| Jun 23, 2007 @ 2:24 PM |
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stilookingforher
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hi i am average looking. but i would treat a women the very best i know how and many time to any thing to keep a women i am dating happy usly it does me no good and i feel like shit after. but people clame there is some one out there for evry one. any women have tips on how to meet some one fun,honest,said what on there mind,inshape,goals in life,not in to baby games,easy to talk to,likes animals,21-30 if you have any tips or know of any one feel free to contact me
i am 27 i live in pompano beach\coral springs,i am easy going,quiet,i like to do any thing fun, i am average looking,blue eyes brown hair 6'0 work full time
if you would like to talk to have any tips they are all ways welcomed
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| Jun 23, 2007 @ 4:42 PM |
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outlaw_star
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For starters I would recommend using spellcheck and censor the cursing in the forum posts before the Forum Mod cancels this post
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| Jun 23, 2007 @ 8:07 PM |
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AxmKap13
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Haha yeah, proper spelling and grammar would be a plus.
Don't come off as desperate. You'll never win anybody over.
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| Jun 23, 2007 @ 10:13 PM |
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fuchia04
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Okay, I've got some tips on how to meet your dream woman...
The short answer is: Lose the laundry list!
Requirements like:
inshape,goals in life,not in to baby games
Come off as demanding and high-maintenance. I've always said that I believe high-maintenance is a turnoff and for good reason. Being willing to compromise on less important things is called being open-minded. You can't have everything. Re-evaluate your goals and priorities and pick a few of the most important that you would consider "deal breakers", if not met, and then be willing to live with a few minor imperfections that any potential mate will almost certainly have. I guarantee you that expectations of perfection will not win anyone over.  
Also, listing obvious requirements such as "fun" or "honest" is overkill. I've never heard of anyone who wanted a partner who was "not fun" or "not honest". Not only that, things like that can come off as insulting, and make you appear to have a negative outlook about the opposite sex.
I agree spell-check and grammar would be a plus. Nobody is going to want to read what you have to say, if they have to struggle to read it (like I had to struggle to read your post). I can't count the number of blogs and forum posts I've read of people complaining about this. If I had a dollar for every one I've seen, I'd surely be rich!
I hope this helps,
- the Fuchian
[Edited on 6/23/2007 10:51 PM]
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| Jun 23, 2007 @ 10:36 PM |
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devoe810
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List what you have to offer and not what you want or come off demanding. You see this in women personals too and like Fuchia says, its a turn off. Seeing over 10 headshots of themselves is another one  And speaking of pics post one if you can.
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| Jun 27, 2007 @ 5:29 PM |
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stilookingforher
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i know how to spell i didint relize i miss spelled any thing
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| Jun 27, 2007 @ 5:30 PM |
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stilookingforher
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look at your own grammer my grammer is fine. and i didint notice at the time i spelled any thing wrong. and um since your so good at judging people no i am not
desperate
you should look at your self maybe thats why you havint found any one
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| Jun 27, 2007 @ 5:31 PM |
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stilookingforher
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um i am not a over kill on any one i dont come to this site and seat here so thats a over kill and my grammer is fine yous hould reread what you wrote and spell check it. people do make spelling errors thats why it called a error
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| Jun 27, 2007 @ 6:19 PM |
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fuchia04
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quote:
i know how to spell i didint relize i miss spelled any thing
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lol...The fact that you didn't even know that you misspelled anything only underscores your need to use a spell checker. 
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look at your own grammer my grammer is fine.
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Ummm...LMAO!!! I beg to differ hint: Look at your last post.  And why are you being so defensive?  You asked for advice; people are giving it. You should be thankful. 
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um i am not a over kill on any one i dont come to this site and seat here so thats a over kill and my grammer is fine yous hould reread what you wrote and spell check it.
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You call that good grammar?! My cat has better grammar than you.  And I never said you were overkill. 
Do you even know what "overkill" means?
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people do make spelling errors thats why it called a error
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Yeah, true, people do... but usually not that many. 
