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Nov 20, 2005 @ 10:40 PM White men, Black women    
BlackGalWantsWhiteGuy


Posts: 4
OK so it's tolerated in the south------ "it" meaning not very many mixed couples where the male is white. TONS of white women dating black men, but Vice-Versa? Nope. A very small percentage. What's up with that? Are the white guys "skerred"?
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Nov 23, 2005 @ 8:46 PM White men, Black women    
sealacamp


Posts: 3,681
On my part that would be a no. Just never met many women white or black that had much character or couth. As far as a black woman goes my only concern would be how any children from that relationship would be treated in this crazy mean world. You see my ultimate goal is a family and marriage. So with that in mind I look at the long run. Of course I can only speak for myself. And it seems to me that mixed color couples that have children are being rather selfish. If you think for one minute that those kids won't get picked on then your childhood was either perfect and wonerful or you can't remember the realities of that time.
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Nov 26, 2005 @ 4:12 PM White men, Black women    
Palomino


Posts: 7,635
My grandson is of mixed heritage....1/2 Hispanic. He's absolutley adorable. What's the difference?
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Dec 2, 2005 @ 1:05 PM White men, Black women    
kattsmeow


Posts: 22,628
My grandsons mother is half mex/indian. Then again, he got his brains from me!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Dec 2, 2005 @ 6:25 PM White men, Black women    
kattsmeow


Posts: 22,628
I can see where Maddox got all his good genes from too.
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Dec 10, 2005 @ 8:18 AM White men, Black women    
ebonyluvsivory


Posts: 26
Well I am very curious to see how things will play out for me after my move from San Diego, CA to near Atlanta, GA in a few more weeks. I date pretty much exclusively white here in CA, but wondering if I will have as much luck in the South.
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Jan 13, 2006 @ 12:02 AM White men, Black women    
brian2005


Posts: 50
I don't understand why it's that way. However, I do agree with you. Maybe someone on here can shed some light on the issue. This is my theory however. There's a stereotype that black men are more well endowed, which I don't think is true. It's like saying black women have bigger breasts. Bigger doesn't always mean better anyways.

Brian
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Jan 13, 2006 @ 2:05 PM White men, Black women    
sureyacan125


Posts: 187
Ebony, for one I would go out with you if you were blue. You are HOT, Honey. I was raised in Stone Mountain, home of Gen. Nathan Forrest himself and you will find that bigotry in the South died a long time ago (however, do not travel through Mississippi, Louisiana or parts of Alabama to get here ). Seriously, there are two Georgias: Atlanta and the rest of Georgia. Atlanta is now as rude as Yankees with their hidden racism (Suggested Music: "BackStabbers"). The rest of Georgia is people, just good folks (Suggested Music: "Georgia on my Mind" or anything Ray Charles). You have your rednecks, but you have those in SoCal. The hidden racism of the North with their fingerpointing at the South kills me. I lived in Detroit and couldn't believe those racists...black and white!!!
Bottom Line: You date who you are attracted to, it's your life and it ain't no dress rehearsal, Honey! Welcome to Georgia, we're glad to have ya'll....


P.S. The real issue in Atlanta for you will be the pretty white boys dating the pretty black boys. Has anyone alerted you that Atlanta has the second highest gay population in the country?

[Edited on 1/13/2006 2:08 PM]

[Edited on 1/13/2006 2:10 PM]
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Jan 17, 2006 @ 4:41 AM White men, Black women    
spicygamble


Posts: 462
Ironicly, I find quite a few bf/wm couples in Atl(many are my friends)... and in major cities all across the US, too for that matter.
What's the big deal?
It does depend on the demographics of your area.
The city areas do tend to have a broader mixture of coupling styles, despite what some ppl think. College towns will lend to a more open minded perception, as well. It simply has to do more with how you present yourself. If you run around spouting angry thoughts, than you will attract angry ppl.
If you have a lovely attitude, you will find a way to locate the right guy~ no matter where he is.

:)
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Feb 1, 2006 @ 8:48 AM White men, Black women    
battongeor227


Posts: 1
I think alot of whites feel that if they go out with a black girl that they will be very discriminated against by the girl's parents and family. I've heard of this happening often and it turns alot of white guys off to black women. I do think that black women are very beautiful and would possibly date one but it wouldn't be an easy relationship.
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Feb 8, 2006 @ 4:57 AM White men, Black women    
Thunderscribe


Posts: 419
Yes, in my experience (twice), her parents didn't approve of me being white.

