| Nov 19, 2007 @ 8:44 AM |
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catman602
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new trend in modeling . clothing companies who in the past used skinny modles are now looking for BBW woman . why ? because the BBW woman wants to look like those in magizines . when she walks in a store she sees cloths for the skinny woman an not in her size . the gap saw this . and now , is using full size woman in there ads . My ex-girlfrind was 150 . skinny and had colds . the woman who were 200 did not have colds . BUT could make there boyfriend go YAHOO .
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| Nov 19, 2007 @ 10:42 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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In the past, I would never have considered dating a fat girl, it just wasn't something I'd ever done because I didn't find it attractive. As I've matured and grown though, I've found that the person inside is so much more important than the skin they wear, with the right person, they become the most attractive woman on earth to you, and you don't even notice how much or little they weigh.
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| Nov 19, 2007 @ 11:12 AM |
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Empath
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 That might change once the clothes come off.  
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| Nov 19, 2007 @ 11:59 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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Speak for yourself chickie, I know what I'll see.
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| Nov 20, 2007 @ 3:48 AM |
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candylily
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I think that men accept women's bodies better than women do. One guy I dated told me that men don't look at the same things we do. He said when they see a woman's body, they look at the breasts, the ass, and the legs. He said he's never once heard a guy say oooh look at the fat on her back (one of the things I really hate). He said that when a woman lies down and her ribs are sticking out, she's not too fat. Men don't care that our bellies are a little round when we're standing. At one of the get-togethers I got up and slow danced with a guy who commented about how nice it was to put his arms around a woman with a waistline. (I have a waistline because my hips are too wide, not because I have a tiny little waist like I used to have) One guy that I met on MD and who I had warned before we met that I was too fat, started laughing when he saw me and said that I had him scared that I would be huge. He told me that his test for whether a woman was too fat for him was whether she passed the belt loop test. He stuck his thumbs in his belt loops at his side and and said that as long as a woman fits between his hands, she's skinny enough and I passed. (He's a big guy so it wasn't that hard of a test.) I'm just glad men don't pick our bodies apart like we sometimes do ourselves.
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| Nov 20, 2007 @ 6:21 AM |
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dantheman41
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It's just that the BBW are not attractive. Why don't the BBW's do something about it and transform their bodies
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| Nov 20, 2007 @ 6:28 AM |
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Empath
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Why don't the BBW's do something about it and transform their bodies
Because there are usually other issues causing it, that need to be taken care of first. Often, it is the feeling of being unloved, but for me, it was the unwanted attention being sexually attractive got me. Some guys are just perverts/slime, and good looking girls get to be their most frequent targets.
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| Nov 20, 2007 @ 9:58 AM |
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curveyprincess
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I am a BBW, and I AM PROUD TO SAY THAT!!! 
If the man doesnt like it.... Then he needs to move on!! 
Just because you are a BBW, doesnt mean you cant be SEXY....
I use to hide all my curves, big breast and whatever else I felt I could hide.... Never would you ever catch me in something tight... or revealing....
But I discovered something from a man that I was dating, I WAS SEXY!
And I was created with curves, and cleavage..... This is ME!
You attract what you think.... So once my mind began to see it different, my entire dating life changed!
BBW, ARE HOTT AND SEXY! If he never sees that, its his lost, NOT YOURS!
So Dress sexy, and be proud of who you are!
Dont focus on your size, but focus on WHO YOU ARE INSIDE!
Beauty comes from within!!
And just because you are a BBW, doesnt mean you ever have to settle!
I know ALOT of men that love women with meat on tha bones!
Just got to believe in yourself, and they will find you! 
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| Nov 20, 2007 @ 11:31 AM |
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candylily
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it was the unwanted attention being sexually attractive got me
You're right, Em. It can also cause anorexia in young women which serves the same purpose. My mom's baby sister is 8 years older than I am. She is very beautiful but gained weight when she had kids. She went to Weight Watchers and did so well that they hired her to promote the organization. She's married with 4 kids but started getting so many sexual comments and unwanted sexual advances from the guys she worked with in her real job, that she deliberately put the weight back on. Many of them were guys she had considered to be her friends before she lost weight. She said she would rather be too fat than have to deal with all the negative side effects of being sexually attractive to men. She said she felt like she was no longer a person. I knew exactly what she meant. I had to leave a bar once because some guys I didn't know were yelling across the room that they wanted to eat my p***y. I was with a girl I had known all my life and I had tried to ignore it but she finally asked me if I knew them. It was embarassing. Another great memory was when a group of teenage boys stopped their football game in the schoolyard behind my house to whistle and holler at me when I walked out my backyard to take a walk with my 2 kids and one yelled that he wanted to lick my a**hole. You can imagine how I felt about my kids and neighbors hearing that. Some of my friends' husbands and boyfriends would get drunk and humiliate my friends by "flirting" with me in front of them (although flirting is not the right word for it. It was more like telling me in front of their girlfriends what they would love to do with me.) It made me feel terrible. I've said before that it's much nicer and easier to be fatter and older than it was to be young and very sexy. My life is much more pleasant now.
