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Jan 18, 2007 @ 1:12 PM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
stacy1220


Posts: 13
Ok... guys answer this one for me. I have met more than my share of guys these past few weeks and I can't find one with chemistry... I am told that I am attracive, sweet, intelligent, but I can't find anything more... So, I am turning to guys for input.
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Jan 19, 2007 @ 3:10 PM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
interest


Posts: 5
I think part of the problem is that women demand such a quick return on the time that they spend "looking." If a guy complained that he had met several women in the last couple of weeks but could not find a "good" one, I am not convinced that you would be very sympathetic.
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Jan 22, 2007 @ 4:41 AM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
willofga


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What do women want ? Better yet hows a man to know what a woman wants when you girls keep changing your minds ? If a man works and is good to to you. Give him a chance. Sometimes the best relationships take time to build. We all want to find that one that blows us away on the first date. But it rarely happens. I think your looking to hard. And prehaps your being a little to picky. I am NOT saying for you to just settle. They say you should not judge a book by its cover.
What I am suggesting is for you to enjoy yourself and let what ever come to you.
Sometimes the hardest things to find are right under your nose.
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Jan 22, 2007 @ 10:22 AM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
JohnMcl


Posts: 1
You want the truth ? Your 27 with three kids.
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Jan 23, 2007 @ 12:58 PM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
oosawi


Posts: 2
Same reason it's so hard to find a good woman. We don't have the willingness to wate and see what happens it's now or never. Two dates and if there is at least no kiss on eather side it's over most of the time.
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Jan 24, 2007 @ 3:27 PM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
bobbyngeorgia


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just my 2 cents...but i have found people on date sights, are not actually looking for the one person to be with forever....seems they enjoy having many in their life..like an addiction i thinks............................
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Jan 26, 2007 @ 3:23 PM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
Nitalee


Posts: 1
totally agree with bobbyngeorgia

[Edited on 1/26/2007 3:30 PM]
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Jan 26, 2007 @ 11:40 PM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
interest


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When I meet someone on here I always find out that I am not the only one that she is "talking to" like this. However, I think that many women object to men that are "dating" several women at once. I find this to be a double standard.
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Jan 27, 2007 @ 3:47 AM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
SunBabe


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just my 2 cents...but i have found people on date sights, are not actually looking for the one person to be with forever....seems they enjoy having many in their life.

Just my own 2 cents ...some see this as a DATE site. Others see this as a MATE site...and others are here just looking for friends. Nuttin's gonna happen without TRYING. At least Stacy's gettin' out there and doin' something.
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Jan 27, 2007 @ 11:17 PM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
stacy1220


Posts: 13
Thank you all for your input... I believe that each and every one of you make good points!!!! I didn't expect a lot fom doing this but I have made a good friend from this experience. One that I think will be here for a while even if that's all that there ever is... and that's worth more than a thousand first dates....
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Jan 28, 2007 @ 11:38 AM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
some_thing_missing


Posts: 7
You know I say the same thing about women, "why is it I can't find the chemistry" maybe I'm looking for something that only comes in the movies, maybe I'm looking for feelings that only come in time, maybe I'm wanting what it is that I see others have, without all the work that they put into it. Maybe... you are too:)
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Jan 28, 2007 @ 1:04 PM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
stacy1220


Posts: 13
Maybe.... just maybe you are right.... maybe there really isn't immediate chemistry and if there was, my experience is that the connection doesn't last once it wears off. That's what happened in my marriage and I am learning to be patient and let the chemistry come naturally... and for me that is not an easy thing. But as the saying goes... "good things come to those who wait".
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Jan 29, 2007 @ 9:51 PM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
rwsmoove


Posts: 1
agreed with many of these points. good things do come to those who wait, but you gotta get out there and try -create opportunities. kiss as many frogs as you can. but be polite.
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Feb 18, 2007 @ 2:25 AM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
Computerdude882


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I'm in Commerce, Wanna meet up?
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Feb 18, 2007 @ 4:51 PM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
deanmd1973


Posts: 10
Sweetheart, chemistry takes time to actually grow and develop as it is not something that just happens in a 2 hour date. In a date, you can see how you like the other person and see how you click and even see if there are some elements to them that will lead to a chemistry compatibility, but as I said, finding true chemistry will take time and several dates where you get to know someone. I do NOT at all think that the fact that you have 3 kids has anything at all to do with it. I think that you need to be patient and wait for that special chemical romance to happen. Here is an idea- have a list of questions that you want to ask the person either via email or in person- the questions should be worded so that there answer will reveal their true heart and feelings about love, life, dating, marriage and about you! The way they answer can reveal tons about them! Just an idea and believe me, it seperates the good from the bad and the ones you want to keep from the jerks out there! Good luck sweetheart on finding love- just be patient!
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Feb 20, 2007 @ 5:27 PM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
munchpad


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probaly because you play games.......

what comes goes around comes around
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Feb 20, 2007 @ 7:27 PM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
gadixie


Posts: 14
I agree with deanmd1973, it just takes time. You could be on here for years or you could meet them next week. Dont rush it, your still young.
As for the idiot who said it is because you have 3 kids at 27, Well as you can see he is still on here looking at 51 (WHY IS THAT) well aleast you have your reason if you can call gifts from a higher authority a reason.
I would take that reason over just not being able to find someone because of being a jerk with no respect for a women.
Now for the idot that thinks children are a burden, why would you have on your profile that you may want children? What kind of idot are you, you condem people for having them but you may want some from what your profile said. God bless those children if something were to happen to you and the mother of your children had to start over and she came across a man like you. You do not know what goes on in someones life and the reasons why they became single with 3 kids. Some people lose their spouse, some women are beaten until they have to get out, and sometimes it just dosnt work.
Maybe your mad because your such a jerk that no one wanted to have children with you. Sounds like you have issues!
Having kids is nothing to be ashamed about.
I hope no one ever talks to the women in your life like the way you judge others but then again I bet that is why you do not have anyone because the one talking the crap to women is you.
At 51 you still seem to be clueless about women.

Did you read what he put in his profile in what he wants out of a woman?
[QUOTE] the person I would like to meet:
Good sense of humor, kind, caring, considerate of others, not materialistic

Sure he wants someone caring and considerate of others so he can put them down!
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Feb 20, 2007 @ 10:59 PM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
stacy1220


Posts: 13
To munchpad...I hate games and you know nothing about me so how can you say this? I devoted myself to a person that walked all over me for over 8 yrs, so I don't believe that treating people as if they are a game is an option....
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Feb 20, 2007 @ 11:03 PM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
stacy1220


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To Gadixie... thank you for taking up for me... The truth of the matter is I was in a verbably abusive relationship and said enough... so I walked out the door. As for the jerk who said that about the kids... I am proud to be a mother, of 3 at 27. I love them more than life itself and if a man wants me it's a package deal. I hope that you enjoy the rest of your life being alone. Atleast my kids will still be there when you have no one.
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Feb 20, 2007 @ 11:04 PM Why is it so hard to find a good man    
stacy1220


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To Gadixie... thank you for taking up for me... The truth of the matter is I was in a verbably abusive relationship and said enough... so I walked out the door. As for the jerk who said that about the kids... I am proud to be a mother, of 3 at 27. I love them more than life itself and if a man wants me it's a package deal. I hope that you enjoy the rest of your life being alone. Atleast my kids will still be there when you have no one.
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