| Feb 20, 2008 @ 12:53 AM |
So yeah, what I gotta do to get a chic to talk to me?
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onelowkotaec
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I mean...am I that ugly?...I know I'm not the best looking thing out there but gees you would think I was freakin the Hunch-Back of Notre Dame or something the way no girls talk to me...so yeah if anyone could guide me into what I might be doing wrong I would be thankful...I would like to think since we have had to resort to being on a dating site that ppl would look past what someone looks like and would take the opportunity to get to know someone rather than passing judgement on the way they look.. My myspace page
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| Feb 20, 2008 @ 9:29 AM |
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jamminjerry
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what you might consider doing is reviewing the profiles of some women you might be interested in and put some of the same bs that is on their profile, on yours. the words poetry, unconditional love, you know BS. don't forget to say that being friends is very important to you. this is a game. some would argue not but even that is a part of the game! LOL also hit on some 300 pounders! everybody needs somebody. i know i need a 5'10" redhead with attitude! LOL
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| Feb 20, 2008 @ 11:03 AM |
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onelowkotaec
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lol..I would do that if I was into games...but I'm not I'm just a genuine person and what ppl to see me for who I am not who they think they want...If they were finding who they think they want then they wouldn't be here now...So maybe they need a change and should take the time to get to know someone on their personality instead of just how they look..But what you said would work if I was trying to fool someone into thinking I was something I'm not...but that's just not me. I want someone to talk to me because they are intrigued about me not because of the way I look. Yeah, I have long hair and tattoos, I even listen to heavy metal, but at the sametime I am a great guy and was a wonderful husband for 11 yrs....just I've had to make changes in my life because of mistakes I've made....no ones perfect so yeah if your lookin for perfection your not gonna find here or anywhere else...My MySpace page
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| Feb 20, 2008 @ 10:04 PM |
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jarhed
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Just be who you are. None of us are perfect and those we are atracted to don't always feel the same about us. We live our live, be the best we can be and maybe someday, we will meet someone with the same values we share. It's not a thing you can will to happen. It happens when the right lady comes along and becomes a part of your life. You can't time it, you can't plan it, it just happens. Good luck in your search.
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| Feb 20, 2008 @ 11:06 PM |
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blueyedblnde1958
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Sweety...just like the guys said...just be yourself...someone will come your way...i do not see anything wrong with your pic...i have not read your profile...but your pic looks fine to me....have a wonderful day!! 
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| Feb 21, 2008 @ 2:45 AM |
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onelowkotaec
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jarhed you make a really good point the problem is no one is giving me the chance to be myself...They just look at my pic and move on..no questions no comments no nothing, this is the part I don't understand...If were here to "meet" new ppl then why do ppl come on here to look for the same old ppl?...I just don't get it, I'm a straight up honest hard working man with 2 kids that I have with me cause their mom is a piece of crap and could careless if they lived or died. But yet it seems noone can make it past my pic to even find out what type of person I am...That's the answer I am looking for why not take the time to find out about a person....I mean if I send you a message, why not just have the respect to write back and say hey, thanks but no thanks rather then just ignoring my message...I mean I don't sit here and copy and paste a message to every women on here I have to sit here and think what do I need to say to her to make her wanna talk to me...But all I'm looking for is maybe a well lets get to know each other...Just give the guy a chance, like me I might be exactly what your looking for but you'll never know because I don't dress a certain way or my hair is long...Clothes can be changed, Hair can be cut, but a personality will always be the same. So if you haven't found mister right yet, you might wanna start looking somewhere else. blueyedblnde1958
Thanks for the compliment, I am very thankful...I know I'm not that ugly, but I know I'm not the best looking either...but looks will only carry so for. You will learn alittle more about me here...
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| Feb 21, 2008 @ 4:23 PM |
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goody50
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If they don't like your picture you are better off without them anyway. You need someone that wants you just the way you are. Blue is right you are a good looking young guy  . It's thier loss to not get to know you. Don't give up and keep being yourself.
Jar it sounds like your heart is breaking longing for someone that may not even know how much you care. Have you told her? It sounds like you haven't given up finding that special lady. 
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| Feb 21, 2008 @ 4:58 PM |
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onelowkotaec
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goody50 thanks for the compliment, and your right. I don't need someone that is like that. I just think it's stuiped that someone who has to come here to find someone would still not give your average guy a chance. As you might can tell by what I say and how much I say about it, I do have some sort of intelligence. I'm not on here looking to get laid. I'm here trying to find someone new. I don't get out much so I figured I would come here and try. I do realize that my profile doesn't say much and is a little sarcastic but it does tell how I feel. I just figure if your just going to look at my picture and nothing more why even bother writing anything about myself. But all in all I am a pretty upbeat and goal driven person. I just want someone that will stand beside me in what I am trying to do with my life. But for future reference if someone writes you no matter if your interested or not, it is only fair to atleast write back and tell your not interested and maybe thrown in a reason as to why your not. Don't just not reply that's just rude. I can't stand when ppl do that sort of thing. I mean if someone took the time to read your profile and they feel like you have something in common don't thinks it's only fair to reply?...Just a thought.www.myspace.com/bdydrpkotaec
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| Feb 22, 2008 @ 7:14 PM |
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nah12
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the thing you must remember is not to take it personal if somone does not answer... make it short and sweet when you 1st email then maybe you will not feel like you invested too much time not to be answered........ we all have not been answered...
also there are a lot of people on the net that are not honest and people are on it for different reason.....just don't take the rejection or no answer to your email as being personal...people tend to make a yes or no decision on the spur of the moment for different reasons, it's not a long thought out process.....
good luck and have some fun.........
