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Jun 10, 2006 @ 3:44 PM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
mejaycee3


Posts: 22
Hi everybody. I am a BBW & I think I'm an attractive, friendly, likeable lady. But I have to wonder, does the fact that BBW is in my profile put men off? I would think that at our age, we've learned to look beyond physical appearance to find the true person. Besides, people become larger or smaller with some regularity so who knows what we'll look like in a year! I'm not bitter about this, as I have a date most every week, just curious. By the way, if any of you nice guys live near Alex City & aren't put off by those three little letters, I'm on here! :-)
Hope you all find whoever you're looking for!
Jean
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Jun 16, 2006 @ 6:39 AM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
ILOVETOKISS


Posts: 22
You look fantastic, Jean. Wish we lived closer. Nothing wrong with a curvacous, voluptous women.
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Jun 16, 2006 @ 4:20 PM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
donny3


Posts: 571
I will second the above remark
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Jun 16, 2006 @ 9:05 PM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
ladyraindove74


Posts: 288
A lot of us carry a extra pounds as we age. Some have the fortune to have the genes to remain slim and trim after having children. Unfortunately, the rest of us get to carry some extra baggage. LOL...I think the thing is to be happy with what and who you are...if others don't like that, then, they're far too shallow to spend time on. Be yourself...hehe, course who am I to say much...I scare them off ...LOL...
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Jun 16, 2006 @ 10:10 PM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
Dovestreasure


Posts: 3,447
Jean Fellow BBW here.... for a very long time I didnt think that men found me attractive and i lost my self confidence , but have discovered in the past ten years of my life that voluptous women are very much desired by more men then I imagined. Regardless of your outside package its always best to judge from the inside out. To those men who do , you are indeed very special
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Jun 18, 2006 @ 3:47 PM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
GonnaTry


Posts: 38
But we're still single.....I enjoy the company of great guys. I've never been short of admirers and dates and of course intimacy when it's right.

But these great guys decide the smaller ladies are the ones to remain in a long term relationship with.

I guess we're back to the same old theory. Men love curvy,voluptious bodies. But in public and to the rest of the world it has to be the accepted norm. Slender women that their buddies will accept and approve of.
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Jun 19, 2006 @ 12:12 PM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
Halfevl333


Posts: 89
For me I love a woman with some meat on her bones. I mean the chubby, voluptuous, or larger woman is very sexy. Now having said that, there is a limit. I mean, if a woman is grossly obease, then I do not find her sexy. I have a female friend who is the only single woman in the group I hang out with. All the women but one are larger but she is the largest and probably weighs 4 -500+ pounds... looking at her and trying to imagine having sex with her just doesn't bring up a good mental picture... not sure how one would even be able to...physically. I mean she is extremely nice and great personality but not real attractive physically. There is one woman that if she weren't married I would be all over her. She is probably 75 to 100 pounds over her ideal weight and she is sexier than heck... So I do not rule out larger women...



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Jun 20, 2006 @ 1:14 AM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
Dovestreasure


Posts: 3,447
Gonna try .. you have a valid point. We live in a society where our concept of beauty is created by the media. Just look at all the glossy covers of magazines on the check out line at the grocery store. There are men that will always look for the trophy girl friend who will look great on their arm. Then there are men willing to step outside the box, and not worry about popular opinion and what their pals think. Everyone is free to have their preferences of course. Attraction varies for all of us. I do not believe I am single because of my dimensions. I have had some very happy relationships and some not so happy. I feel confident that I will find that Special man that is right for me. You will too.
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Jun 22, 2006 @ 6:42 AM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
rowhoe


Posts: 5
I love BBW. For the reason of honesty if nothing else. If she calls you friend, then you can believe it, count on it, feel it with no doubts what so ever. If she should love you, count your lucky stars, she'll be there through thick and thin. (no pun intended) And when it comes to cuddling and loving, I'll take soft and warm over a bag of rocks anyday.
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Jun 23, 2006 @ 3:19 AM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
SensualGemini


Posts: 14,006
Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?


