| Jan 7, 2007 @ 7:45 PM |
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Ceu74
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Why is it that men are affraid of honest and upfront communication?
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| Jan 8, 2007 @ 1:41 AM |
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steveemac
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Why is it this is another thread that lumps all of us with "Y" chromosomes into one big, steaming pile?
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| Jan 8, 2007 @ 8:17 AM |
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Ceu74
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Ok then...if you aren't all alike then why is it that men want open communication then drop a women at the drop of a hat with no explination?
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| Jan 8, 2007 @ 9:40 AM |
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steveemac
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The question should be phrased, "Why do some men do such-and-such?" I am not like all other men; I am like me-and if you have had an experience with someone that has treated you poorly, it is because of a defect in their character, NOT because they have a penis.
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| Mar 18, 2007 @ 9:53 AM |
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julyjoe
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i agree with you on one aspect guys do have trouble sometimes but i personally think that wemon should have more patents with us before explodeing on us. then agian there are some guys that will never change becuse they think its unmasculateing to show emotion...then in that case they would be called "lost causes"
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| Apr 15, 2007 @ 12:50 AM |
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amthyst_dream
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Honestly I think they are afraid of what we might say or react to the situation. I really wish men were upfront, I tell it like it is. 
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| Apr 19, 2007 @ 5:09 AM |
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MortisDruss
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I'm blunt and too the point about things.... I think it's the grunt in me....
If I don't like something or don't need something, I flat out say it.
It seems a lot of women have problems dealing with that, they expect me to hem and haw and roll over.
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| Apr 19, 2007 @ 10:30 PM |
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amthyst_dream
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Yes, I agree.
It's not . It's ok to show emotion I told my last bf that. Instead he'd put his anger on me that hurt alot. Don't need the emotional/verbal abuse even thought he thought it was ok.
I moved on with my life, great job new area but alittle out there. Show emotion please. It's ok it's not "Gay". That pisses me off when they say that. 
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| Apr 20, 2007 @ 4:56 AM |
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MortisDruss
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You da woman, Amthyst.....
Wish I had been on this site when I still lived in Ware....
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| May 24, 2007 @ 7:46 PM |
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luneib
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I always hated it when guys would say they were looking for someone to marry and that they thought I was so perfect for them, then after 2 dates, and no sex I might add lol, well...I had to know if they were being truthful or not lol, they would move on, no calls from them saying why they have not contacted me again, nothing. I know, guys should be more upfront about things. I remember I dated one guy, nice guy, originally from France but a U.S. citizen, we were great as friends, just were not meant to be long term, I phoned to tell him what I felt about the situation, he agreed with me, we had a mutual understanding. Wish more guys were like that. Luckily I don't have to worry about the dating thing anymore but it was frustrating as hell when you had to wonder what a guy was thinking.
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| Jun 18, 2007 @ 3:15 AM |
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urfav
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why is it that the guys who are honest are over looked because of what a women experienced before???
im a honest guy and it seems like im looked at as a liar just because other guys do it. tell me that one?
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| Jul 1, 2007 @ 9:41 PM |
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Microchip
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wemon should have more patents with us before explodeing on us
Wemon should have more patents only if they invent more things! By the way, what's a wemon?
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| Jul 1, 2007 @ 9:44 PM |
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Microchip
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guys should be more upfront about things
Oh, really? And when a woman asks, "Does this dress make my ass look fat?", are you supposed to be upfront, and say "Oh, no, honey... your ASS makes your ass look fat".. or should he lie like a rug, and say, "of course not. You look just great!"
Do you women REALLY want brutal honesty???
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| Aug 1, 2007 @ 9:41 PM |
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sassysass
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because most men still have the mentality of cave men
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| Sep 1, 2007 @ 12:54 AM |
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rob25910
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because most men still have the mentality of cave men
Really? And most woman won't show any real interest in a man unless he makes pretty good money. That's the cave woman mentality.
I went on a date last month and the woman got upset with me when I didn't tell her exactly what I earned daily. It's amazing how woman are so quick to point out all the faults that men have and all the while not noticing a single thing that woman do wrong. I hate to burst your bubble ladies, but woman are not perfect. Judging from these childish comments, like men have cave men mentality, you apparently think that you are.
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| Sep 7, 2007 @ 5:19 PM |
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sassysass
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We all have animal instincts, men moreso and they have less self control.....That's why most men can't pass up A@@ when It's in front of them.
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| Sep 8, 2007 @ 2:26 PM |
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Beefaroni
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Alrighty...
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