[Edited on 6/27/2007 8:22 PM]
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| Jun 27, 2007 @ 6:26 PM |
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stilookingforher
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and what you wrote is grammer? right i am here the same reason you are. not to have a retard fight. so dont say nothing else to me i wont say any thing else to you
have a nice night
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| Jun 27, 2007 @ 6:27 PM |
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stilookingforher
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and my grammer is fine just like yours
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| Jun 27, 2007 @ 6:28 PM |
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stilookingforher
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you to and when i went back i saw what i missed spell it is a free country people can make mistakes no reason to be asshole about it i dout your perfect in any way
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| Jun 27, 2007 @ 6:32 PM |
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fuchia04
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you to and when i went back i saw what i missed spell it is a free country people can make mistakes no reason to be ****** about it i dout your perfect in any way
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I never said I was perfect or that you had to be... personally, I don't care how many words you misspell. You asked for advice and I was simply offering it. Speaking of advice, you really should take Outlaw's advice and dispense with the cursing. Otherwise, the mods are not going to be very happy with you.
P.S. and its spelled "grammar" not "grammer". 
[Edited on 6/27/2007 6:42 PM]
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| Jun 27, 2007 @ 6:37 PM |
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stilookingforher
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then dont spell it wrong i was spelling like you spell. like i said i dont know you no reason we should every talk agein worrie about your self i didint relize people will respond is a rude way i am new the site i guess this site is not much diffrint then any other side
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| Jun 27, 2007 @ 6:52 PM |
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fuchia04
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then dont spell it wrong i was spelling like you spell.
I didn't. You did.  However, it's not worth arguing about.
i didint relize people will respond is a rude way
Well welcome to the site and welcome to the Florida Forum! We are actually very nice here. However, again, you asked for advice and most of us politely offered you some. It was you, however, who became defensive and, in fact, used profanity in your very first post.
However, I'm not going to argue with you. I've got better things to do.
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| Jun 27, 2007 @ 7:23 PM |
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devoe810
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This has to be the most entertaining thread yet. Fuch did I get the spelling right?
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| Jun 27, 2007 @ 8:00 PM |
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stilookingforher
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realy well the first time i got i made a mistake in my spelling saying 5 times was not needed and no i am not defensive you all just on me so i answer back. if people would let it i would drop it as well. and yes it not worth have a retard fight about so people should stop
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| Jun 27, 2007 @ 10:00 PM |
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witchietoo
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Ok, it's time for a women's point of view...lol
First off, just a suggestion...lose "Intimate" activities in your profile. A lot of women see that and think all you really want is a POA. I'm not saying that is all you want, but from other forums and blogs, that is an issue with a lot of women and a major turn off.
The guys were also right in saying, cursing, spelling and punctuation are also a big factor. Take your time, think of what you really want to say and say it. Use spaces, periods and whatnot. If the message is hard to read, then she isn't going to read it. No one is saying it has to be perfect, because no one is, but you want her to read it all, not stop in the middle. A lot of people tend to do that online, both male and female. Honestly, if I have to struggle to read something, I don't bother to read it. What you have to try and remember, you are selling yourself. She is reading a message and looking at a picture. It isn't the same as being face to face. A lot can get lost in the words. How you come across in a message or email is telling her more or less what you are like in person. If you come across as everything is about you and what you want, she is going to assume you are into yourself. Instead of saying you want this or that, try like Devoe suggested, and tell her what you have to offer.
I'm not attacking you, I am just giving you a few suggestions and would give the same ones to just about anyone.
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| Jun 27, 2007 @ 11:00 PM |
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devoe810
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Hey Stil
Here is some kind words here. After a while you find yourself doing two things on here. Just give up in disgust after you wrote some nice lengthy intro letters that get completely blown off with no response or go on to just lurk and read postings and others that share on topics of the day. Just wait a while and you will find a newbie like you listing a topic such as "I am done" or "I am out of here" ranting about their frustration about not getting anywhere here.  For me I been on here for while and just read mostly If you look at my page it does not seem that I am making a big effort of finding someone. Well, maybe someone might take an interest in what I may post on here and see how I think on topics rather than what I say in my personal page.
I just dont have a great expectation of hitting gold on here but who knows. I have gone out to meet and have been on several dates but nothing came of it so far. The net does not have a stellar reputation of truth in advertising as people outright lie or in denial about themselves. There is a lot of fear more on the women side of meeting a total stranger from the net so be patient. Here is a tip on what I do when I write. I use my email writer and use the spell checker and then cut and paste onto the submission window Good Luck Tom
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| Jun 28, 2007 @ 9:37 AM |
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stilookingforher
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hey dev
well go back and read befor you go and look to have a retard fight every one else is finshed i am not going to waste my time reading you nonsence so just worrie about your self and leave me alone. if you dont like what people write dont read it is a free country and thats life no reason to every say any thing to me i wont every talk to you agein learn some respect you can go far in life
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