| Apr 16, 2007 @ 6:46 PM |
Help!... are all the woman my age that are not married wacked or is it me?
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Dovestreasure
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Jack beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder. We all have different likes and dislikes and no one can begrudge you for that. My friend and I were sitting on a bench at Universal studios on Saturday night doing some people watching . Theme parks are great for people watching. We started playing a game of good match and mismatch. We watched couples walking by and based on merely physical characteristics we decided which couples seemed suited for one another. There were the obvious of course.. Barbie and Ken types, the less obvious Beauty and the geek types, The tall thin guys with their arms around their more voluptous ladies, The tall ladies with their shorter guys, Older men with younger women, Older Woman with Younger men, Tall men with petite women, Husky men with slender women,Inter-racial couples, and couples where one was disabled and the other was not.Even though we may have thought some appeared to be mismatched, they of course thought they were made for each other. How wonderful it is that there is someone out there for everyone 
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| Apr 16, 2007 @ 11:50 PM |
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Kenn159
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At some point if we all live long enough or are in a relationship long enough ,pretty or handsome may not be a prerequisite for a mate .
At some point the outside body ages and breaks down to a point ,that if one was judging by outside appearance alone ,this would not qualify for societies definition of attractive,and I don't remember seeing a 80 year old recently on america's top model or the Miss Universe pagent .
I think this reality is a opportunity for spiritual growth .
If you dont see it coming by the natural aging process then the world slaps you in the face and says "you have to appreciate and value people on a deeper level than just superficial looks ",because the reality is ,if all you see when you look at your aging mate is the shell ,then you are missing one of the fundamental truths of this life ,who you have loved and who has loved you,these are the spiritial connections that matter ,and they are missed when obsessing on just the outside apperiance .
[Edited on 4/16/2007 11:56 PM]
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| Apr 20, 2007 @ 4:37 PM |
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Dovestreasure
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Ken you bring up a very important point.. as we age and our physical appearance changes.Single folks face greater challenges as they seek a mate that will find them physically attractive.. This would explain why plastic surgeons are driving around in very expensive cars and live in homes that only the very rich and famous could afford in the past. We live in a society that wants the fountain of youth.Just look at aging hollywood, they have to nip and tuck everything in order to maintain the standard of beauty society dictates. If I am fortunate enough and live along enough, I would love to be half of a older couple walking hand in hand together. How awesome would be to still be loved based on who you are and not how you look.
When I was teaching Kindergarten , I had established a adopt a grandparent program. Each child in my class adopted a nursing home patient. We visted weekly as a class and eventually the children and families visited on their own. It was an incredible expereince for everyone involved. There was a married couple there I will never ever forget. They actually met and fell in love in the Nursing home. They were both adorable. He would tell me every week , that he was luckiest man in the world. He thought she was beautiful, and she thought he was her prince charming.Dang I can get choked up thinking about the two of them. Thats the kind of love I want ..pure, genuine and from the inside out 
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| Apr 21, 2007 @ 2:07 PM |
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outlaw_star
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Ok, to change the subject (slightly), (Got this idea from watching Maury Palvich asking for people to call in about secret crushes)
IF you had a chance to hook up with someone on this site, Who would it be?
(Age is not a factor - they can be 18 - 99, male or female)
Minimum - 3 choices and reasons
Maximum - As many as you want
Please be serious here too since it might open up new possiblities for people here who post on the fourm posts finding out they have a 'secret crush'
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| Apr 21, 2007 @ 4:30 PM |
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Kenn159
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Why my 3 wives of course, Lovey Dovey,Witchiedee and the Freakness 
Reasons ,3 very sweet women !
OK Outlaw ,you ask the question ,it's your turn.
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| Apr 21, 2007 @ 5:05 PM |
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fuchia04
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Not sure I want to "hook-up" with anyone on this site. I do know of at least one person I'd go out with in a sec, if only she lived just a tad closer to me.  (her pic is in my photos section)
but sadly, she lives a little too far away 
sorry but I can't think of two more on this site...  Well, actually I can but I won't tell  cause I don't want their heads to go swelling up. 
You know though, I have always wanted to meet Alanis Morrisette 
  Did I just say that?!?! 
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| Apr 22, 2007 @ 6:52 PM |
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eAngel6969
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O.K...just a note on something...as i was reading thru the posts to this thread...and got to the bottom of a page...there was an advertisement....
for sugardaddie.com... 
so wrong...lol
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| Apr 22, 2007 @ 7:42 PM |
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jackf1950
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well, the ad for me, as a guy was, and I kid you not
meet drunk women..
hummmmmmmmm
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| Apr 22, 2007 @ 8:54 PM |
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Dovestreasure
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As bold and foward as I can be I would not reveal my secret crush if I had one in a public forum.
now these crushes are no secret so of course I will reveal them loud and clear.
Ken
Jack
Fuchia
Outlaw
You are my favorite foursome... sexy, yummy, intelligent , and funny!!!!! I love you guys.
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| Apr 22, 2007 @ 9:12 PM |
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fuchia04
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Sugardaddy? Meet Drunk Woman? OMG this is too funny! One of my ads at the bottom says "Meet Big Booty Women" LMAO!!!!! 
Quote = Dove:
now these crushes are no secret so of course I will reveal them loud and clear.
Ken
Jack
Fuchia
Outlaw
Awwwww Dove...I am flattered!  
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| Apr 23, 2007 @ 5:01 PM |
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outlaw_star
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OK Outlaw ,you ask the question ,it's your turn.
Ok Kenn, IF I had a better then snowball chance in hades, and IF I thought the feelings would be returned then my three choices would be:
Dingycrackhead
Reason: fiesty, spunky and fun to talk to
Rainybow
Reason: Cute as all out
ladylike98
Reason: fun to talk to and tease and gives back as good as she gets in the
teasing department
Since I know they wont read this forum post my secret is safe! 
