| Oct 30, 2007 @ 6:17 PM |
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witchietoo
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JF received an email in regards to Fuchia. Chris aka Fuchia passed away on Saturday.  We just thought you all would like to know. His sister asked JF to let everyone know, but I offered to do it.
Please keep Chris' family in your thoughts and prayers.
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 6:31 PM |
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jfreak68
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I'm sorry I just couldn't do it, am a bit upset here... Anyone that knew Chris liked him, he was so smart and funny, and an overall good guy, he will be missed....
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 6:36 PM |
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witchietoo
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hey nothing to be sorry about. I tend to be able to do these things as I can turn the feelings off for a bit. Sometimes being an ex EMT can be a good thing, you learn to do what you have to do before the emotions kick in.
Just as an fyi, his sister posted a comment on his last blog about it too.
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 7:10 PM |
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jfreak68
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Yeah I saw that, guess there goes the not saying how he died huh?
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 7:32 PM |
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Sheryll861
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I was shocked and about to ask how, because I did not think he had been sick and all. I was thinking he was just busy with getting to know and making friends there in Texas for a bit. I really thought he would be coming back to Florida.
Sorry, please tell his sister and family he was very well thought of and liked a lot.
Sheryll & Critters.
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 7:39 PM |
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jfreak68
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His sister knows he was loved by us, I talked to her today about him...
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 8:32 PM |
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honeybear285
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Hi all....just posted on Witchie's blog.....I am so sad right now.....I can't even begin to know how you all must feel as well....I never got to meet him in person, but we talked via blogs, forums and emails......I counted him as a friend.....and I also mourn his loss.....I just don't know what to say....just what a loss....a tragic loss.....I wish his spirit peace and love.
Honeybear
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 8:44 PM |
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witchietoo
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I know how you feel Honeybear. I have been kicking myself in the butt because I wasn't able to meet him, partly due to money and taking care of my Great Aunt. I wish I just borrowed the money to go to the party and had someone check on my aunt.
I didn't realize there have been a few blogs about him already, but when his sister asked it be posted, I didn't think twice about it, it was the least we could do.
He will be missed by a lot of people.
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| Oct 30, 2007 @ 9:01 PM |
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Kenn159
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I'm blown away.
Maybe the loss of his father was to much.
He will be very much missed, I just wish we could have seen it coming and changed the outcome.
Chris and his family will be in my prayers.
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| Oct 31, 2007 @ 2:03 AM |
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Dovestreasure
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I feel numb. I had to read it again again before it would sink in. I found this poem on line maybe it can bring some comfort.
The Messenger
From an Angel on high
a tender message of love was softly whispered into the ear
of this humble scribe....
Weep not for me
now that I have passed.
Remember the laughter, the affection, the joy
not just the recent tears.
Cherish the memories, our hopes and dreams.
Hold fast to the love that we shared.
Be happy with the time we spent together
and being anew.
For I am not really gone,
I am closer than ever before.
As the morning sun rises
and throughout the busy day...I am with you.
Until the setting sun disappears on the horizon
and we watch the day turn into night...I am here.
You may feel a faint breeze stir round your head, while you slumber
as I gently kiss your forehead, "Good night."
The stars that shine so brightly in my heavenly sky
help me watch over you and keep you from harm.
I am the wind in the trees
and the song of a bird.
I am moonbeams in a midnight sky
and a glorious rainbow after the storm.
I am morning dew
and freshly-fallen snow.
I am a butterfly flying overhead
and a puppy happily at play.
I am a smile on a stranger's face
a gentle touch
a warm embrace.
Listen to the wind for my message of love.
Watch the sun rise and set in the sky with me.
Feel my essence encircle you with warm memories.
Open your heart to know...I am not gone.
Reach deep into your soul...You will find me.
I am here.
Have no fear.
I am with you,
Always.
Rest in peace dear Fuchia you will missed so much
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| Oct 31, 2007 @ 3:35 AM |
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ForumMod
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people are posting links to blogs and posts about our friend 'the fuchian' in the main forum, general talk.
and his sister made a profile and gave her email in his last blog.
he'll truly be missed by all of us, too. 
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| Oct 31, 2007 @ 4:02 AM |
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mystery2u888
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 He will be very much missed................prayers for all of his family and friends here.......and everywhere............. 
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| Oct 31, 2007 @ 7:17 AM |
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honeybear285
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Oh Dove.....that was beautiful.....tears are running down my face......
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| Oct 31, 2007 @ 8:09 AM |
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Palomino
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This is so tragic.
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| Oct 31, 2007 @ 1:29 PM |
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gambler143
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I just heard...That sucks so bad. I am extremely sorry to hear about Fuchia. He was one person I wish I could have met...He never got angry, he was always courteous. One of the coolest heads on this site....
Man, this really sucks....
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| Oct 31, 2007 @ 2:04 PM |
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jfreak68
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As I am writing this, I have tears in my eyes and a heavy heart, have had it since I talked to Fuchia's sister yesterday.. I told her to contact the Mods, as I knew they would help her.. They are a great set of people... This is one of the best sites to belong to. and it is my pleasure to belong to this site. Thanks mods for doing what you have done for our dearly departed friend Chris, he would be so very happy to know he had so many people that cared for him.. I am so very lucky to have actually met him at the Lakeland Party in August, something told me I just had to make it to that party, and Chris was the main reason I went because I knew had I not gone I would not have met him before he moved to Texas.. I never knew that move would have ended the way it did... I am honored to have actually met this great man in person, he was a man I have been posting back and forth in the forums for years.. You see the people in the forums become like family, I have met some great friends on this site... Kudos to all that have a part in it... Chris we love ya man, you will be truly MISSED by many people!!!!
[Edited on 10/31/2007 2:28 PM]
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| Oct 31, 2007 @ 3:26 PM |
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jackf1950
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damn it... this is supposed to be a dating site...and a friendship site, with things like
the match doc village map, that Fu, CHRIS, thought of, and made...
it is not supposed to be a sad site....
but, when you get the quality of folks like Chris, some times the sad comes...
he brought a lot of joy and laughter here...
all the flags in MD village are at 1/2 mast...........
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| Oct 31, 2007 @ 3:53 PM |
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outlaw_star
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I like to think this poem is a message from beyond. I hope it helps Chris's friends like it helped me.
I'm Free
Dont grieve for me, for now I'm free.
I'm following the path God laide for me.
I took His Hand when I heard him call.
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day, to
laugh, to love, to work or play
Tasks left undone must stay that way.
I found that peace at the close of day.
If my parting has left a void,
then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared , a laugh, a kiss;
oh yes, these things, I too, will miss.
Be not burdened with time of sorrow,
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow
My life's been full, I savored much: good friends,
good times, a loved one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief:
don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your heart and share with me,
God wanted me now - He set me free....
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| Oct 31, 2007 @ 4:11 PM |
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witchietoo
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funny how we all have our ways of dealing with a loss. Me, I tend to go into music, this song is special to me and knowing what was behind the song helps too. It was what happened to be on the radio when I got in the car after my grandmothers funeral. Even now it brings tears to my eyes when I hear it.
Mark Slaughter dated a women in high school, when the band became popular he lost contact with her. Returning home one time he went to see her and found she passed away from cancer. This was his way of remembering her...to me even though it was about a girl, it could be for anyone that meant a lot to a person that suddenly was gone.
Fly to The Angels
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| Oct 31, 2007 @ 4:20 PM |
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witchietoo
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Oh before I forget, I am working on getting the map that Chris made up. I am just having problems with it as it is a big file and trying to break it up isn't working right. As soon as it is done I'll let you all know.
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