| May 15, 2006 @ 12:54 PM |
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jc1402
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To keep this short and to the point.
Is it just me or is it really difficult to meet normal people in South Florida? In my experience over the last year and a half, South Florida does seem to have the largest concentration of "beautiful people" of any state I've lived in / visited. It seems that this "beauty" is outward only, most of the women women that I've met over my short time here either come across as materialistic, shallow, un-smart (yes, I know it's not a word), or just of poor character in general.
Am I the only man in SoFla having this problem? Do ladies have the same problem with the men down here?
-JC
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| May 15, 2006 @ 3:03 PM |
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Tallncrazy
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it's a problem for everyone. Some people here need some sense knocked into them.
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| May 15, 2006 @ 8:51 PM |
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fuchia04
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No, it's not you. It's South Florida. Worse yet, are places like New York City, Boston, Los Angeles, etc. Wouldn't touch those women with a ten foot pole 
- the Fuchian
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| May 15, 2006 @ 11:27 PM |
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confliction
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It is not just south FL, I have lived in Central FL 7 yrs now and the same thing here. There is an abundance of people that want to do nothing but rip, run, party and have sex with anyone that moves. Extremly like immoral people (not sure if that is a word) all the drama and games of high school carried out into the real world.
Now if all I wanted was detached sex and to party all the time, it would be paradise.
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| May 16, 2006 @ 3:16 PM |
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TERESA929
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you just can't handle the women that have been brought up in a more cultured society like LA, NYC, and Boston...
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| May 16, 2006 @ 8:42 PM |
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justrich
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There are beautiful people all over the world, and there are party spots all over the world, and there are people who need some sense knocked into to them living right down the street from you. It's every where, not just in FL.
Dont hate the player, hate the game.
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| May 16, 2006 @ 9:30 PM |
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Greystone1
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People are people, in infinite variety, everywhere you go. And wherever you go, there you are.
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| May 17, 2006 @ 9:34 AM |
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jc1402
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People are infinite in variety until you find a concentration of people who are of the same mold. It's interesting, SoFla has so many people with such diverse backgrounds who, for the most part, share a common theme.
Needless to say, I'm not hating the player or the game... just making a general observation and perhaps a bit of a frustration influenced rant. Everybody has those days.
-JC
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| Jun 28, 2006 @ 10:07 PM |
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welcome02
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all steryotypes
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| Jul 1, 2006 @ 12:53 AM |
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John11095
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S. FL is a strange place. It's too hard to meet someone; even though everyone is looking to meet someone.
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| Jul 1, 2006 @ 7:22 AM |
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Lifeisnice100
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Women are like oranges on a tree and you can pick them when you think they are ripe in S Florida
Some may be bitter but that is true of any fruit
Not saying it is easy to find what you wish but not hard to find someone
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| Jul 1, 2006 @ 3:07 PM |
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kacee304
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Hmmmmm?,,,Let me think.....what's "Normal", lol.
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| Jul 2, 2006 @ 8:48 AM |
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FloridaPhoenix
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I dont think that the problem is that "normal" people dont exist, I think the problem is that the "normal" people arent wrapped up in perfect packages, so the good ones, men and women, sit at home eating popcorn, while the bubble heads in perfect packages get to go out. Sometimes the person youre looking for, isnt the person you see. We all want nice dates with beautiful eyes and perfect bodies, but the people who match that description know theyre perfect so they act better than you, or just dont care to open a book in hopes that their looks will carry them forever. Women and men with children, those who have extra weight, if our faces arent fit for the cover of GQ...we all hide in the shadows watching life go by while the bods go out and live it. And we are mostly all guilty of that. So thats why you cant meet anyone normal. Because theyre all afraid to meet you.
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| Jul 2, 2006 @ 3:33 PM |
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PrincessHelloKitty
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I couldn't agree more with you on that one. It seems whenever I meet a "decent" guy they turn into the typical man who apparently can't think for himself and cares too much what his buddies are telling him. Thats usually when the games begin. Why can't we all stop playing games? I think life, love and romance would truly benifit from it.
I was reading what one person said about the "ordinary people, non GQ" sitting hom eating popcorn, it's not just the regular or plain janes out there doing that. Unfortunatly it's all of us. I'm a fairly attractive women and I find myself home alone all the time. It sucks, but what are we going to do about it?
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| Jul 2, 2006 @ 3:58 PM |
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FloridaPhoenix
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I remember an old saying "He who has a thing to sell, and goes and whispers in a well, is not as apt to get the dollar, as he who climbs a tree and hollers"
Whats true in advertising, is true in life. People who put themselves out there are more likely to get noticed than those just going on about their daily lives. Crazy people know this, and they are loud! Thats why people think that only pervies and nutballs are on the internet. Because you run into them every day! And its not because there are more of them than there are of us, theyre just making alot more noise than us! They have to, or they would never get noticed! This could explain why as females, we meet the guys who lie and bed hop more than the ones that want something genuine, and why men meet women who can spin their heads around three or four times just for fun. Normal people need to scream more! then we can go back to being normal
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| Jul 2, 2006 @ 5:16 PM |
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PrincessHelloKitty
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Oh Girl, You are too cool, I just love what you wrote. On my quest to meeting a nice guy, not mr. right and not mr. right now, I've found the only way to actually get out there and meet people is this way, on the internet. After dating my share of freaks and men who must have used their neighbors picture on their profiles, I decided to leave the internet alone and find some nice guy out of cyber space. The thing is, after 4 months of hibernating from the internet, I didn't meet one guy. Sure there are tons of men where I work, and tons who would die to date me, but I'm not going to "eat where I s***" excuse the pun. So here I am again, trying a more obscure dating site in hopes to find a decent one. I really wish there was an area where us girls could post the "freaks". It would sure save us some major time, energy and effort.
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| Jul 2, 2006 @ 5:29 PM |
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FloridaPhoenix
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Ohhh agreed! You know who I meet all the time? the pic hounds..."got a pic? can you send me a pic? thats a nice pic..do you have another pic? very nice pic! send another pic! I need more pics! Send more pics! Pic pic pic!" Criminies, how mnay do you need? and where the heck are yours? are you compiling a photo album of me or are you just hoping that one of the thousand pics i send will be the boob shot youre too afraid to ask for? 
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| Jul 2, 2006 @ 6:17 PM |
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PrincessHelloKitty
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 BRAVO. Sometimes I think they just want them to put on their wall for a visual (you know what I mean)
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| Jul 2, 2006 @ 6:20 PM |
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FloridaPhoenix
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ohh you just gave me a visual..yuck! 
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| Jul 2, 2006 @ 6:26 PM |
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PrincessHelloKitty
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Sorry
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