| Sep 20, 2006 @ 10:34 PM |
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sharlott
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I'm searching for  . Hoping to get  .
Somehow I wind up with  .
Is it just me, or can anybody else relate? 
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| Sep 21, 2006 @ 4:50 AM |
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chika121
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hi.i am look for u. 
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| Sep 21, 2006 @ 9:48 PM |
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nowunmarried
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Me too!!! 
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| Sep 26, 2006 @ 2:43 AM |
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Blueyesprkln
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I'm looking for too. Isn't working out really well though. More like . Why is there no single men who like bbw in East Central Alabama? I think I have a better chance of getting hit by a bus than meeting a man here, and we don't even have busses. lol If anyone knows of a single man looking for a relationship in ECA tell him to drop me a line. lol I'm looking for him and he's too good at hiding.
Blueyesprkln 
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| Sep 26, 2006 @ 8:14 PM |
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uab_5
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Welcome! 
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| Sep 27, 2006 @ 4:08 PM |
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LastDance31475
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Well I'm moving to Alabama from Mississippi. All I can say is I hope the dating scene is alot better in Al than in Ms. It's an act of congress dating over here. So I hope Bama is better.
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| Sep 27, 2006 @ 7:04 PM |
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SthrnDaizey
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*a toast*
To your first friends in AL!!
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| Oct 1, 2006 @ 12:07 PM |
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CutterJohn
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I can relate.... Seems like most of us have been through the mill so much we have forgotten the basics of any relationship. Honesty, trust, respect and communication.... I too look for and when I think I have found it, its based on a lie. Whatever happened to romance, courting, cuddling, snuggling...... whatever happened to intimacy.... I think pessimism has taken over and made us too wary of each other. Lets bring back the good....
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| Oct 3, 2006 @ 7:04 PM |
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BrianVanSickel72
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Don't let yourself SETTLE for just anybody. They should make you feel GREAT most if not all the time. Atleast that is what I am looking for, maybe I will never find it but I will have an interesting story to tell if I do.
Take care, Brian.
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| Oct 9, 2006 @ 9:23 AM |
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LadyCherokee
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Hi John
I agree 100% with you. It seems that 95% of both males and females are so burned out from the bad experiences that they have become distrusting and cynical and apathetic. It is just a numb and hopeless feeling sometimes after a few bad experiences. So whatever anyone suggests, I am willing to listen. Is everyone out for him/herself and does everyone have an agenda. Does everyone have expectations of tailor made person of the opposite sex that must meet their specs. They want something like a Barbie or her friend or Ken and his friend, yet if they would look in the mirror and take a true inventory of themselves, they wouldn't rank too high. So the expectations of these people stating, she must be under 5'5", she must be educated, she must be cultured, she must not do this, she must not do that, she must like sports, she must go alone with my hobbies, etc. Get the drift. Thanks for letting me vent. Mary
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| Oct 10, 2006 @ 9:42 AM |
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CutterJohn
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And the really truly amazing thing about these people is that they know how bad they hurt and how they felt when their partner lied to them and or cheated on them,
but yet they have no problem lying to or deceiving someone totally new just to see how they will react. If you can't or won't start a relationship / friendship with honesty what good will come from it? Talk People... get everything out there... I would rather be hurt by the truth than mis-led by a lie.
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| Oct 10, 2006 @ 11:08 PM |
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hackhack
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Margo914 typed "...she must be educated..."
Hey, that's not too much to expect... 
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| Dec 19, 2006 @ 2:11 AM |
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sleeplessinelkmont
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I'm also searching for but sometimes it feels like . I'd be happy to have a nice lady to see regularly and maybe share a little  with who can leave the possibilities open for more if things click. I don't like to and am not into  ,  , or drugs. When I find the right lady or she finds me she will be made so very  to join me and we'll both be  .
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 8:25 PM |
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wstang69
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From what I see, if you are a nice guy, women ignore/overlook you and go for a bad boy. So, what else do you expect to have but ? I also feel like I have been . Is it all that hard to be  first and then go to ? Maybe a good  and some  strories would help. Of course, if a lady local to me would like some then, some time would be good. Maybe I am too much a romantic at heart, but, I do believe that is out there.
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 11:37 PM |
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hackhack
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Maybe women do want the bad-boys. Problem is, those relationships rarely go anywhere...then again, no woman wants a wimpy man either. I'm not about to throw out what I think women want and even if I truly knew, I'd not change who I was to please them. Been there, done that. If someone doesn't like you for who you are (unless certain characteristics really should be changed - you now what they are) then you won't be happy when you try to change yourself to please another person.
I personally couldn't care less about a relationship right now. I'm not lonely, I already have 2 kids, and I'm not about to rush into anything that I'd soon regret. I have too many other things in life to be concerned about than rearranging my life to meet the demands of some other person. Maybe that sounds selfish but I have my relationship with God to constantly improve and then comes my children. If someone comes along that finally catches my eye AND heart than so be it. Until then, I'm quite content.
I just hope that all of you will find joy and contentment in yourself first. When you can do that you'll just be that much better a partner.
So to keep the trend going:
I'm not looking for . I wouldn't mind a little and from time to time but I think its pretty selfish. If I do stumble upon the woman of my dreams, I'll be  but actively searching for that woman - IMO - is . After all, most of the women I've met lately scare the  out of me with all of their drama and issues. No, I kinda like my simple, stress free life. Plus, a queen size bed is all by yourself.
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| Dec 23, 2006 @ 12:16 PM |
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sarcasticlown
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I know the feeling I've been searching for that for a bit now but my picker seems to be stuck on crazy so hopefully for Christmas I'll get a new picker and try again for the new year.
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| Feb 11, 2007 @ 12:17 PM |
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debra41
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where you moving to in Alabama from mississippi?
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| Mar 19, 2007 @ 7:28 PM |
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Lilypad222
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Some of these posts are several months old. Anyone of you guys/girls had any luck yet??
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| Jun 19, 2007 @ 5:51 AM |
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sleeplessinelkmont
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No luck yet for me, a few contacts that went nowhere and one almost meeting that didn't happen.
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