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| Feb 2, 2007 @ 9:27 PM |
REALLY WORRIED, NEEDING ADVICE: BAD REPS, ON MD
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FierceReal
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I'm really concerned about something, and I don't know how to deal with it. About a year ago, under a DIFFERENT name/ID, I was blogging and being, well...NOT NICE (I'm going to be PC and avoid the obvious "B" word  ). I made MORE THAN A FEW men really angry, and a handful even allegedly went into forums and chatted about me, SOME even complaining that I'd asked for $$ or that I was, IN SOME FORM OR FASHION, a scammer....AND I AM NOT, NOR WAS I, EVER...
Now that I've really learned a lot and grown and changed and really become a polished, respectful, pretty nice sort, I KEEP FEELING AS THOUGH I'M BEING TOTALLY AVOIDED here on MD, or I'm being BLACKLISTED, BEHIND MY KNOWLEDGE...
Is there a forum where I can find out, IF I AM? IF COMPLAINTS HAVE BEEN LODGED, AGAINST MY PROFILE/ME? Is there a way to see if, as in the case of false charges on a credit rating, ONE CAN CLEAR UP ONES REPUTATION, here on MD?
GIMME A CLUE, somebody...ANYBODY
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| Feb 3, 2007 @ 12:14 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
Posts: 6,699
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I haven't seen anything you've posted, so I can't say you're being ignored. What forums do you post in?
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| Feb 3, 2007 @ 4:11 PM |
REALLY WORRIED, NEEDING ADVICE: BAD REPS, ON MD
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ForumMod
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the only 'database' like that here at MD is in people's heads. some people have long memories, some forgive and forget quickly and easily, which is the same as among any group of people.
we do not share personal information with the membership such as a 'blacklist'. if you had seriously abused our system legally rather than just irritated a select few people, i doubt your new profile would have been approved. but i suggest you contact our customer service department if you need clarification of our privacy policies.
i've never heard of any profile being tagged with the 'b' word, male or female (but don't tempt our techs ;) lol). most people who qualify for that label tend to tag themselves through their actions and words. its not up to us to make judgements or recommendations about a person's character.
as far as being avoided or ignored, perhaps you might want to ask for suggestions and ideas in our Dating & Relationships discussion forum. and good luck in starting fresh. 
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| Feb 8, 2007 @ 12:09 PM |
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Disjecta_Membra
Posts: 6
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Just like ForumMod said, any time you have a group of people of varying backgrounds assembling, you run the risk of them forming a clique.
As far the moderators' tagging certain users, I don't think they would do that over just booting them. I know I've rubbed them the wrong way many times with my comments and I do apologize to them for that.
Anyway, real and sincere people won't judge you that easily...anyone that listens to gossip and rumors probably isn't worth your time anyway...
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| Feb 8, 2007 @ 2:03 PM |
REALLY WORRIED, NEEDING ADVICE: BAD REPS, ON MD
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ForumMod
Posts: 1,812
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if disjecta hasn't been "tagged", nobody has. believe him
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| Feb 8, 2007 @ 2:34 PM |
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Disjecta_Membra
Posts: 6
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Well, one of these days I'm going to find the right buttons to push.
I'm kidding!...
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| Feb 12, 2007 @ 1:39 PM |
REALLY WORRIED, NEEDING ADVICE: BAD REPS, ON MD
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mdTech2
Posts: 119
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One of my projects this week is sharks w/ laser beams on their head. It's been done before, but no one has been able to squeeze them into a network cable. Yet.
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| Feb 12, 2007 @ 2:01 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
Posts: 10,955
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One of my projects this week is sharks w/ laser beams on their head.
Frickin sharks with frickin laser beams on their frickin heads??? 
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