| Jan 24, 2006 @ 4:59 AM |
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luvscruisesalot
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My father was 18 and my mom was 29 when they married and it lasted for 47 years until he died. My mom said she wanted a man to outlive her. Well she is now 90 and going strong. I have ALWAYS dated younger guys---but now the ones 25 years younger are looking really good. Their bodies are still in shape, they have stamina and they are looking for Milfs. So we fulfill each other fantasies---whats the harm with that? They are still older than my sons---so its not creepy yet----but ask me when I'm 90 
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| Feb 23, 2006 @ 4:35 PM |
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BreezNthru
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I have dated guys 15 years youner than me but felt a little strange about it because I figured people would look at us and think "oh how sweet he is to take his mother out".
I have been contacted by much younger men, I think they read that I am a 60 year old widow and see "desparate"....nope, that's not me. I think they are looking for a sugar momma and that ain't me. I'm old, not stupid.
I would like to find someone my age, someone who can relate to the things I grew up with and someone who isn't over the hill. I also get tired of the men who are 10-15 years older than I am. Women their own age would appreciate them and love them, they would understand where they came from and who they are.
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| Mar 29, 2006 @ 12:50 AM |
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Adstel
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I was married for 35 years to a man 14 years younger. We filled gaps. He finally succumbed to "Nam war wounds and I miss my "young guy."
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| May 10, 2006 @ 1:32 PM |
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startswthakiss
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I find that an older woman almost has to date younger men, not young like under 35, because men our age are looking for the younger women. It is hard to find someone our age who isn't looking for that eye candy. I either have to go older or younger. If I go older they are to laid back for me and I am afriad I might hurt them,  I had a couple of bad scares with older men. I perfer older but I need someone who is healthy. I have also been with younger men, but for the most they are just wanting sex with the older woman not a longterm relationship with one. 
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| Jun 12, 2006 @ 12:51 AM |
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JZ
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You're right on target regarding many men (notice I did not write "all") outside of the USA are looking for a way to get to this country and will say anything. If they want to meet you and you're open then go for it. Just let them get here on their own (without your assistance: letter of invitation, or a copy of your bank statement). If the person is already in the country check out the "status" look at the passport, and/or visa/papers. If the person refuses to show it then walk ,no run in the other direction. When in doubt check with INS you'll get all of your questions/concerns addressed.
Some younger men come across as though they are either looking for "mommy" , or for some reason(s) believe (so I've been told) that older women just want sex.
One of my co-workers has been married to a man 15 years her junior and they are quite happy (so, it can work). I think it's a risk regardless of the age. Take the risk if you like the person and if it works out , it works out.  
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| Jun 15, 2006 @ 8:49 PM |
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foxygrandma
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Younger men pay a lot of atttention to the more mature woman. Would be nice if you put a picture on your profile. 
Photos are worth a thousand words, and considered first, they are the lure to view the details
Anna Ruth
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| Jun 17, 2006 @ 9:06 AM |
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sherrymarie
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Good for you.
I have been a widow for five years. I guess I have lost my touch or I am fishing in the wrong pond. Age has to take a back seat and look for someone who has courtesy, integrity, perseverance, self control, and an indomitable spirit. Because at this age there is the fear factor: Abusers, sexually transmitted diseases, and those who would come in and take advantage of our success and possessions.
I have out lived two husbands; I want one that will last.
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| Jun 23, 2006 @ 5:47 PM |
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horselady9
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Been absent for a while, and in that time... this thread came to mind.
Long ago and far away (literally - 1300 miles and 25+ years) I dated a perfectly delightful younger man for quite some time. It started innocently - took myself out to dinner, and he was my waiter. We started chatting, since it was a slow night. As it turned out, he was soon to graduate from college, with a major in IT, and I was a long-time IT professional (still am, 40+ years in the industry).
So... since we had that, and several other things in common, I agreed to date him. I was concerned about the 16 years between us, but damn! It was great! But when he decided he wanted to introduce me to his mother, I brought myself up short! Ultimately, I helped him land his first job in the industry, and wished him well when he set off for the West Coast.
Missed him.. and never forgot him.
A couple of weeks ago, I received an email. Yes, it was from him, wondering if i were the person he'd known back East. He's twice married and divorced, and now back where he started. We've emailed and spent quite a bit of time on the phone, and it was just picking up a conversation that we'd stopped those 25 years ago. Pretty spooky!
Will I see him? Quite possibly. But those 16 years still are a bit daunting.
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| Jun 23, 2006 @ 8:23 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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WB Horselady!!
Five'll get you 10 that those 16 years will be trivial now...good luck!!
