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Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?


Feb 5, 2007 @ 6:06 PM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
Chicagobluesky


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I am a Guy what moved to Chicago
or the womans here some so (I am the best or i looking only for money)

Here a Friendly womany what like to meet someone

Some many single peoples here what doesnt playing games why this people no becoming a chance?

Greets Mark

Everybody What thing i am right and redy to meet some one what doesnt playing games please leave me here a message or a posting Thank you
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Feb 7, 2007 @ 1:26 AM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
dieldrin


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Feb 7, 2007 @ 3:47 AM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
clannon


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Feb 16, 2007 @ 2:05 PM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
tuxedocatsIL


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You are searching for a woman with a fireplace????
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Feb 19, 2007 @ 6:05 PM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
Twinkie12


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What the? I did not understand what you just typed. so confused.
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Feb 19, 2007 @ 9:39 PM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
EdsDaughter


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Because most of the men I have run into are jerks who want sex right of the bat. I'm sorry I am being so nasty but I have just about had it. Just because I am overweight and I have lost 90 lbs, they think I am desperate oh and I am divorced and I am 56 so I must be so damn desperate. I am a good hearted woman who is getting extremely bitter. Amy
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Feb 28, 2007 @ 10:54 AM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
KinderSoul


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I agree with you EdsDaughter, I myself have experienced this I also have lost 100 pounds and I feel I am still big and I always will be I have a big bone structure and I know it and I am Divorced but I am NOT desperate.
These men on our very first meeting want to have sex right away . I don't get it I thought these dating sites which I am not sure about anymore was to meet someone you could get to know and maybe find that special someone you could love and cherish for the rest of your life, but no most of them are just meat markets.

Also there are just as many Women out there that consider this a meat market, what happen to Women being Ladies and Men being Gentlemen?
Also if you meet them online and you are talking I can almost guarantee before you are done talking they are asking if you have a cam to do cyber sex, I tell them: sorry I am not a cam slut there are enough of them out there go find one.

Maybe I am abit old fashion, and I have morals but do the guys see me for who I am NO they see a sex object another knotch in there belt and that hurts. I have became very picky to whom I talk to anymore, and NO I do not sleep around or have one night stands whatever people want to call it now adays. STD's scare the crap out of me the way people sleep around now adays, how can you be sure if they don't have any std's anyway, I value my life.

KinderSoul
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Mar 6, 2007 @ 12:26 AM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
Stedman


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I don't mean to be a jerk or maybe I do. Learn to spell & complete a sentence and maybe you will meet that special girl....
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Mar 8, 2007 @ 3:50 AM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
southsider606


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ahhhhh ummmm QUE ???
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Mar 10, 2007 @ 1:38 AM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
freeoncemore


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WHAT ????????
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Mar 13, 2007 @ 8:09 PM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
WhisperingLady


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I too agree with Ed's daughter... seems the men on here for the most part are not looking for something lasting and consider this the deli for sex. I thought people got to know each other, and see what likes and dislikes they had together. I guess the guys just have hidden agenda's and no real interest in a RELATIONSHIP!

about to give up-
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Mar 13, 2007 @ 10:24 PM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
1wlddolphn


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I must be getting the wrong kind then.... with a few we have chatted online a few weeks...the phone a few weeks and then all of a sudden they claim it's love...never got to the meeting in person part....
all the while chatting and getting gals phone numbers still.... back up plan I suppose there

I run the other direction fast... so sticking to friends and chatting and blogs now.

I have no fireplace
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Mar 13, 2007 @ 11:21 PM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
twister1


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I was compelled to comment on this because,i have heard that understanding loving someone without seeing them is hard to understand.This does happen and myself and my wife fell in love with each other through friendship chatting and phone calls,we had never met in person till one and a half years latter.This was no less love just that we had not met.I see that shared feelings and emotional attachment can lead to love sometimes not expected it just happens, no plan. Not everybody expieriences this but it happened to me as well no plan just happened.No intention and not looking but marrage was made of this paticular friendship.Of course we are now separated and parted ways.

twister
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Mar 13, 2007 @ 11:27 PM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
twister1


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I wanted to add yes it is possible to find the one you want online and many do.

twister
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Mar 16, 2007 @ 12:09 PM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
finsfan


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Well all I can find lately are guys who lie, pretend to be single. Most of the guys I have met only want the perfect girl and that includes a perfect body. It is hard to judge all women unless you date all types. If you are looking for a woman for a good heart you need to look deeper than looks. There are good women out there.
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Apr 11, 2007 @ 9:09 PM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
jubilee_sparks


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how can one comment on a post that one cannot even decipher?
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Apr 15, 2007 @ 1:38 AM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
iamme63


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Amen Brother, most of us women do like men that can spell and complete a sentence, thanks for that one!
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Apr 15, 2007 @ 1:42 AM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
iamme63


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Oops, forgot to include this is to Stedman...thanks
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Apr 22, 2007 @ 6:55 PM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
dxderivative


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Because women are hypocrites tha's why.
Let me tell you something, Chicago, you will have
a better chance finding a woman in Ukraine than the
U.S, but the thing is that none of us have the money
much less the job to move all the way to Ukraine,
so that does us no help at all. Let's just face it,
American women have been brought up to be stuck up
since they were children, it is the way they were raised.

Not only that, things got worse after 911 and the incident at
Virginia tech just added more insult to injury. So now the
women have even more of an excuse to be "safe" and not want to meet
any men off of the net.

I myself have had terrible experieinces lately meeting females off of the net.
I got stood up many times, and got my heart broken so
much off of the net. Hopefully there will be a better experience for me
and other men like me in some other lifetime, because if you are
a man, and not wealthy and famous, or have the absolute looks
of a supermodel, just face it, you will have a difficult time finding
a lady for your self this day and age.

And besides, I think that asking for one woman is not too much to ask for.
There are plenty of women to go around, and there is no excuse why
we are having this problem.

My best advice for you is to either move to someplace like Ukraine to
find a lady (because women are just pouring every where there), or
to just try to find a lady you work with at work. I know it sounds
difficult and a sticky sitiuation to find a lady off of your job because of
the sexual harrassment policies that they have at work nowadays, but
hey, what is a man supposed to do if he is lonely? There is nothing
else left to do.

Best closest experiences that I have had in trying to get a good lady frined was from work. I never got a girlfriend from work, but at least I am noticed at work.

For instance, I had one lady at work to say hi to me and she spoke to me the other day, and at another job, at least there was one female who at least
acted a little bit interested in me.

So my best bet for you now, is just to try to look at work for a female.
It is the best thing I can tell you for now.
Sorry I wish I had more for you, but I don't/
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May 8, 2007 @ 9:44 PM Why is find a Woman with a good hearth so hard?    
Love_Lee


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I agree Amy. I am 56, overweight and all the men I date want sex on the first date too. Damned if you do or don't, either way you never see him again.

To be perfectly honest, I don't want to have to change, remake myslef for anyone. Yes I am overweight, a sixe 18 instead of an 8. I am 56, cannot make myself younger. But I am a good honest, loving woman who longs to have a man to love and Cherish. I want to show him how important he is to me. And I expect the same from him.

I get so tired of people telling me that if I lost weght, I I read this or that self help book, If I jumped up and down and whistled Dixie, then I could "get a mna". I hav e heard "act like you don't want anyone and they will flock to you", Don't chase,men hate that, "men like being pursued, let him know you are interested." Let him know you are self-supporting and not needy, and if you are too storn you scare him away cause he doesn't feel needed. Yada yada.

What is the answer? I have no idea.
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