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Aktor1
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Ok everyone. Here is the deal. Friday April 17 is available at the PINZ bowling alley in Studio City. The cost is $70 per lane per hour plus $4.00 for shoe Rental. I need to know ASAP how many people are interested and willing to come. The more people there the cheap the price per person and the more fun.
PINZ BOWLING ALLEY
12655 Ventura Blvd
Studio City, CA 91604
PINZ Bowling Alley - CLICK HERE
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| Mar 3 @ 7:18 PM |
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MoBettaRetta
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Well, that is near me since I live in North Hollywood, too. If any hot guys will RSVP to your invite, perhaps I will show up. :-D
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| Mar 3 @ 9:33 PM |
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TallBlonde1
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RSVP me, I'll be there. 
Thanks Aktor!
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Aktor1
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Ok, I resign. I have had one other person really said they would be there, so I give up. Have a great time if anyone decides to get together.
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TallBlonde1
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MoBettaRetta
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Ok, I resign. I have had one other person really said they would be there, so I give up. Have a great time if anyone decides to get together.
Aktor1, I don't think you should give up yet. April 17th is still a long time from now. I would RSVP now, but there isn't anyone there for me to meet. I'm sure TallBlonde1 doesn't care to meet me. Besides, according to your profile, I don't think you would "dig" me anyways. LOL. 
You know how "L.A. People" are. It's always a last-minute thing with them. It's hard to make any real or solid plans with most of them.
That's why I consider myself reliable - I'm not from here! 
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| Mar 11 @ 1:12 AM |
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Aktor1
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Well I'm not going to put down my own money as a deposit for people that MAY or MAY NOT show up.
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| Mar 11 @ 10:43 AM |
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TallBlonde1
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Well Mobetta, after the insulting and rude comments you've made you did get one part right:
I'm sure TallBlonde1 doesn't care to meet me For sure I don't.
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| Mar 12 @ 12:20 AM |
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MoBettaRetta
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Aktor1, I understand about the money thing. I guess if I was doing the planning, I wouldn't want to do that, too.
TallBlonde1, what insulting or rude comments have I made? If I come across as rude, I do apologize. I happened to be very honest about my opinions and stand very firm behind them.
From what I recall, I have always agreed with you in the previous forums. I also recalled that I never put anyone down or insulted anyone's intelligence. It was someone else who insulted me and my intelligence.
When I said, I'm sure TallBlonde1 doesn't care to meet me. I meant that I didn't think that a straight woman wouldn't be interested in meeting another straight woman. So, if I offended you with that comment, I apologize.
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| Mar 18 @ 4:06 PM |
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TallBlonde1
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Maybe you should re-read your comments and think about how people other than yourself might take them.
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| Mar 18 @ 5:42 PM |
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WouldntItBeGr8To
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Maybe you should re-read your comments and think about how people other than yourself might take them.
Well Blonde, she attacked me for no reason in another forum, she and a few others have pretty much chased me away from the forums and even the blogs.
It is ALWAYS a pleasure to see you though 
gr8
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| Mar 18 @ 7:30 PM |
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MoBettaRetta
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Maybe you should re-read your comments and think about how people other than yourself might take them.
TallBlonde1: well, I don't know why you took offense to them. Like I said, I have always sided with you on the things that you have written. I don't insult anyone. I just give my honest opinions. These are forums, which means "open discussions." If anyone feels that I wrote anything that was off-base, people should be a man or woman enough to point them out to me. I don't go out of my way to make enemies.
WouldntItBeGr8To, same thing applies to you. I never wrote anything to personally insult you. I'm sorry if I offended you, too.
Again, there was someone who actually personally attacked me, my IQ, and my intelligence. When that was said, why didn't anyone else point that out and call her on that? I can speculate as to why I wasn't defended by others, but I am not going to go there. It's pointless.
Yes, sometimes I can be a little be forward and sometimes abbrassive, but I am actually a sweet person. The special people in my life feel that that I one of the most generous, giving, loyal, and trust-worthy people around. I am not trying to "sell" myself, but at the same time, I am trying to point out that I am a woman of honor and apology.
