| Mar 8, 2007 @ 12:03 AM |
Help!... are all the woman my age that are not married wacked or is it me?
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Dovestreasure
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Ken you know your wives love all of you, including your pink parts 
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 12:56 AM |
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navyman678
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I want to know what it takes to get a woman to talk to you. 98% of the emails I send are never answered.
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 8:59 AM |
Help!... are all the woman my age that are not married wacked or is it me?
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devoe810
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I think this would be the number one question asked by males in the forums. The way I see it if they even dont have the courtesy to write back to say "Thanks for your email but not my type" all the better. A smiley pic might help! My pic shows me as causal and my attitude with free dating sites Your not alone.
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 10:22 AM |
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witchietoo
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I can honestly say I reply even if it is a Thanks but no Thanks. There are issues with replying when your not interested though. Plenty of times you get a nasty spiteful email back going off on you because you didn't give the guy a chance. I just delete them and not give them a second thought, as it just shows my judgment was right about the person. Some women do hold what other guys have done to them against other guys and due to that will not reply if they aren't interested.
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 10:57 AM |
Help!... are all the woman my age that are not married wacked or is it me?
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fuchia04
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If someone is not interested, I don't think they should have to send a reply back. Some people receive lots of e-mails per day, so it can be time consuming to respond to each and every one of them. Also, if I e-mail someone, I'd prefer a no-reply back then a message that was rude. I only send a prospect one e-mail and, if I don't get a response back, then I just move on.
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 2:44 PM |
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devoe810
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The ones that wrote back to me was pretty nice about saying thanks but no thanks. I guess it comes down to your maturity level as I would counter back with well wishes for them. Witchie your thumbs up in my book  Sad that you get abused sometimes and reafirms you made the right choice. I too only write once and let it go. Same with calling but may a day or two later in case call again as they missed the message. Writing or calling more than that, someone may think your obessive. A little grounded self pride is in order too
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 9:43 PM |
Help!... are all the woman my age that are not married wacked or is it me?
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Dovestreasure
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I have expressed my feelings on this topic before. I think it is simply courteous to send a reply back, whether I am interested or not. If I am out about and someone says hello, I am going to be polite and say hello back. I of course would have to extend the same to online greetings. The one and only time I will ignore someone , is if their message is sexual in nature.. This of course excludes Jack  He is allowed!
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 9:47 PM |
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Kenn159
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Maybe women should always at first say no thanks to someone sending a email of interest ,and if its a person that she is interested in ,wait to reply back to him with interest .
That way if he freaks out over rejection ,you just saved yourself some time and heartache from a possible potential abuser,and if he takes it gracefully you have just seen a desirable trait that should be important in your next relationship.
If I was interested in a women I met on a web site ,and she emailed back and said no thanks ,then later said ,hey I was just weeding out wackos ,lets talk ,I would respect that she is looking out after herself,because after all ,its a crazy world out there.
Trust should be and is the most important thing to a women when entering the dating scene .
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 10:27 PM |
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witchietoo
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The one and only time I will ignore someone , is if their message is sexual in nature
I delete them too, laughing the whole time. Every once in awhile, I get in a mood where I will go right back after them...or decide to play with the scammers with an email address I don't use anymore. Give them a little taste of their own medicine. I have giving scammers email and messenger names to other scammers too. Yeah I know, I can be bad at times...lol
Witchie your thumbs up in my book
Thanks Dovoe 
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 10:30 PM |
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devoe810
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I heard there was a site that only the women could write to the guys first. I think that would be a cool idea. Anybody know of it?
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 10:36 PM |
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witchietoo
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Never heard of that one, I know there is a bbw site that guys have full member status the first 30 days free...but if your not a member you can't respond to them or even read the emails...lol
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 1:03 PM |
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Mr_Pete
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Why thanks you 
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| Apr 8, 2007 @ 12:59 AM |
Help!... are all the woman my age that are not married wacked or is it me?
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CountryGirl1975
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I feel where you are coming from. It is not just women though I have had my share of unmarried wacko men. I seem to attract them like a moth to light.
