| 'This is Me' Chapter 1: The Basics |
| about myself: |
Hi!
I'm the guy that seems to be there to listen to people's problems, and help come up with a solution. I'm the guy that no one wants to date, because it 'could ruin the friendship'. I'm the guy that likes to help people out.
I admit, I am not a 'looker' a 'hottie' or whatever lingo is used to describe a good looking guy. I try to be active and not be a couch potato.
I am not extraordinary, I don't stand out in a crowd. The reason being is that I don't need attention like that. I am comfortable with who I am, and I don't need to be validated.
I'm not rich monetary wise, but I am rich with the love of my children, and family and friends. And I do have a job. Sometimes two of them.
I'm not Hercules, but I do have the strength to stand up for what I believe in, and to defend myself and loved ones, if necessary. And I like to be active.
I'm not insecure. I am confident with who I am as a person, and with knowing I gave my best in almost everything I do.
I'm not always right, but I know when I have been wrong, and am not afraid to admit it. Sometimes I even choose to do the wrong thing, if I feel the outcome is for a greater good.
I don't always take life seriously, but I know the times I should be serious. I have been told that I have a 'dry' sense of humor, but then again, I have never heard of having a 'wet' sense of humor.
Am I mature at my age?, reread the above paragraph. I do try to take finacial responsibilty, maybe thats the only mature thing about me. I don't throw tantrums or catch them either.
I am intelligent, but not a know-it-all. I know about quite a few things, and there is always more to learn. I would like to learn about you. I am open-minded, not judgemental.
I could write more, but, I'm running out of characters. I don't like to be confined.
I feel if this has piqued your interest, then the next few chapters, we can write together. |
| willing to relocate: | Perhaps, if it was for the right person |
| marital status: | Divorced |
| seeking relationship: | Casual dating, Friendship, Long term relationship, On line chat, "Intimate" activities, Whatever works |
| looking for a match: | Anywhere |
| Appearance |
| eyes: | Brown |
| hair: | Brown |
| hairstyles: | Long & lush, Straight & natural |
| body type: | Few extra pounds |
| height: | 5'10 (178cm) |
| weight: | 195 lbs (89kg) |
| bodyart: | None |
| Background |
| education: | School of life |
| ethnicity: | Native American |
| speaks: | English |
| religion: | Spiritual |
| attend ceremonies: | On holidays |
| Lifestyle |
| smokes: | Average smoker |
| drinks: | Socially |
| living status: | Living with roommate(s), Social household (family and/or friends over often), Living with kids (part time) |
| has children: | Yes |
| how many: | Three |
| about my children: |
I'm proud of my three children. They are my life, and my world almost revolves around them. I do what I can to teach them to be strong and confident in this dog eat dog society that we live in.
Kids should have a happy childhood, and even though that isn't always the case, I would say that my kids will have more happy times they remember, than bad times.
I have made many personal sacrifices so that my kids are happy and healthy, and I don't regret any of the choices I made. |
| wants children: | Already have one/a few and no more |
| job: | Hospitality/Travel |
| about my work: |
I have been at this job for a little over two years. It isn't anything spectacular, but it keeps the child support paid, and some of the bills.
I am working on improving my finacial situation, and hopefully, I can quit to become my own business owner sometime in the near future. |
| political position: | Some other viewpoint |
| Qualities |
| activities: | Antiquing/collecting, Bars/pubs, Board games/cards, Cars/motorcyles, Clubbing, Crafts, Computers/surfing the web, Family/children, Movies, Museums/arts, Music/concerts, Outdoor activities, Reading, Running/jogging, Spending time with pets, Travel, TV, Video games, Working out, Shopping |
| attributes: | Funny, Active, Adaptable, Adventurous, Athletic/In Shape, Attractive, Caring, Communicative, Family Oriented, Generous, Goal Oriented, Honest, Humble, Intelligent/Bright, Low Maintenance, Opinionated, Organized, Outdoorsy, Positive Attitude, Problem Solver, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy |
| my idea of a great date: |
I won't answer this directly for a couple of reasons. The first reason being, is that when things are planned, then it almost is realized as an expectation. If expectations aren't met, then that usually leads to dissatisfaction and disappointment.
The second being, I haven't dated in a long time, and not that I am not romantically inclined, I do realize that every female is different, and so my idea of a great date, may not be her idea of a great date.
he opportunity to actually invite her out, it would be based upon what we may have written or talked to each other about, which would include our likes and dislikes, and go from there.
But, at the most, not everything would be planned out, Just a few basic ideas, and improvision throughout the date. |
| the person I would like to meet: |
She should be looking for a guy that has a nice guy image, but can have a badboy attitude. She should be witty, humorous, intellegent, and confident and open-minded.
She should be confident about her intelligence and her body, and not be afraid to show either of them off.
She shouldn't be too overweight, or at least be able to be active in things like hiking, walking, and volleyball.
Thats about all that I know that could be required as basics in who I would be interested in. Low maintenance is a plus as well.
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| Ideal Match |
| attributes: (low) | Active, Adaptable, Adventurous, Athletic/In Shape, Attractive, Caring, Communicative, Family Oriented, Generous, Goal Oriented, Honest, Humble, Intelligent/Bright, Low Maintenance, Opinionated, Organized, Outdoorsy, Positive Attitude, Problem Solver, Respectful of Others Opinions, Self Confident, Strong Integrity, Trustworthy, Funny |
| speaks: (low) | English |
| body type: (low) | Athletic / Toned, Average, Big and beautiful, Curvy, Few extra pounds, Full-figured, Slim / Slender |
| height: (med) | 4'2 (127cm) to 6'2 (188cm) |
| willing to relocate: (high) | Yes, Perhaps, if it was for the right person |
| wants children: (low) | Already have one/a few and no more, Already have one/a few and want more, Maybe/Undecided, Do not want children |
| job: (med) | Computers/IT, Self-employed, Work from home |
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