| Apr 4, 2008 @ 11:26 AM |
I hate it when Old People Pm me
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travelgrl88
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Is this for older people or what
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| Apr 8, 2008 @ 10:34 AM |
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sloriver
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It's unfortunate, but some guys don't have any standards. Also, unfortunately, these same guys don't understand how silly they look. Maybe most unfortunate is the fact that they won't read or BELIEVE a profile.
I have a way to guage what's right. It's not the law that says 18 year old girls are fair game. It's not the fact that econonmics can convince some young women to do things they really shouldn't. The way to guage what's right is to say if this woman was my daughter what would I want for her. It takes some moral courage to be truthful with oneself but then some of us older guys have it.
I believe you can set the demographic you wish to hear from. Look in the help link.
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| Apr 8, 2008 @ 11:38 AM |
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tominator_61
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people like u are idiots judgemental , how would you like to be judged by your age ? to me you must not have a brain of your own , im 46 yrs old , i dont see anything wrong with an older man being with a younger woman maybe you should take a good look at your self some day u will be older and alone cause your stuck up and scared of a real man , any woman under the age of 25 cant think for them self and have no clue what life is about !
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| Apr 8, 2008 @ 4:50 PM |
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Exsecratus_Sicarius
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When I was 18, I remember wanting to be with a 46 year old woman.
I was an orderly then for a nearby hospital, and I had transported a fine ass lady to the radiology department.
When I took her back to her room, we started to talk (well, she was asking me a lot of personal questions).
She admitted that she was married but that she really liked me and wanted to 'date'  .
She was, like I said, fine as hell, but married  . So I had to say, "no thanks."
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with dating anyone at any [adult] age. If you choose to go geriatric, well, that's your choice.
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And just something else somewhat related:
Soon, if the socialist politicians get their way, the ACLU and whichever else "civil rights group" will abolish the legal age for consensual sex.
Don't believe me? Read about NAMBLA and the ACLU.
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Strange ways, here we come!
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| Apr 9, 2008 @ 2:38 AM |
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hpylady1
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I'm only guessing but it's a good bet that they haven't read your profile and just seen your picture and thought you looked older .. usually people don't feel the need to read a profile .. except ofcourse if it goes farther than a conversation.
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| Apr 9, 2008 @ 6:38 AM |
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sloriver
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i dont see anything wrong with an older man being with a younger woman
I think you're missing the point. There might not be anything wrong with it but if this girl doesn't want guys your age it's her preference and not for you to criticise. I'm sure you have standards. If you won't date a midget with leprosy then you've hurt that human being and left them out of the dating game. It's clearly stated in her profile what her limits are. Guys over 26 who try to hit on her are idiots and she wouldn't want them anyway. She obviously wants someone who can read.
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| Apr 9, 2008 @ 10:30 AM |
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honeynubbin
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I'm kind of on the same page on this with hpylady1 and sloriver.
Though I do think the subject line that the OP chose is a tad inflammatory ("old people"???), her profile states her preferences, and she should not be taken to task for having them. Our preferences are just that - our preferences.
The problem lies with those who are impressed with her photo, but don't give her the courtesy of actually reading her narrative and basic information. Doing so would, hopefully, rule out men she's not interested in, and they would not email or message her. An interesting photo seems to encourage unasked-for attention, for some reason.
Bottom line? There's more to a man or a woman than just their photo. Give them the courtesy of reading what they've said they're looking for. It would save a lot of wasted time and hurt feelings on both sides.
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| Apr 9, 2008 @ 5:39 PM |
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countrytimegal
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It seems that people just don't throughly read the whole profile. They like the picture or even a certain part of the profile or are just wanting to find just anyone to go out with. It is not just old people that are contacting the younger ones. It is the other way around too. I can not believe the number of men in thier 20s, 30s, or 40's that have contacted me. I have to say that compliments can be very flattering, etc. but when they say stuff like "do you date younger guys" or I prefer older women to younger ones" that I find it rediculous. My question is...why in the world would they prefer an older woman to a young one when a lot of older men will either have flings with younger women and even get divorced to be with them? Does not make much sense to me. However about the older ones contacting you ...just be polite and say thank you for responding to my ad and tell them that they are not in your age range and that you wish them luck in ther search. No point of being rude unless they get obnoxious and keep sending messages. Then I guess you will just have to block them.
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| Apr 12, 2008 @ 7:29 PM |
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marharet00
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i got a bit of a chuckle out of the girl that asked if this message board was for old people.. one of the things i think we need to remember as adults is that when we were that age to us people our age were reaaaaaaaaaaaalllllllllllllly old lol.
i say that age doesn't matter too much after you are an adult but i have to also add that the younger men that seem to message me on here were more interested because older women are " experienced". i think what that really means when you read between the lines is this.. younger men ( most times so please don't get offended by this) think that older women will have sex sooner.. from what i have observered of the younger girls ( ages from 21 to 27) in the area i live in is that they tend to not want a partner but want whomever they go home with after a night of partying.. yes we older women tend to be a little older and a little wiser but i wise that younger men wouldn't think that we are all about sex because its far from true.. get to know one of us.. you will find real quality people i think.....
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| Apr 12, 2008 @ 8:46 PM |
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hpylady1
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I remember reading some where age is only important if your wine or cheese ..lol I liked that .. but we would like to ignore age and some do it pretty well .. but age is not what makes us so different .. life experiences make us different .. I have met a lot of men my age and we couldn't connect because we were too different .. I find differences interesting .. those are the people I learn from .. most people don't feel that way they want someone who mirrors themselves. I've yet to find that person.
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| Apr 12, 2008 @ 10:33 PM |
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adrianblack
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OK, except she doesn't look older. She looks about 14.
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| Apr 17, 2008 @ 11:09 PM |
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alan74
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Sorry but a lot of older people are on here. Hell i see 60 year old women and am like what the hell? I am 34 and am open to anything but am not a perv and dont do online stalking. Good luck in your search. Im new to matchdoc myself. peace.
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| Apr 22, 2008 @ 1:56 AM |
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travelgrl88
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So didnt know iwas going to get all this stuff and to let you all know iamgoing to be 20 inlike 4 weeks so yeah i am nt 14 lol good god lol
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| Jul 20, 2008 @ 3:09 PM |
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rainman60110
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Yea older guys are attracted to cunts so if you werent so cunty then older guys would stop iming ya...
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| Sep 11, 2008 @ 11:20 AM |
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Leala
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lol just leave them alone. older people are just like younger people they get lonely too. If you don't like them pming you just ignore them doesn't take but one click to delete a pm ^.^ or you could always just put on your profile you are not interested in receiving or dating someone over an age, this might help some i would hope lol but then again you never know i guess.
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