| Nov 5, 2007 @ 8:07 PM |
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honeybear285
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This is true....a lot of us, either that knew him a long time or a short time....are hurting.....I am still counting floors of buildings when I drive past them.....but we must try and put those things away....move on....remember the good....forget the bad....honor the memory.
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| Nov 5, 2007 @ 10:15 PM |
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mystery2u888
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Hi honey  I have not left my house except to go to the dr's because I needed to get calmed down...........it was too much for me...  ........although we can move on..........everyone does it on there own time..........I just wanted to extend that........to you.........I knew him about a year we emailed privately .......however.........it was nice to see you reaching out.......to me...........  it is nice......when you did that....I appreciated it very much.......... 
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 11:48 PM |
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Dovestreasure
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Mystery I know you are hurting and its hard to go about your normal routines when someone you care about it is gone. I had a rough week at work , but work was a good distraction. I find myself crying everytime I sit down at this keyboard when I get home. I think about what would Chris want us to do. I know we have to work through our grief , but I somehow think that Chris would want us to remember him by going out and enjoying the things he loved most. He loved being outdoors, making things grow ,the beach. He loved to travel and explore new places. I think it would make Chris happy for us to get out and enjoy the great outdoors. Maybe it would help you to get out and be in the sunshine and enjoy nature that Chris loved so much.
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| Nov 7, 2007 @ 1:04 AM |
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mystery2u888
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I know.....that we are suppose to go out...but...I have tried ......it is very draining emotionally and physically...I struggle daily I started off right today but went downhill as the day went on........I hope that I get the strength.......to work thru it..... 
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| Nov 7, 2007 @ 11:26 AM |
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witchietoo
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mystery, I know it is hard accepting and dealing with the grief, but like Dove said, Chris wouldn't want us sad, he would want us to be happy and remember him as he was to us.
Not that this will help you, but it has always been one of my ways to deal with passing of friends, family or a beloved pet. I plant something or I have trees planted in the persons name. In this case I did both. As we just moved I planted a few bushes with Chris in my thoughts. I thought he would enjoy the Gardenia's so I bought them in his memory. In my way of thinking, caring for the plant or whatever, watching it grow and bloom is a way to remember the good things in life and the good things in that person.
I also did my normal thing through the Arbor Day Society. For ten dollars they will plant trees in a persons memory. What better way to remember Chris who was so into landscaping.
Here is the link for anyone interested.
Trees in Memory
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| Nov 14, 2007 @ 7:39 PM |
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mystery2u888
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Hi witchie and Dove I posted a blog as well in the forums for anyone to view.........Jennifer asked me to do it so I posted it and thank you guys for the support......here is the link please share it with whom you know that Chris aka fuchia04 knew......for alittle added info........I am still taking a break from here..........but I am doing better.....http://www.matchdoctor.com/blog_73218/Update_On_Fuchia04_For_His_Family.html
Hope this helps it is also located in the general area in the forums........
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