It was sad, because I really like both of these women.

No, I didn't date them at the same time.

Anyway, discrimination in any form should fall to the wayside.
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Feb 12, 2006 @ 1:48 AM White men, Black women    
ebonyluvsivory


Posts: 26
Well, I'm here in Georgia now for about a month, and things are "interesting". Of the gentlemen here who have truly caught my attention, I have met only one of them in person so far, and the others seem to be either too far away or too busy or too chicken or the famous "I DON'T HAVE A PICTURE" excuse or whatever to actually meet. I am not the pen-pal type, so maybe they were just helping me bide the time until my arrival. Who knows. Maybe things will change when the weather warms up a bit?

The weather change itself is rather a challenge, having lived most of my life in an average of 70 degrees year-round (right now in Georgia it is 32 degrees) this evening. Brrrrrrrrrrrr

The other funny thing is that men who live nowhere near Georgia like to write to me. Like I said, I'm not much of a pen pal. How can I date you from afar? Not interested in relocating since I just did that. :-) Besides, I wonder if some of these fellows are actually even READING my profile.

The (local) Southern gentlemen need to stand up and be counted!
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Feb 17, 2006 @ 7:16 PM White men, Black women    
kinaluv


Posts: 6
Hi all:

I am very new to this site. I also prefer dating White men! Not sure how exactly that evolved...but I don't appologize for my preference. I just prefer to date a man who doesn't view me as an experiment, but has a genuine interest in me as person. Also, I have tried to long-distance thing, and would prefer not to do it again, at least not for long. Happy to send a pic if you have sincere interest. Kina
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Mar 31, 2006 @ 4:33 PM White men, Black women    
jrblueeyes


Posts: 6
Hi, I've dated several black women, and probably will again. I'm color blind when it comes to dating. One fot the ladies I really liked and would still be with if I had anything to say about it, her family didn't trust white men, her brother married a white woman though. I've also dated a Japanese lady, and one from Romania. As far as what other people think, I don't care. I just want to be happy, regardless of her color or nationality.
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Apr 11, 2006 @ 9:54 AM White men, Black women    
callmelater


Posts: 1
whatever happened to two people wanting to be together? to me it makes no difference of a persons race, religion or looks, its all about being together.
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Apr 12, 2006 @ 12:48 PM White men, Black women    
butterbrains11


Posts: 1
If people dont believe in this, their views are to be respected in this very personal decision.
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Apr 13, 2006 @ 12:05 AM White men, Black women    
Bruce373


Posts: 1
Me personally, I TRY (note the emphasis on that word) not to discriminate my own race. part of it is mainly due to experience, but I try not to let that get to me. I've dated outside of my race since I was like what......7? My first crush was a white girl. All I'm saying is that don't discriminate other races because you maybe missing out on what life has to offer us all. And believe me I've learned alot on dating outside my race........and I'm STILL learning, you know what I mean?


~Nu Jin (Bruce).
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Apr 15, 2006 @ 6:51 AM White men, Black women    
oyoko2000


Posts: 1
i'm caring and uderstanding but lonely so get in touch now.
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May 12, 2006 @ 3:04 PM White men, Black women    
glowing_Moon


Posts: 2
Just wanted you to know that you picked about the best part of the south to find an open population to mixed couples. Don't be afraid one bit. I may not have lived that long in Atlanta,but I can tell you its about as close as I could find to the same mind set as Cali. I lived in southern cali in the late 80's and not even charleston s.c( which I adopted as my second home) is as easy going as Atlanta in that respect. Good luck on your move. I hope your not driving...lol.
Been there ....Done that!
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Sep 21, 2006 @ 5:18 PM White men, Black women    
Dragon_Lady_Liz


Posts: 17
Working at a movie theater, you see a lot of couples. Homosexual, heterosexual, and interracial. I applaud anyone who breaks out of what most people would call "normal" and challenge the accepted and expected.
Personally, I don't date black men, but I'm not racist. It's just a preferance. I have some very good friends, male and female, who are black and they're always trying to hook me up with someone they know. Not my thing.
People fear what they don't know and don't understand. To those people, it's hard to see a white guy with a black girl, or vice versa. They have their own turn ons and offs, and can't quite grasp that someone else might be happy with someone of a different race.
Well, that's enough of my two cents. It's someone elses turn now. Good luck on the site, and don't give up hope of finding "the one", either here or somewhere else.
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