I like my job and the type of work I do is very rewarding for me because I like changing the lives of others. Everyday is something different in my line of work and that is why it's a great job. |
| income: | $35,001 to $50,000 |
| political position: | Very Liberal |
| Qualities |
| activities: | Antiquing/collecting, Cars/motorcyles, Computers/surfing the web, Family/children, Home improvement, Movies, Music/concerts, News/politics/following current events, Outdoor activities, Travel, TV, Video games, Working out, Shopping |
| attributes: | Funny, Active, Adaptable, Adventurous, Athletic/In Shape, Attractive, Caring, Communicative, Family Oriented, Generous, Goal Oriented, Honest, Intelligent/Bright, Low Maintenance, Opinionated, Organized, Outdoorsy, Positive Attitude, Problem Solver, Respectful of Others Opinions, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy |
| my idea of a great date: |
| I am looking for friends and it wouldn't be like a date really for me. I would hope to sit and chat with someone who was a nice person with a lot to talk about and exciting to get to know. So after that we will see what happens I guess. |
| the person I would like to meet: |
Looking for a girl that will meet me 50/50 on thing’s like helping out around the house or just having the understanding for when I can’t do something or be there to help out. I might be working late or at a meeting and she would have to make sure the kids are tended to and in bed for school the next day.
She would have to have a logical and funny side about her, life is frustrating and to serious most of the time. So to have that side where you are laughing together or as a family then that makes up for the sweat and tears.
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| Ideal Match |
| education: (med) | Some college |
| smokes: (med) | Average smoker, Light smoker |
| eyes: (med) | Green |
| activities: (med) | Antiquing/collecting, Computers/surfing the web, Family/children, Movies, Music/concerts, Outdoor activities, Reading, Travel, TV, Video games, Shopping |
| drinks: (med) | Socially |
| hair: (med) | Black |
| ethnicity: (med) | Caucasian |
| hairstyles: (low) | Long & lush |
| living status: (med) | Living alone, Living with kids, Living with parent(s), Living with roommate(s) |
| attributes: (med) | Active, Adaptable, Adventurous, Attractive, Caring, Communicative, Family Oriented, Generous, Goal Oriented, Honest, Intelligent/Bright, Low Maintenance, Opinionated, Outdoorsy, Positive Attitude, Problem Solver, Sensitive, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy, Funny |
| speaks: (med) | English |
| body type: (med) | Average, Curvy, Few extra pounds |
| height: (med) | 5'4 (163cm) to 5'6 (168cm) |
| wants children: (med) | Already have one/a few and want more, Yes, probably |
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