| Apr 9, 2007 @ 1:26 AM |
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naughtydawg
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why isnt some women are attracted to the asshole and jerk type and they complain they want a sweet guy who wont treated them like crap. someone please explain that to me
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| Apr 11, 2007 @ 2:36 AM |
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oosawi
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It's easy jerks and assholes don't treat them as a prize like most guys. Now they love this. But they love that the best friend validates their feelings that they should not like this guy. It's a cycle and will always go around.
Best advice I can give you is treat the woman you like like you treat your friends only add some romance and stuff. watch what happens.
Good luck.
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| Apr 16, 2007 @ 12:05 AM |
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freefall299
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easy cause women want a domant male figure in their life but most men take that to a higher level which leads to them being and asshole and sweet guys are viewed as weak
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| Jun 22, 2007 @ 7:37 AM |
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Microchip
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why isnt some women are attracted to the asshole and jerk type and they complain they want a sweet guy who wont treated them like crap. someone please explain that to me Please repost that question so we can understand it. English is MY primary language.
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| Jun 22, 2007 @ 7:13 PM |
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HistoricallyAccurate
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Microchip, your snideness and disrespect are unwelcome here.
Granted, I prefer proper respect of the English language myself. However, not everyone is like you or me.
naughtydawg is welcome here, even if he communicates via smoke-signal. Also, he actually has an interesting point.
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| Jul 16, 2007 @ 10:32 PM |
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Microchip
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Microchip, your snideness and disrespect are unwelcome here.
Granted, I prefer proper respect of the English language myself. However, not everyone is like you or me.
naughtydawg is welcome here, even if he communicates via smoke-signal. Also, he actually has an interesting point. So he is allowed to communicate via smoke signal, and I'm not allowed to ask that someone post in English? How could you TELL what the point is?
There is no disrespect intended. I am just AMAZED at how many people out here can't speak the language that they grew up with. However, some who can just don't want to go through the trouble. THOSE are the ones that I take exception to. So, no, no snideness either.
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| Jul 20, 2007 @ 10:39 PM |
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NORA072952
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Sorry to interrupt but why are there not any women on here to give their opinions? 
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| Oct 2, 2007 @ 10:43 AM |
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hayabusatygr
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Didn't think Microchip was being disrespectful. I had to read the original post a couple of times to try to figure out what he was asking.
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| Oct 20, 2007 @ 6:18 PM |
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spirit_of_the_wind859
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answer to your question Probably because there just are'nt enough sweet guys are there to go around lol (But the others usualy get dumped pretty fast , so hang in there .
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| Feb 2, 2008 @ 11:28 AM |
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ladybugjulie
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i myself want to date a friend! i want friendship to be the main factor. i don't want to be the center of ones world as i cannot do that for someone being a single mother! i don't want a jerk or asshole...but a friend
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| Feb 4, 2008 @ 4:35 PM |
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laurne
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hey how are you doing today
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| Feb 5, 2008 @ 4:35 PM |
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AllMitch79
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hey dawg, what is the sound of 1 hand clapping? If a tree falls in the forest....u get my drift. The point is, there are some things we aren't supposed 2 know the answer 2. Some free advise: accept, adapt, and always keep a stand-by!
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| Feb 5, 2008 @ 4:38 PM |
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AllMitch79
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o and chip, it's a frikkin blog, not a graded essay. i don't write in good english here just because I don't want ne 1 2 think I'm actually taking this stuff seriously. Lighten up
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| Feb 6, 2008 @ 11:21 PM |
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laurne
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hey
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| Feb 6, 2008 @ 11:21 PM |
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laurne
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hey
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| May 30, 2008 @ 7:19 PM |
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ecloudkicker
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Hi there! 
Since I speak from my own experience years ago as a battered woman, here's a thought, dude, just a thought.
To keep from making the same mistake, and to not get with another asshole, I put myself through counseling at that Shelter, and for quite a while after that.
It's not that women aren't sincere about wanting to find a nice guy. Sometimes, its just because they need to seriously take a good look at themselves, the "want" to solve the issue of why they keep picking the same losers, and finding the most logical and effective solution of how to accomplish this.
