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SpiritEnergy
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I am too much into being attached at the hip. I would drive him crazy fast. Then I would be alone again.
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| Apr 8 @ 11:39 AM |
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BandTMom
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I don't mean attached at the hip.
I mean he's there when you need him....and when you don't.
He's there when your lonely....and when your not.
And he's there when your sleeping and can quietly roll over into the strength of his arms.
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| Apr 10 @ 10:42 AM |
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happygrlok
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I have been alone for long periods of time so I have learned how to be alone and enjoy my own company. I am comfortable with me and where I am at this time in my life. But there are times I would love to have someone to share with. So I am not loving it or hating it. I am just accepting of where I am right now.
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| Apr 10 @ 1:14 PM |
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joshuaidaho
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You are very hot happygrlok. You shouldn't be alone.
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| Apr 10 @ 4:15 PM |
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daisy315
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I've gotten used to being alone.. it's not that bad.. when I feel the need for company, I get in my car and visit friends. I sit on the front deck and watch the kids in the neighborhood play.. take my dog for a walk uptown.. there is usually someone at the town square for me to talk to for a while.
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| Apr 13 @ 8:10 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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I understand the concept of "getting used" to being alone and even the concept of "being happy" with yourself. While that is all well and good....I do not think people are made to be alone. Humans thrive on touch and love...it is a proven fact. I think that is why animals tend to be so good for our seniors....it helps them to thrive.
I have one teenager left at home who is gone alot of the time...so I guess I am getting somewhat used to what it may be like.
Being alone is one thing....but being lonely is yet another. I love being alone at times but when I may feel lonely....it is not a good feeling. I love people and I love being in a relationship where love flourishes and grows. I flourish in an intimate and loving relationship......so I for one do not want to be alone, but will accept it for now...kicking and screaming all the way.....until my special lifelong SO comes along. That is my story and I'm sticking to it.... 
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| Apr 15 @ 7:05 AM |
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mystery2u888
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Spring..........  ........where are you 
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| Apr 15 @ 7:25 AM |
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happygrlok
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mystery...  .....I miss her too...... hope all is well with her and she returns soon...
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| Apr 15 @ 8:25 AM |
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1stsignofspring
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I don't want to live alone...  Even if I did....you wonderful people wouldn't LEAVE me alone!!  Now here.....take this puffs and dry your eyes...
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| Apr 15 @ 8:48 AM |
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mystery2u888
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Happy.  ..........it was sad..  ....that little spring knows better..........herie herie herie.  ......if I catch any of you dissappearing without  checkin in first.....u's be dealing with me.........  muahwahahhaha...  .....and I will find you........the messenger will see to that........  spring I am sooo happy to see you back.............woohoo party's on 
xoxoox YIPPPEEEEEEEEEEEE SPRRRRINGGGGGGG
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| Apr 15 @ 9:08 AM |
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happygrlok
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Taking the puffs from spring and drying my eyes...so glad your back...who else would we pester?..... if you don't want to live alone I can send my dog over...he's good compnay.....will that work for you?....lol
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| Apr 15 @ 10:54 AM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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I'm just not the type to live alone...son, roomie, two dogs and four cats. I just don't want to live with my SO - it's wonderful having a place to escape to!
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| Apr 15 @ 3:18 PM |
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MuskogeeBill
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I have lived alone for over 20 years. I LOVE it. Do I get lonely sometimes,sure. But then I go in my back yard and the neighbors pit bull bitch snaps,growls and barks at me and I am good again. 
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| Apr 15 @ 4:04 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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Thank you Happy for the offer of the dog....but if you are going to take him or her back then I will cry....I get too attached. I watched my friends cat Poocha....while they went on a month trip to India....I cried when she left... 
Bill...too funny!! Are you comparing a woman to that pit bull? 
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| Apr 15 @ 4:08 PM |
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happygrlok
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maybe the pit bull makes Bill have flash backs... 
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| Apr 15 @ 4:10 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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Well it seems to calm him down some....maybe it is familiar territory Happy...
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| Apr 16 @ 2:41 AM |
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MuskogeeBill
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Well doesn't exactly calm me down. Just lets me remember why I am single.
Brings that old song " Thank God and greyhound she's gone" to mind.
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| Apr 16 @ 11:19 AM |
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1stsignofspring
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Well I have never heard that song before, but if she was like a pit bull...even I'm scared!!
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| Apr 17 @ 3:32 AM |
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gettingolder
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I live alone, and not much liking it anymore!
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| Apr 17 @ 7:54 AM |
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JenRNinOhio
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I can not remember the last time I lived alone .... Maybe those couple of years after school, without a roommate before getting married ... and having kids ... and more kids ... More than 30 years ago?
whew!
At 55 I still have 3 teens at home ...
I simply ADORE the rare nights when all 3 kids stay overnight at their dad's house & I get to listen to the quiet.
I might have a different opinion if it were ALL THE TIME but right now I am lookiing forward to being an empty-nester.
Been doing this *Mom thing* for over 30 years now.
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