...Well, I have to admit, I am not too sure what a BBW is... I was on another site some time ago and chatted briefly in response to a woman that had BBW in her profile. I politely asked what it meant and she told me to guess... I have to guess, that I guessed wrong, as she blocked me... so now, I remain paranoid of them:)
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Jun 23, 2006 @ 5:02 AM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
Snappygoddess


Posts: 5,742
And you think we are going to enlighten you, Sensual?
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Jun 23, 2006 @ 3:51 PM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
SensualGemini


Posts: 14,006
And you think we are going to enlighten you, Sensual?


...Just guessing again, that this is not Truth or Dare. Sometimes, ignorance is bliss! ...

...Of the ladies that have posted thus far, I don't see any reason for any concerns of personality or appearances. I can only suggest that nobody allow another to control them by their own insecurities; as we all have them.
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Jun 24, 2006 @ 5:55 PM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
mejaycee3


Posts: 22
By the way, Sensual, BBW stands for Big Beautiful Woman. Just thought I'd clue you in. :-)
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Jun 24, 2006 @ 6:00 PM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
mejaycee3


Posts: 22
I hope this doesn't show up 3 times, but it seems to not be accepting this post. Here we go again:
I want to thank all of ya'll for the compliments & positive comments concerning me & other ladies who carry some extra weight. I really feel much better about how I might appear to others. Kisses & hugs to all of you!
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Jun 25, 2006 @ 10:33 AM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
willsmalto


Posts: 2,187
I thought BBW meant Big Breasted Women....ok how about BUW - Big Ugly Woman lol
candidly speaking, I always like some flesh on a woman's body but er...er...not too much cos I might get too full lol
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Jun 29, 2006 @ 3:20 PM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
Timber52


Posts: 10,443
Awww Will..
Just because the pot is full..
does not mean you have ta eat the whole thing!!!!!!
save a little..

all jokes aside..
we are all just people..
some skinny.. some fat..
some funny.. some not..
ugly.. pretty..
don't matter...
the personality is what counts!!!
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Jul 2, 2006 @ 8:27 PM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
mejaycee3


Posts: 22
Here, here! You are so right, Timber. After all, in twenty years even the most beautiful among us is going to look completley different. But, with very few exceptions, the kind of person we are now will be the same, be it beautiful or ugly.
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Nov 8, 2007 @ 11:37 PM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
JZ


Posts: 29
Timer52 , I totally agree.
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Nov 12, 2007 @ 11:18 AM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
luneib


Posts: 685
Yes, the media makes us think that a size 1 or 3 is the norm. I don't know many women that are that size, isn't the average size a 14+? Men being visual can't seem to get by the outside image to what is on the inside of a person, if more men did they would find the love they were looking for. So many nice women are being overlooked just because they have a few extra pounds.
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Nov 12, 2007 @ 12:40 PM Guys 40-60- how about us BBW's?    
Heaveninawildflower


Posts: 22,725
Men being visual can't seem to get by the outside image to what is on the inside of a person

The trouble is that it's not a matter of choice, it's a matter of what we are...it's all about that chemistry thing. No matter what we want, we're ruled by that chemistry. You can put two people together - great sex, common interests, similar values, really enjoy being together, but there's still that other 'something'...if it's not there, you'll never be more than friends (even if its with benefits). And you can't put it there by wishing it were so. I think a lot of men are just being honest about it, and I'm the last one to fault them for honesty!

I don't know if I qualify as BBW, but I'm definitely bigger than I want to be. For me it's not about beaury, it's about pain...it HURTS carrying extra weight. Whether my 'SO' would feel differently about me if I lost the 50 pounds or so I'd like to dump, I don't know. Guess there's one way to find out though...and I really do want to walk the PF Chang half marathon in January anyway.

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