If I am wrong or need to apologize, I'll do it; however, I will not apologize for the things that I agree on. Those are my views and opinion and not meant to offend anyone particularly. I will say that some peoples points of views are a little "jacked up" in my opinion, but that is why where here to discuss.
Does every have to agree on everything? Absolutely not!
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| Mar 20 @ 4:09 AM |
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WouldntItBeGr8To
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Hi Mo 
Thank you so much for this post. Thank you for taking the time to express your self and share a little about who you are. It is late (bed time) so I won't respond now because there are some things I want to say and some sorrys I owe you 
First impressions can hit the mark or miss the broad side of a barn door  ...I over reacted to something, must have been a bad hair day or that time of the month for me (we men have that too you know  )
Thanks again for your nice post...I will come back and say more...It is important to me that I mend that fence, OK?
gr8
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| Mar 20 @ 5:18 AM |
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MoBettaRetta
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Thank you so much for this post. Thank you for taking the time to express your self and share a little about who you are. It is late (bed time) so I won't respond now because there are some things I want to say and some sorrys I owe you
First impressions can hit the mark or miss the broad side of a barn door ...I over reacted to something, must have been a bad hair day or that time of the month for me (we men have that too you know )
Thanks again for your nice post...I will come back and say more...It is important to me that I mend that fence, OK?
Hi there, WouldntItBeGr8To. Thank you for your reply and thank you for realizing that I am not a bad person after all. I know all people say this, "I'm a real person." However, I am one of those people who really mean it. I am not a sugar-coater, but I do try to say things with tact. People's feelings do matter to me, so if I am wrong, I'll say sorry when it's required. Trust me, I know what it's like to have hurt feelings - that's why I took up weightlifting. I got tired of being bullied in elementary school. LOL.
I think it's important for people to distinguish the differences between blatant insults and honest opinions. I know it's a skill that most people don't always have. Again, people should be men and women enough to call someone out when he/she is wrong.
I'm a night owl myself, since I am a night-shift worker. That also means I have problems sleeping. 
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| Mar 24 @ 1:44 AM |
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WouldntItBeGr8To
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same thing applies to you. I never wrote anything to personally insult you. I'm sorry if I offended you, too. I hope I didn't imply that you personally insulted or offended me...I could go back and look but will plead my case regardless As you state you can be a little bit forward and you even fess up to being "abbrassive". I am very impressed with how you pulled that off and still remained a lady
I said what I said because my personal choice or should I say, what I seek in a woman is her feminine soft side first and then she can show me her strengths. Abbrassiveness is not the first thing I look for in a woman but I know there are men out there attracted to that.
So yes, I may have been turned off by your in my face attitude, but I wasn't offended or insulted.
Again, there was someone who actually personally attacked me, my IQ, and my intelligence. When that was said, why didn't anyone else point that out and call her on that? I can speculate as to why I wasn't defended by others, but I am not going to go there. It's pointless . I think I vaguely remember this, but seeing as you had presented yourself as the strong woman who doesn't need any help, I didn't see a need to ride up on my trusty white steed and rescue you.
I hope you are smiling, I am having fun joking WITH you and I hope it is ok 
Yes, sometimes I can be a little be forward and sometimes abbrassive, but I am actually a sweet person. The special people in my life feel that that I one of the most generous, giving, loyal, and trust-worthy people around. I admit I erred in judging you from the little I know of you. BUT, I am sure you have experienced this in the past...if comes with the territory, of being a "strong" woman on the outside and I am sure your physique plays a part in first impressions when people meet you. And that wouldn't be surprising, we are taught that petite women are more loving, caring, sweeter...or whatever image is put out there by the powers that be in America. Other countries don't have as many preconceived ideas as we do
I am not trying to "sell" myself, but at the same time, I am trying to point out that I am a woman of honor and apology. I am sooo, glad you spoke up so I could apologize
If I am wrong or need to apologize, I'll do it; however, I will not apologize for the things that I agree on. Those are my views and opinion and not meant to offend anyone particularly. I will say that some peoples points of views are a little "jacked up" in my opinion, but that is why where here to discuss.
ummmmmm, no need for YOU to apologize I hope you accept mine.
