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Aug 22, 2008 @ 7:06 AM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
subtle137


Posts: 100
Thanks, Cents. Porn is NOT what it takes to get things/keep things going. I honestly haven't been w/someone that watched it as a habit. Once or twice flipped through channels and chuckled a bit at the wonderful actors.....

I appreciate the suggestion (although it was meant as an insult to anyone approving of porn) of heading to the library. I usually do like to research before expressing an opinion, though I didn't in this case - how about you?

Rainman, Rainman.....must you always throw such vile, childish insults? It isn't very attractive!
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Aug 31, 2008 @ 2:15 PM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
Exsecratus_Sicarius


Posts: 26
Define porn.

Does the "infidelity" in Desperate Housewives count?



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Sep 6, 2008 @ 5:05 PM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
honestone527


Posts: 1
yeah i don't look at porn left several sites because I got tired of all the messages referring me to porn sites
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Sep 8, 2008 @ 4:20 PM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
snoozegirl


Posts: 3
Most men do. For the most part men are very visual and our species is extremely sexual. There may be a few men who don't look, but my ex isn't one of them. Left him because after 6 months "the novelty wore off" (with our sex life) as it had with his previous wife. I didn't know he was a perv. and an addict. I stayed with him for 14 years and then gave up trying when he started receiving kiddie porn. Cheer up. Only 6% of males have a genuine issue with behavioral problems and BPD. It's just a shame they don't has a microchip we can scan and see they have issues. ;-)
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Sep 8, 2008 @ 6:21 PM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
subtle137


Posts: 100
LOL, that would be cool...
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Sep 27, 2008 @ 9:18 PM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
wyyldblood


Posts: 1
In all fairness, there are more women with emotional/ psychological disorders than men.
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Sep 28, 2008 @ 7:36 PM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
montel111


Posts: 6
What is the problem with porn? Especially if he is watching it with the significant other and and / or learning something new.

I do see it as a problem if all a man aspires to is porn and will not go out and find his own woman.
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Oct 7, 2008 @ 4:29 PM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
maxximuss1967


Posts: 3
I only look at it if someone sends it to my email. not a past time of mine. maybee if you are 13 or somthing. (no offense to the guys who do...) but moma said its baaad!
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Oct 13, 2008 @ 7:58 PM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
DidUSayThePresidentIsNear


Posts: 1
I never look at porn. It exploits women, destroys the healthy attitude towards sex each man has as his God given birthright, and invades the mind with a cheapened commercialized attitude towards the opposite sex. I don't watch porn... have it on my computer or associate with men who proudly exhibit their participation in it. I was most disgusted by that Japanese eel porn video making the rounds online. Gross and a total turn off. That video where the woman is placed into a vacuum bag and all the air sucked out of it was rancid as well. Ewwww.. who finds this sort of stuff arousing? Not me. and that's why I avoid it like the plague.
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Nov 10, 2008 @ 11:14 AM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
Peabianjay


Posts: 2,474
I'm a guy (last I checked), and no, I don't look at porn...err...much. I also don't go to strip clubs, unless it's the activity of choice 'with the guys'.

Simply: I have nothing against it, but there's better ways to spend my time.

Much like any drug, a person will become accustommed to it, and require more, or stronger, drug to achieve the same effect. Shelve the porn, and the person you're with will won't 'lose' their allure!
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Nov 10, 2008 @ 9:39 PM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
subtle137


Posts: 100
Great comments, PB&J (sorry, that's what it looks like)! I totally agree! Thanks!
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Nov 12, 2008 @ 3:36 PM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
italianmale62


Posts: 2
well no offence but wherever you did your research it was either out od date or you looked at one of the far left winged pages lolol..if you ask any sex therapist (excluding me! because i'm not a big fan of porn) they will tell you that if your in a rut concerning you and your partner then try anything that puts a spark back into it and that includes porn......now of course you must watch it together...if role playing or different positions you have never tryed before and tryed them and nothing works then therapist tell you to watch a pron movie TOGETHER.........get that men??......i said TOGETHER lol.........i can understand why pron is so evil to others because it has its barings on our children........i know you hear this alot but watch your child darn it!..........if they really want to watch it then except it as part of life because there going to see it sooner or later.

now the good side about porn for you porn lovers is that its better to sit home and pul the chain then to go out and catch something just because your horney....some have said thats cheating on your wife.g/f if yuo have one?......well i find that to be bull......if your not getting enough at home then ask your spouse/g/f what you sould do...go out and pick a stranger and then you will be the first in line for your shots lol or tell her would she rather have you watch porn?........is there any question what the answer may be?.....i only believe pron should be used for the purposes i had mentioned........if your addicted to it and running up the bills from porn then i would suggest getting help............if its to spruses up your love life and it makes it better then go for it!!.......now just because some people find it trashy well thats there opions.....but when they start to intefer with others who see it differently then they themself should seek help......`smiles`
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Nov 15, 2008 @ 12:19 PM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
friendlykinky2


Posts: 1
I object to all this porn on the Internet. Not only does it start me thinking lewd and immoral thoughts, but it also makes my wrists hurt and I don't get much work done!
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Dec 5, 2008 @ 11:44 PM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
DavidEdwards


Posts: 1
he obviously isn't normal but you stayed for 14 years so you might need to evaluate your own problems
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Dec 6, 2008 @ 9:50 AM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
subtle137


Posts: 100
Okay, finally some research results - I read it in Men's Health October 2008 issue:

A recent study in the Journal of Sex Research found that 1 in 10 men who watch sex on the net become less interested n teh real thing. And the more they watch, the less the have real sex. One reason: they prefer the body in the video to the one in their bed. Men are more likely to watch porn alone. .....41% of women have checked out porn online, and more than half of those womenn say it makes them feel experimental.

I know of a couple in which the hubbie started watching porn online and, of course the real sex diminished....she finally put her foot down, got rid of the internet, gave him some ultimatums, and they are doing fine now. Everyone has their weakness, something they have no idea they will become addicted....

So it looks like couples should watch together if anyone is going to watch?? I am sure it depends on the content people are watching and does it make them want more depraved stuff? Again, no real personal experience....I just like reading about ideas in Cosmopolitan, Men's Health, etc.
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Dec 9, 2008 @ 5:33 AM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
Phil461


Posts: 1
if there are they are probably gay!
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Feb 26, 2009 @ 2:58 PM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
freeoncemore


Posts: 2
Yes, the answer to the original question is yes. There are guys that don't look at porn. Those of us that make a choice to look at porn does not make us "bad people." You can become addicted to anything. I don't drink by choice, but I don't cast dispersions on those that choose to. Different strokes for different folks, if you don't like a guy who looks at porn, go to church and find a guy. Opps bad choice, even the priests are molesitng kids...... but maybe they don't look at porn. Rainman makes a few good points, it is just he doesn't care who he pisses off on the way. Keep being the voice of dissent rainman.
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Mar 12, 2009 @ 9:31 PM are there any guys out there that don't look at porn    
PrIvAtEpArTz


Posts: 1
i could say the same about women
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