| Nov 9, 2006 @ 12:17 AM |
Interent love is so HARD!!!
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kick22
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i have met plenty of women on the interent,,they are either crazy or have another man,,oh,,,or want money,,,why can't it be simple and easy!!! Is it too much to ask to be honest about yourself. When you want love so bad it seems to never come,,,maybe it's time to give up!!!!
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| Nov 9, 2006 @ 5:20 AM |
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Theodore824
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Might it be that you're too picky? You want love? You gotta do some lovin to get some lovin!
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 12:00 AM |
Interent love is so HARD!!!
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KiddBilly
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No, no, no. You don't get it. LOVE is hard. It's an effort, and that's what makes it so rewarding. It doesn't matter if it's on the internet, the coffee shop or the library, it takes a real effort. When you find it, it makes all the work seem like a walk in the park. Don't have a negative attitude and you'll do okay!
I can't believe I just gave that advice......  but maybe...just maybe I'm starting to believe it myself!
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 4:02 AM |
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SunBabe
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Pretty smart there, Kidd-o 
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| Nov 11, 2006 @ 2:27 AM |
Interent love is so HARD!!!
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Oceanpoet
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I have to agree... seems that no matter where your source is for meeting someone, dishonestly is an everpresent problem.
For some reason, when I find myself without love for a long time or even a good relationship for a long time, focusing my attention on myself and my life seems to send out the right vibes. I get to a point where I say "hell with this" and stop looking and that's when I put 100% of my efforts into myself and improving my life/work/friends/money... next thing I know I meet someone great.
I belive that all has to do with the old saying "You can't love another if you don't love yourself." Try to focus on improving yourself and eventually, a good and honest woman will see that in you and will embrace that.
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| Nov 20, 2006 @ 10:55 AM |
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Shylites
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I agree with OceanPoet! Your relationship with yourself is the central template from which all others are formed. Loving yourself is a prerequisite to creating a successful and authentic union with another. In truth, the relationship you have with yourself is the central relationship in your life and at the heart of all the elements that make up your life experience-family, friends, love relationships, work-is you.
There is a distinction between "you" and your "self." Your self is the core of your being, the essential entity that exists irrespective of your personality, your ego, your opinions, and your emotions. It is the small, sacred space within you that houses your spirit and soul. "You" are the observer, coach, editor, and critic who surveys your thoughts, words, feelings, and behaviors and determines how much of your essential self is shown to others.
The quality of the relationship between you and your self is paramount, for all your other relationships are based on it. This relationship acts as a template from which all the unions in your life are shaped, setting the quality, tone, and texture for how you relate to others and how they relate to you. It establishes the working model of how to give and receive love.
The depth and quality of the link between you and your self ultimately determines the success of your relationships with others. If an authentic love relationship is what you desire, then the first natural step you must take is to learn to love, honor, and cherish yourself as a truly precious and lovable being. Then, when you are not even looking, there that someone special will be and they will notice the "YOU" that is within and shining outward. That is what will draw them to you, the real you. It will not happen over night, but unfortunately whether it is over the internet or otherwise, there are always those that put up a false front and try to take advantage of others. Crazies??? Oh my, they are aplenty, gold diggers??? take your pick, cheaters, take off your shoes and start counting on your toes, because they are out there too!!! There are so many out there that just want to have "sex" nothing more and will say whatever they can to get them anyway they can, I have no use for them, if they will do it now, they will do it throughout the relationship. At times I just want to give up, cancel my membership and say "it isn't worth all the time spent on the bad eggs that mess it up for the ones that are sincere in finding true love that will last the duration of the time spent here on earth." That I feel would be a mistake, because it would be my luck the time I close the door, Mr. Right will be just about ready to knock on my door and I've already left the site.
Hang in there, work on you, and she will be drawn to you or vice versa.
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| Jan 14, 2007 @ 9:30 PM |
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Julie471
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My Mother told me something about 3 years ago, and she told me that the internet is not for me......and I agree w/ her. She also told me, that I will find my true love in about 4 to 5 years, well my time is coming up, and I found someone, and thank gosh, he was not someone I found on the internet, but then again, I wonder if he is the right one for me. So, I do believe in Love, is out there for everyone, so just hang in there guys and gals.
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| Jan 25, 2007 @ 10:40 AM |
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KissMe4Ever
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Why is love so hard? I am not picky at all, I go for the person on the inside. I am not into money or anything like that. All I want is to be loved and have that love returned. I have been played by so many men that I am really thinking that love is not worth the pain. What does it take to find someone real and not into games?
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| Jan 29, 2007 @ 8:00 PM |
Interent love is so HARD!!!
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toucanb1
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When you respect yourself enough to not compromise your inner ideals and principles, then when the person comes along that shares the same values you do...that's when there's a basis for a strong and lasting bond.
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