| Sep 8, 2006 @ 2:14 PM |
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Artemis122
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Dear Dolls & Guys,
I've been thinking about this lately -- Let's suppose WE ALL got Luckier than the Lotto (west coast) or PowerBall (east coast) and met "the one"...
WHEN, and under what Scenario is an Appropriate Time to REVEAL our Asset Allocation Plan (or Family Trust) to our Respective Partner -- since at our current ages we will not be creating a "nest" anymore.....
Any Ideas, Insights, or Inputs??
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| Sep 8, 2006 @ 3:11 PM |
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doncasto
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The time to detail the finances would be when you find a woman that gets giggly over your sense of humor . . . without having a laugh riot over the prospects of spending your money . . .
. . .at least that's how the dilemma appears here in Boulder.
Your mileage may vary, always consider the source and . . .
"I apologize for my deplorable condition and I assure you I will not inflict myself upon you any further" . . . .maybe
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| Sep 8, 2006 @ 3:26 PM |
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SunBabe
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Well...what's mine is mine until/unless things progress to the point that I WANT to share (and that includes information). It's not much, but it's more than some fellas have...if net worth can be measured by Ebay/garage sale value. 
As far as "nesting", what's wrong with TWO nests? One in the mountains, one in the islands...depending on life stages.
Are you just asking about someone you're talking with or dating? I will say that there are some exceptionally nosey people out there...I have no problem telling them it's none of their business ~grin~ It's amazing what some will assume, anyway. Hey, I'll let them live their fantasies, 
Uh, come to think of it, for me, I don't come with assets, but rather liabilities 
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HONEST!!! It was just a coincidence that I posted the same time you did, sweetie!  Too funny...and embarassing.
(augggh...you're going to make me want to stop smoking   )
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| Sep 8, 2006 @ 4:44 PM |
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robodad
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WHEN, and under what Scenario is an Appropriate Time to REVEAL our Asset Allocation Plan (or Family Trust) to our Respective Partner -- since at our current ages we will not be creating a "nest" anymore..... NEVER!!! It's mine! All mine! Mine, I tell you.....MINE!!!!
Okay, I got out of control for a second.....but I'm much better now. 
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| Sep 8, 2006 @ 5:13 PM |
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Palomino
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Robo...... 
Ok....still cracking up here......
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| Sep 8, 2006 @ 6:30 PM |
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Artemis122
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Just Goofing around on a TGIF --
doncasto
The time to detail the finances would be when you find a woman that gets giggly over your sense of humor . . . Very Clever, you get the Nonsense outa the way so you know if there's a Future date or not, makes sense to me
SunBabe
As far as "nesting", what's wrong with TWO nests? One in the mountains, one in the islands...depending on life stages An Original Idea I haven't thought about..... BUT I thought you were going to put everything in your U-Haul following the Hearse.....
Robo
STOPTHAT!! -- you do LIVE up to your Nickname!!!!!
Pal -- do I need to come over and PEEL you off the floor LYAO even tho' you're A Nurse???
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| Sep 8, 2006 @ 7:24 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Actually, the only man I've come across in recent years where we discussed 'joining forces' with had a game plan of his buying a place in the Caribbean (which he's done, by the way, on the Mexican riviera) and hooking up with someone who has a place on a lake in New England...excuse me as I go back to perusing Maine real estate...
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| Sep 8, 2006 @ 7:30 PM |
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SpyderLady
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I hate it when you start emailing someone and they ask if you own your house.  Hmmm, maybe that shouldn't piss me off, maybe they just wanted to make my house payments for me. 
I don't think anyone should fill in the income catagory in the profiles. Men always lie about it anyway.
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| Sep 8, 2006 @ 8:15 PM |
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Palomino
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Artie....he's had me in stitches all day. Could you come here and remove them for me?
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| Sep 10, 2006 @ 11:10 PM |
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robodad
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Well, you know the old day saying: A stitch in time, for a $1.79.....or something like that. 
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| Sep 13, 2006 @ 3:21 AM |
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Palomino
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"A stitch in time saves nine."
A little preventive maintenance can eliminate the need for major repairs later.
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| Sep 13, 2006 @ 10:13 PM |
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SpiritEnergy
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Gee, it seems when someone starts telling me what they are worth I get scared. Maybe I am just not ready for committment yet. It took me a year to get to know last mate. Then two years to convince him it was over. Or maybe that was me.  Dunno, I am not the one to figure that one out. I personally do not intend to tell anyone what I am worth. My idea of worth is bound to be different from theirs. It does seem to show you a different facet of a person tho when you do start discussing financial assets.
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| Sep 14, 2006 @ 2:24 AM |
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SunBabe
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Frankly, I consider myself priceless. ...and wouln't even consider changing my 'single' status unless I found another priceless fella. (And in that case, money is the least of the considerations )
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| Sep 23, 2006 @ 3:23 PM |
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Mysterious_URS
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SunBabe:
Frankly, I consider myself priceless. ...and wouln't even consider changing my 'single' status unless I found another priceless fella. (And in that case, money is the least of the considerations )
As do I...!!!....Yup... 
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| Oct 17, 2006 @ 7:52 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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I find that I'm suddenly very popular in China and Russia, but those are green(card)diggers, not golddiggers.
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