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| Feb 22, 2008 @ 9:57 PM |
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jarhed
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Just be yourself. Goody analyzed my previous comments and asked if my heart was breaking. Heck, I couldn't be happier. My heart isn't breaking for anybody. The bottom line is be who you are, enjoy life and when the time is right you'll meet someone special. Apparently you did once before if you have a couple of kids. I have a wonderful daughter and I don't regret the marriage I once had, that brought her into this world. It just wasn't meant to last a lifetime. Life is good, life it and enjoy it. If a relationship is what you seek then keep pursuing it and don't give up. This is a big world with a whole lot of people in it. You just need to be patient to find the right ONE. Take care and good luck.
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| Feb 29, 2008 @ 5:50 PM |
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onelowkotaec
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I just wanted to thank everyone that did post a word of support...but I have yet to really talk to anyone on this site but I'm being mauled on another..lol But anyway, I just guess it's the type of ppl on this site...I must not meet their standards or something..But thanks again for the support..
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| Mar 28, 2008 @ 4:35 PM |
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thedarkmechanic
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DUDE! You look like you'd fit right in at one of my favorite hangouts in Montgomery. Head On The Door. Check out their site:
www.myspace.com/headonthedoorbar
They have live music every weekend and girls who like the type of music we're into hang out there.
I'm also a total metalhead, so I know what yer talkin 'bout not being appealing to most of the women around here.
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| Apr 19, 2008 @ 11:31 PM |
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tidefan547483
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if i were you i wouldnt worry about it when the time is rite u will find the rite one and if a girl wont talk to u because of the way u look then shes not worth u time neway really if shes that superficial u dont need her neway its shame that ppl can be so blind to someone or something so wonderful because it may be different
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| Apr 20, 2008 @ 5:05 AM |
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JurisDoctor
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Not that I am anything approaching knowledgable in this area, but, lol, There is actually some really good programs to help you. Don't laugh guys, and ladies, please don't think ill of me because there are the same types of products for the fairer half of the species!!!
It takes practice, and a lot of patience, but you can totally change your situation once you learn how to what the opposite sex needs to feel and how to communicate with them to help them feel it. You ARE NOT going to be lieing, manipulating or playing any childish games. You will just be helping someone else feel better! I read a lot about it many years ago and it gave me much greater conversation skills. I told a very beautiful girl who was really close to me when we were in law school about. She went to Vegas to work at the Hard Rock Casino (The owner came up to her and gave her $20,000.00 cash to get her to waitress in thong at the pool--she was seriously that stunning). She emailed me a month later and had married a freakin BILLIONARE. If I were a little more inmature and selfish I would hate myself for telling her about that technology!!!
Give it a try!
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| May 26, 2008 @ 4:29 PM |
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PeniAnnie
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Well, I would think for starters - try a little respect. "chic"
Treat a "woman" with respect and you will be shown that in return. It would be foolish to say that looks don't matter. It does take a certain amount of superficial chemistry for two people to become attracted to each other. But even the best looking man cannot maintain a relationship with a woman if he has nothing on the inside.....no intelligence, compassion, understanding......etc
So sometimes it's what on the outside that makes a woman look, but it's definitely what's on the inside that makes them stay......
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| May 26, 2008 @ 4:31 PM |
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PeniAnnie
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......and I didn't mean for my post to come across as harsh.... I just have a habit of saying what's on my mind, so please forgive me if I have offended anyone!
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| Nov 4, 2008 @ 4:47 PM |
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dogtrainer4
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You would be surprised what a picture would do for you, women don't write to men with no PICTURE
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| Nov 6, 2008 @ 5:36 PM |
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Lkng4myLove
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The problem with these dating website is first the ratio of females to males. There are to many males on these sites. The second problem is with the female herself. They think because they have a snatch between their legs that they rule the world. The fact is that they play their female games while they are good looking and then when they become old hags all of a sudden they need someone to love them and give them companionship.
Next time you write to someone remind them of their age and that they aren't getting any younger and when you go on a date bring a mirror with you to remind them.
Good luck.
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| Nov 6, 2008 @ 8:43 PM |
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dogtrainer4
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Hey I talked to you, hang in there, true love takes time LOL Mrs. Right just hasn't found you yet
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| Nov 10, 2008 @ 11:57 PM |
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Noreen2002
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i MAY NOT BE 5'10, BUT i AM A RED HEAD WITH A ATTITUDE 
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