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| Nov 20, 2007 @ 10:53 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
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but for me, it was the unwanted attention being sexually attractive got me. Some guys are just perverts/slime, and good looking girls get to be their most frequent targets.
The different reactions women have to being attractive is interesting to me. Like Emmy, some hide it, but some others do everything in their power to attract those pervert/slime guys. You can see it right here on MD with the variety of profiles, some women try to project class and sophistication, some try to look as slutty and sleazy as MD will allow, just hoping to be noticed. Different looks attract different types of guys. It's not just a matter of curves or no curves, it's the person you are and how you present yourself.
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| Nov 20, 2007 @ 11:41 PM |
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curveyprincess
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The different reactions women have to being attractive is interesting to me. Like Emmy, some hide it, but some others do everything in their power to attract those pervert/slime guys. You can see it right here on MD with the variety of profiles, some women try to project class and sophistication, some try to look as slutty and sleazy as MD will allow, just hoping to be noticed. Different looks attract different types of guys. It's not just a matter of curves or no curves, it's the person you are and how you present yourself .
That is so very true!
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| Nov 23, 2007 @ 7:42 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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It's just that the BBW are not attractive. Why don't the BBW's do something about it and transform their bodies
Dan....I can't believe you said that...how cruel....
I am not a skinny woman by far and have some curves....mostly am larger at the top portion of my body. I used to cover it as well, but now I have accepted the shape I have. I try to exercise and stay healthy for the most part...but you cannot change your genes, or bone structure. There are lots of Beautiful and sexy BBW's around. It is all in the attitude....If I feel sensual...then I am sensual....it will radiate from me with the man I am with...and he will know it.
Oh...and by the way Dan.......you wouldn't even make it to 1st base with me hon after a comment like that......... I think you know what I mean....
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| Nov 23, 2007 @ 7:45 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
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Batter up!
1st, I just looked at your pics, you are in no way a BBW. If I had to classify your body, I'd say medium size, not skinny, not BBW.
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| Nov 23, 2007 @ 8:00 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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I am ...sort of........I certainly am not a size 10! Some men consider you large if you don't wear a 6, 8, or at least a 10.....
So I am a medium size with ...well....let's just say large top! 
Either way......Because Dan said what he said....it shows he isn't kind hearted, and he is very judgmental.....not to mention........WRONG..
Now if he said it wasn't for HIM, then that is another statement all together...but he classified all BBW's and said they weren't attractive....very not so smart statement to make!
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| Nov 23, 2007 @ 8:27 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
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Sure, I agree with that, but it's his POV. I used to date only really thin women, usually under 125lbs, but that was social conditioning, that's what I was taught was attractive. When you're a guy my size, pretty much any woman looks petite with you. As I've gotten wiser, I find that true beauty comes from the heart, not the skin, and when you love someone, you have to accept them as they are, not as how you want them to be. It's a hard, but worthwhile lesson to learn.
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| Nov 23, 2007 @ 8:41 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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Ok....was I too hard on him? I think of all the BBW's looking at this and reading the statement I guess.....and how they would feel....
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| Nov 23, 2007 @ 9:06 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
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Yeah probably, he left out two key words "to me", if he would have used those his comment would have been innocuous. He's still a young fella with growing to do.
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| Nov 23, 2007 @ 9:19 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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Yes, and that was what I was trying to say....."to me"..... 
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| Nov 23, 2007 @ 9:24 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
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So, if he says "to me", does he have a shot at first base?
Hey, that reminds me, remeber when we were kids, and "first base" ment getting a kiss? And then there was 2nd base, 3rd base, and home run.... Ahhhh nostalgia!
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| Nov 23, 2007 @ 9:25 PM |
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MsLani
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I am ...sort of........I certainly am not a size 10! Some men consider you large if you don't wear a 6, 8, or at least a 10.....
So I am a medium size with ...well....let's just say large top! 1st, I just looked at your pics, you are in no way a BBW. If I had to classify your body, I'd say medium size, not skinny, not BBW. Hey Guys!
So, I read these statements and thought..."Wow, so much variation in what folks think of as BBW!"
I am BBW and to me that means women who wear at the smallest and 18 and then it depends on your height and your body type.
I can't imagine a size 10 being BBW unless she is really short!
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