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Dec 23, 2007 @ 1:52 PM Exposing predators    
bevrice


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Why isn't there somewhere here on Matchdoctor that we can expose the players, the men who prey on women, or vice versa? I am not talking about men who are serious and who just lose interest in a woman, but the real players.

I just had one try that with me and found out that he preys on the emotions of seventy year old and older women just so he can use them for sex?

This isn't counting all the women that he tells they are the only one and that he is coming to see them, that they are his main focus.
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Dec 23, 2007 @ 2:00 PM Exposing predators    
SweetNapaGuy


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The reporting mechanism for predators would itself be too open to abuse. It wouldn't be workable.
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Dec 23, 2007 @ 2:02 PM Exposing predators    
bevrice


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I know that it wouldn't be an easy thing, but it would make this a more desirable dating site. I know other sites check into things like that and even delete the offenders. You would have to have proof. Most people have that proof, you know.
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Dec 23, 2007 @ 2:29 PM Exposing predators    
SweetNapaGuy


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The best I can think of would be a dating site that ran background checks on its applicants before allowing them to join, including party affiliation, religious status, and health (including checking for STDs).

A bit too expensive.

Treat this like you'd treat a bar. Guys are going to tell you lines to get into your pants. Treat all professed interest with a serious "grain of salt."

Hells Bells, they have a hard enough time dealing with the scammers. Trying to get rid of the predators would be at least an order of magnitude (if not two or three) more difficult.

I doubt that MD has the staff to manage it. A few mods, some accounting staff, a few technicians. What would be required would be probably a tripling of staffing, and drive the website into bankruptcy (unless you want even more advertising for Sex Personals and Dating Married Women sites, blech!).
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Dec 23, 2007 @ 3:17 PM Exposing predators    
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