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| Apr 8, 2007 @ 9:00 AM |
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eAngel6969
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I'm coming in to this one sooooooooooo very late so didn't read absolutely EVERY posting since the beginning...started around page 4 and saw all the "gold digger" comments...and I was just having a thought on that. Remember back to the days of Leave it to Beaver? Doris Day? etc...by today's standards those "mothers" could have been seen as gold diggers...they stayed at home while the man left the home and earned the bacon so to speak...they lived in nice houses and lived nice, well off lives...those were the roles of men and women back then
Also keep in mind that we are still in the generation of children who grew up with parents who watched those shows in their original showings...and in some part, those values and ideals rubbed off each generation...they HAD to morph on some level, though, because we are now in a society where most moms and women leave the home and work, having chilren outside marriage...marriage isn't the be all and end all because women are having to be more independent...oftentimes this is threatening to men (they too are still partially raised on the male role of the leave it to beaver society) and then they come across a woman who is actually out for the marriage and the homemaking thing...and she's instantly a wacked gold digger...and suspect...
this is just meant to be some food for thought...(because i know there are many out for the rih - bt hat's been gonig on forever - look at arranged marriages and other cultures - pretty daughter gets hooked up with well off man and the pretty ones are the first to be chosen and the wealthy ones are the first to choose them)
it's craziness out there in the dating world and the rules are out the window...it has to be whatever YOU are comfortable with...to some that means instantly being exclusive while you learn about eachother...to others, it's seeing other people until you have "the talk"...to some it's taking turns treating to a meal while others it's always the man that pays...or going dutch...in other situations, it's always the man who has to call and set the date...others it's the woman or taking turns...
i guess my ultimate thing is that YOU have to take responsibility for YOU and have a true handle on what YOU ae bringing to the dating table...if you're wishy washy about it...you attract the wacko's, you attract unhappiness, you attract tho with baggage who will take advantage...because you're not strong in yourself...YOUR STRENGTH and confidence will attract the same and happiness with someone will be forthcoming...
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| Apr 9, 2007 @ 1:43 PM |
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ontheredrock
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Im a 1st timer here.. most i find on here are broke, smoke or on prozak.. we all dream of the perfict 10... but what is it? When typing to a lady on here i find what i type, because they cant hear your voice and how it was said ..can get mixed up to a negitive coment.. is Less more?? rick
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| Apr 9, 2007 @ 1:59 PM |
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jimfromerie
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If ya noticed, all these women want to take a walk on the beach. I live near the beach, if all these women were walking on the beach, it would look like penquin mating season in the antarctic. And, yes, i have met a few, and they are all wacked out. Their opening line is usually "i have been hurt before" They have truly wacky expectations, and are expecting to meet either Fabio, or Cloony. Or, they are housebound with some strange malady or another.
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| Apr 9, 2007 @ 6:42 PM |
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steelwalker1
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Amen, Dovestreasure!! My thoughts exactly. As one gets older, perhaps we become more discriminating, or perhaps just a little bit pessimistic. But, in our own defense, there are those that prove all of those conceptions correct every day. Finding a real, good, decent person these days is much lke finding a gold coin on a crowded sidewalk. It rarely, if ever, seems to happen.
When you do, don't hesitate.
Good Luck!
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| Apr 10, 2007 @ 8:33 AM |
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countrygirlinthecity
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Do you want friendly conversation or are you just looking for someone to agree with you?
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| Apr 10, 2007 @ 8:43 AM |
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countrygirlinthecity
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I hear what your saying eAngel6969, but I don't think "gold diggers" is quite the right term either. I don't think a "gold digger" would clean house and cook dinner for fear of breaking a nail.
But I agreee wholeheartedly when you said we have to take responsibility for our own selves.
I think that no matter how to go at it or what gender you are, the older you get the tougher it is out there to find the right someonw for you.
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| Apr 10, 2007 @ 2:15 PM |
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quenisi
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I too have a friend that looked elsewhere. He went to the Philipines. Went through all of the trips to establish the visits, getting to know you requirements, then married her and a little over a year later, brought her home. She used his money to put herself through school and doing her best to talk him into putting her name on the deed to his 100+ acres. As soon as she got her degree, she left him high and dry and tried to soak him in court.
I have also heard several stories of brides and grooms coming out of Africa which very abusive results once they arrive here. Good luck.
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