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| Jun 24, 2006 @ 6:55 AM |
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Spirit76
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You know something, I'm 47 in a few weeks and after a bit of life experience under my belt, I want a woman to be my friend, partner, lover who is in my own age bracket and to just enjoy one another...
Perhaps I'm being overly simple here, but there are middle aged men who are working on themselves and still have the stamina and yet maturity to compliment a women of near-equal age ;>)
By the way, I think middle aged women are far sexier than some teenage or 20-something moppet - LOL ;>) I like women with life experience and some sophistication under their belt.
Take care,
Spirit
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| Jul 3, 2006 @ 12:31 AM |
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whozatladi
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I think younger men are way more fun then older men!! Older men are way to serious...love to chat.
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| Jul 3, 2006 @ 2:13 AM |
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Spirit76
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*Really*???
Hmmmm.... I'll remember that when I get to be an old guy - LOL
Returning back to chasing SunBabe and discussing Chocolate and strawberries ;>)
Spirit.
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| Jul 3, 2006 @ 2:27 AM |
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SunBabe
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Oh crap!  I completely forgot I fall into that "older woman" catagory! 
(  just means I run slower, lol)
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| Jul 3, 2006 @ 1:45 PM |
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lacyvsq
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OK -- in this past week, I have gone out for drinks with a man 25 years younger -- he was half my age two years ago. He is young enough to be my son or nephew -- but he's neither -- in fact I have no sons (or daughters either -- for which he might be more appropriate.)
What do/did we have in common? We liked the same songs -- tho he is into some music which I have never heard. He even liked the classical music on my radio station tho. He was charming, mannerly, respectful and respectable, sexy and intelligent -- as am I. We have had similar experiences of heartbreak, and we have similar views about life, love, relationship and sex.
Do we have any future together? Too early to say, but I just can't see writing him off because of his age. I may be written off by him because of my age, but until that happens, why would I not enjoy the company of this younger man?
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| Jul 6, 2006 @ 1:07 PM |
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nico1et
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very interesting reading. things/feelings sure have changed over the last 10-15 years, haven't they?
my ex was about 5 years younger, & the last few "relationships" were around 10 years younger. there was one or two in there who were a couple years older, but they weren't necessarily any more mature or better suited for me than the others.
it's such an individual thing. you just never know what's gonna work or what's not gonna work i guess. the youngest i ever dated was someone who was 11 years younger & at the time i guess i was 28 (you do the math & figure that one out!), & at that point, it was just way too different. now i'm not so sure that i even wanta date someone 10 years younger, but nothing's written in stone....
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| Jul 20, 2006 @ 9:23 PM |
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jdtallfem
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I have most often dated guys younger than me and while some of them I did have to fend off with a stick ( they did just want sex) others did want to get to know me and date for awhile. Do beware of the ones from other countries, however. There is a check cashing scam going on in Africa where they ask if they can send you a check, you cash it and then it bounces and you're out the money. I never did it, heard it on the news, but have had some scumbags who were younger who said they were on one state in the US suddenly claim they were now in Africa and ask if I would cash a check for them. Of course I said no and please don't contact me anymore. I think they do prey on older women. Other than those scumbags and some over amerous "youngsters" for dates, I've had some great times.
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| Jul 23, 2006 @ 6:14 PM |
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madamegeek
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Hmmm...so that is what the next step would have been?
Asking me to cash a check? I never reached that point because, after getting two almost identical contacts within a day, I reported them as scams and they were cancelled.
I just watched that Jack Nicholson and Diane Keaton movie ( "Something's Gotta Give") and have to admit that, if I had been the one who had smitten Keanu Reeves, I might have indeed considered a tryst with a lad. But, it WAS just a movie - I am awake now 
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| Jul 24, 2006 @ 12:24 AM |
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SunBabe
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Awww 
I'm still a sucker for a MATURE "younger man"
...and if I wait long enough, those "younger men" will all be retired and we can have all kinds of fun whenever we want!
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| Jul 30, 2006 @ 8:40 PM |
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Meadowlark8
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I think it all depends on the guy.
Some men are extremely grounded at a younger age,
some are not.
I personally prefer someone close to my
own age. And that goes in either direction of
up to 7 years younger, or 7 years older.
Why closest to my own age? Good reason, I don't want
to be either a "Babysitter" or a "Caretaker"....
Besides when I do finally reach my golden years, I
still want someone around that is "Alive and breathing".
I don't know how women could ever hook up with men
much older then themselves. They're destined for a lonely
old age since he's gonna "Kick the bucket" much, much sooner in life.
Just my thoughts on it all...
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| Aug 12, 2006 @ 2:41 PM |
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wiccked
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 HELL, yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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