Does every have to agree on everything? Absolutely not! Nope But talking about it sure makes for a better world
And as far as your reply here:
Trust me, I know what it's like to have hurt feelings - that's why I took up weightlifting. I got tired of being bullied in elementary school. LOL. I too got bullied in Jr. High and High School for having long hair, but at the time peace was what it was all about, I lived by the saying "I am a lover not a fighter" so I never pushed back, but that is just me
gr8
I have the night owl clock thing going on too 
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MoBettaRetta
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Hi there, WouldntItBeGr8To. Thanks for your message. I am glad we got everything cleared up.
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| Mar 24 @ 9:42 AM |
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MoBettaRetta
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WouldntItBeGr8To: I just wanted to also add that I did not feel insulted by you. Also, I am flattered that you appreciate my honesty and humbleness. It's nice to know that I made a new friend in the message boards.
Sometimes it sucks being me. I'm so easily misunderstood.
Also, I think you should post a "long hair" photo of yours. I so want to see! LOL. In exchange, I'll post an old high school photo of mine. I look like a lost "American Gladiator." LOL. I wrestled for my school and our colors were Red and Blue. This was also the time when I really sported the perm! ;-)
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| Mar 24 @ 2:05 PM |
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WouldntItBeGr8To
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Also, I am flattered that you appreciate my honesty and humbleness. Well...there you go My mistaken first impression of you was WAY off base. I would never have thought the words: flattered appreciate honesty and humbleness. were even in your vocabulary  ...I am exaggerating a little bit but I have to say that women that come off as hard a** as their first impression don't usually even get a second glance from me 
Sometimes it sucks being me. I'm so easily misunderstood There you go again, like I said...first impressions can suck
This reminds me of a song from way back that is very important to me...The Animals had a big hit with it.
B.Benjamin/S.Marcus/C.Cadwell
Baby, do you understand me now
Sometimes I feel a little mad
But don't you know that no one alive
Can always be an angel
When things go wrong I seem to be bad
But I'm just a soul whose intentions are good
Oh Lord, please don't let me be misunderstood
Baby, sometimes I'm so carefree
With a joy that's hard to hide
And sometimes it seems that all I have do is worry
Then you're bound to see my other side
But I'm just a soul whose intentions are good
Oh Lord, please don't let me be misunderstood
If I seem edgy I want you to know
That I never mean to take it out on you
Life has it's problems and I get my share
And that's one thing I never meant to do
Because I love you
Oh, Oh baby don't you know I'm human
Have thoughts like any other one
Sometimes I find myself long regretting
Some foolish thing some little simple thing I've done
But I'm just a soul whose intentions are good
Oh Lord, please don't let me be misunderstood
Yes, I'm just a soul whose intentions are good
Oh Lord, please don't let me be misunderstood
Yes, I'm just a soul whose intentions are good
Oh Lord, please don't let me be misunderstood
Also, I think you should post a "long hair" photo of yours. I so want to see! LOL. I thought I had it posted in here but it isn't...I have posted one now, it is awaiting approval 
btw, you are OK in my book and I can't wait to see your pic 
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| Mar 24 @ 7:14 PM |
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MoBettaRetta
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I usually come off as a hard-ass to some, but sometimes I over-compensate my sweet side when I'm with a guy. When my friends see me with a guy, they laugh their butts off because they would never think that I am that sweet. ;-)
By popular demand, here's the photo. I'm sending you the link from my MySpace page. LOL.
http://c4.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/83/l_eb84fffa3f9662a61014b5423ee9e7c3.jpg
This was circa 1993.
And here's another photo - it's from bootcamp - circa 1994. I had to drastically chop off the hair.
http://c4.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/1/l_954a8436864a44f99193c50a9409af63.jpg
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WouldntItBeGr8To
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Great pics, thanks for sharing. Did you see mine? I put it in my profile. I was holding some snow if you want to know what that is in my hand. I think it was only the 2nd time I had seen snow and I thought it was so cool
All that stuff you said about how you come across, how friends see you, how dates see you.....all that stuff just drives you nuts, doesn't it?
I mean, why can't we just be who the hell we are? Why don't people "get" who we are inside  ...
I guess that is life, huh? The outside is part of us, for sure. But it sure isn't everything...that topic could be discussed on and on and on......
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