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| Apr 27, 2007 @ 12:16 PM |
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sodredge
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dude that was so cool, for what it is worth I hope you end up with one of your 3. Man that is just cool , coming out and saying it. You are the man
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| Apr 27, 2007 @ 2:17 PM |
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Dovestreasure
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Hey do not sell him short..why just one? Go get all three.. go get em Tiger.. show em what ya got
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| Apr 28, 2007 @ 1:40 PM |
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outlaw_star
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Hey do not sell him short..why just one? Go get all three.. go get em Tiger.. show em what ya got
Sorry Dove, but unlike some guys here on this site (and I know the ladies will be posting new forum messages naming them) and in real life,
I'm a one lady man when I start a relationship with someone.
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| Apr 29, 2007 @ 12:00 AM |
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hrrcnhntr
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Magic: I have to agree with you in most cases of the wacko's and extra bagage. I to have run into this case. I met many in women from this web site (in person yet)that I didn't care for. I rarely come to this site anymore and went to a site called tangowire and met someone that is down to earth like myself. She is flying over at her own expense in August from Germany so we can get hitched. She told me if I dare try to help on the ticket she would kick me where it hurts....lol. If this site doesn't help you then try another site. There are women/men out there for any gender that are good.
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| Apr 30, 2007 @ 12:27 PM |
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magicgizmo
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I cant speak for all men but I would have to tell you age and outward appeance are the last things I look at personally... If I wanted Arm candy i could hang around some dancers or get an escort to go to dinner with me and make an Impression if thats what one wants.. I personaly don't care what other people think with in reason..The good news is I think I may have found a good one...We have talked on the phone and we are going to meet for the first time this evening... I did not have to go to odessa or the chezk republic either...We seem to have a lot in common and if she is half the woman I think she is I am off the market...lol...I feel good about this one people... my age, smart, conciderate and good looking... the total package... By the way My friend Married that russian gal and all is well they are happy and seem to have a srong bond going.....
Tony
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| Apr 30, 2007 @ 1:05 PM |
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magicgizmo
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about the whole phillippines/russian, etc bride thing...here's my take...
the male from the U.S. who goes looking at this option is so very desperate or lacks social skills to a point they look at this as a viable option...but don't start to even try and tell me that their motives are to "find lasting love"...the U.S. male is setting out to find someone he might control, or can exploit, and get it the easy way as they are seen as rescuing this poor soul from a less than lavish life in their own country. the male is also thinking the foreign female might somehow be less intelligent and simply worship them for being rescued...so of course the ma gets a made who has lots of sex at the man's whim...
Angel16969,
I did a cut and paste of your opinion of men seeking relationships with women from afar...I agree with you that it is a shame but I would disagree with you on the why part... Why do U.S. men search for women fron different nations? more and more American men are looking for a more traditional woman..I can't and won't speak for all men but the dating thing at my age is way wacked... for the lack of a better word.. Drug's and bad past relationships and just an over all bad attitude run rampart with the women I have seen as of late..Distrust and lets just say less then honest practices have been the norm and not the exception... Sooooo whats a guy to do... deal withn the less than desirable options that are avaiable here... I mean I have talked with gals that are 43 years old and have been married 3 and 4 times stay single? or search else where.... Hmmmmm... lets see, whats a guy to do? American men are looking else where... and that my good friend is a shame...
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| Apr 30, 2007 @ 5:47 PM |
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Dovestreasure
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I still profess that men that have to look abroad to find " traditional women" have control issues and therefore find independant modern women undesirable. Too bad time travel is not an option, you could go back in time and find that traditional wife , who has your dinner on the table when you come home from work. She of course makes sure she has your clothes laundered and neatly pressed. She is the wife you can call home to at the last minute and tell her that she has to prepare a small dinner party for one of your clients at the office.She is a supportive wife who immerses herself in her husband's life and in raising a family. She must not have a career after all you come first and will provide for the family.Heaven forbid she seek personal satisfaction through her own careers and interests. She must agree with you and get approval before making decisions after all you are the head of the household. Your lovely foreign bride is happy to be the homemaker and asks for nothing more than husband, home, and family. How absolutely charming!
Guess what they are not marrying you because you are a prize, after all if you were , you would not be searching abroad. They are searching for a "better life" in terms of socio-economic factors — they do, for the most part, come from places in which jobs and educational opportunities for women are scarce and wages are low. They simply take what ever opportunity that comes along. This lovely compliant wife will in time be Americanized and will see the wonderful opportunites that women have available in this country. Of course you can try to keep her from making new friends and exposing her to such foolish notions, after all she does not need anyone but you. So gentleman go find that stepford wife and the best of luck keeping her under your thumb for long.
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| Apr 30, 2007 @ 8:39 PM |
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eAngel6969
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o.k....just for the record...i am in my late 30's and BY MY OWN CHOICE....have chosen to not get married yet - nor do i have children...
the simple reason is this
i haven't found a man worthy of me yet
when i do choose to marry - it will be a one time deal, for better or worse, etc...so i'm taking time in making this life altering ever so important committment/decision...
there are so many people out there with so much baggage...sigh...and i have as my role models - my own parents - who are fast approaching their 50th wedding anniversary...
i think people oftentimes take the committment thing less serious than it is(moving in together too quickly or look at the divorce rate)...or just are soooooo desperate "not to be alone" that they make bad choices
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| Apr 30, 2007 @ 11:34 PM |
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Dovestreasure
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Well said Eangel.... you are wise and you are worthy of someone truely special. I can say this first hand because I have the privledge and honor of having such a good friend in my life.
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