After being in a bad relationship, sometimes a lot of women have a low self esteem issue(s), and think its all their fault, and keep on making the same mistakes. Sometimes they are looking for the same type of man that their dear mom married. It differs from woman to woman. Some women figure it out for themselves. And some are lucky, like me. I have an intelligent and inquisitive mind, and came to the conclusion that I can change the way I view my selections. That,and the fact that the Shelter that I stayed with offered the counseling, which helps a lot.
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| Jun 4, 2008 @ 3:50 PM |
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Southern_Comfort88
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Here is my take on it from a previous post of this site. It is as follows although it's more of a take on the gentlemanly aspect,..but I still think very much applies to the "jerks and assholes" theme,....
I think the "bad-boy syndrome" is what their attracted to. I can't judge but it just seems that way. Women fall for the sorry ass piece of craps that treat them like freakin dirt. How can you call that love,..I mean even remotely call it that?? It's like the Bible teaches these simple words
"Love is patient, Love is Kind,
It does not envy,
it does not boast,
it is not proud,
It is not rude,
it is not self-seeking,
It is not easily angered,
it keeps no record of wrongs,
Love does not delight in evil,
But rejoices in the Truth,
It always protects,
always trusts,
Always Hopes,
Always Perseveres,
LOVE NEVER FAILS!!"
So to me if a relationship that is built on negativity,...more than likely that's all it will produce is negativity as well as in feelings, respect and actions of both parties and will eventually fail.
On the other hand, relationshipsthat are built on positive foundations, produce positive "fruit", grow and flourish abundantly.
Thats what i think, anyways. The idea of being a Gentlemen and chivalry is and has been a dying breed for some time,....I don't understand and it befuddles me why a woman wouldn't want someone thats good for her,.. and would rather have the guy who's the bad-boy!?!? That's just stupid to me,..but then again what is really right about the world we live in these days????
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 9:04 PM |
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SuthernLuvin
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Here is what my friend says........she was with a bad boy type, he was exciting, impulsive, but in the end he hurt her,....later she married a good guy, then after awhile she hurt him, said he was boring to predictable,,,,,,,then on to another bad boy,...............
I think what women want is a good guy with a bad boy look and devilish at times!
lol..
who knows....
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| Nov 21, 2008 @ 12:34 AM |
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irishmom77
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Speaking from experience, I will say there are several reasons why a woman chooses a jerk over a sweet guy.
First off, if she's known nothing but being in a bad relationship with a jerk, then that's all she's going to be accustomed to. Yeah, she will HOPE that some sweetness comes out of the relationship, but even if it doesn't, she still stays in it, thinking that either he will change or at least she does have someone.
Sometimes and I do mean sometimes a guy can be too sweet. Raised with all aspects to be a gentleman, due to the fact the woman has gotten accustomed to society being based on her being independent, in her mind it becomes a nuisance. She's not used to it so she kind of shuns away from it.
Let's face it..no one is perfect. Both men and women want nothing but these things: Compassion, loyalty, honesty, romance, understanding and Love. The biggest word out of all these is LOVE. Doesn't matter where you find it, it's there, and yes, there can be good side to it and bad. But all that matters is it's there. So, the best thing to do is HOPE you find someone that you know you can trust, be there unconditionally and both of you put everything into it that you can without boundaries. Just my opinion and my outlook from what I've learned so far.
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| Nov 22, 2008 @ 9:22 PM |
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jamurray1only1
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Well I cant say why but I can say it seems that is all I seem to attract. I think they want to be wanted so bad that they accept this bs at all cost just to be with someone. Of course that is just my theory and is based on my experince. There is this one that seems to get on instant message everytime I log on and wants to jerk off on me it kinda burns me now but at first I thought he was just a distraut young man who had recently broke up with his gal but now its a bad joke and he plays it to the hilt. Then he sends me pics of his cute little ass to add insult to injury. Where do they come from and why do they come to me??? JAM in GA on Jerks and assholes.  Perhaps the devil makes them do it??
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