| Oct 8, 2006 @ 11:45 PM |
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male42
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I want to thank all the woman on here that has sent me messages.And for those of you that write to me and call me a player.I feel so sorry for you.I want to say that I am not a player even though I am married and unhappy.I know there is someone on this website that would like to get something started with me.I would like to say that when I do find that someone.I would be honest,trusting,loving,caring and faithful to the one I hope to find.And my search would be over.And I wouldnt have to look on the computer anymore for that someone.I just wanted to let everyone know that I am for real and I am not a player.You can find this out after you get to know me.So now I hope that I will hear from woman that is for real and dont want to play games.And I only want to hear from woman that is from the USA.Thank you for reading this.I hope this makes everything clear for everyone.
THANK YOU
MIKE
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| Oct 9, 2006 @ 6:42 AM |
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morghana35
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Just because you're unhappy is no reason to drag another woman down with you. Try handling your business first. Jumping from bad relationship to bad relationship just creates an unhealthy pattern. Deal with your marriage, take some time out to focus and heal, then if you feel you have something to offer in a relationship search for someone.
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| Oct 9, 2006 @ 8:14 AM |
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luvmycats
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I want to thank all the woman on here that has sent me messages
Hard to believe there was even one.
And for those of you that write to me and call me a player.I feel so sorry for you.I want to say that I am not a player even though I am married
Duh, what does that make you?
I know there is someone on this website that would like to get something started with me.
What makes you think that?
I would like to say that when I do find that someone.I would be honest,trusting,loving,caring and faithful
Faithful like you are to your present wife?
I am not a player
Just what do you consider yourself?
I hope this makes everything clear for everyone.
You made it perfectly clear. You are a low life scumbag that doesn't know what faithful even means.
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| Oct 9, 2006 @ 1:03 PM |
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donny3
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| Oct 9, 2006 @ 1:26 PM |
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mailorderannie
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I know you are lonely and trying to find someone to love and to love you in return, but do you really think you are going about this the right way?
[Edited on 10/9/2006 2:15 PM]
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| Oct 9, 2006 @ 3:26 PM |
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wislowrider
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Ok not knowing the whole story I'm still gonna respond to this. In my opinion, relationships are nothing like jobs. What I mean is this.......
While growing up, I was always taught that you never leave a job unless ya have already found another one to go to. Relationships are no way near like this. If there's absolutely no way of correcting the problems in your marriage, then ya should separate or end it before trying to find another lady to get involved with. I'm sure that there's alot of ladies that would be more interested if ya went about it that way. Mainly because they don't want to be considered the "other woman" or a "home wrecker". When my ex and I separated, she started dating other men while saying she wanted us to try and work things out. I waited until after I filed for divorce to start dating. I guess I did it that way for my own self respect. I felt that even though we were separated that I was still bound by the marriage vows and that if I started dating I would be breaking those vows.
Even though you say you're "unhappily married", alot of ladies (sorry not trying to speak for all you ladies out there) are gonna say that makes no difference.....you're still married none the less. Plus I'll go out on a limb here and say that I'm sure most ladies will consider this as more baggage than if you were separated or divorced.
Well that's my advice and just my humble opinon. I'm sure that there are those who will agree and disagree with it (like all opinions). Take it or leave it. And good luck.
Sorry y'all for the War And Peace length post.
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| Oct 9, 2006 @ 4:55 PM |
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mailorderannie
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This is what jumped out at me about this post. You are saying you will be honest with strangers on the internet, but you aren't being honest with your wife. If I'm considering dating someone, I want to know that they will be as honest with me 10 years from now as they appear to be on day one. What's to say that this new woman won't find herself in the same place your wife is now someday down the road?
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| Oct 9, 2006 @ 9:05 PM |
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DenoLoneWolf
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Good point Annie,
What jumps out to me most in this thread is the word HONESTY.
This is a word that is very near and dear to my heart.
I deal with the public on a regular basis, some of the things that are confided in me would curl your hair.
If someone asks me a question, I feel obligated to give an honest opinion.
Don't ask me a question that you do not want to hear an honest answer to!
I can smell smoke blowing from a mile away.
First of all, I want to question the sanity of any woman that took the time to message you personally. You feel sorry for them? They have to be awful desperate so I guess you should feel sorry for them. You say that you are not a player... I agree!
You are a wannabe player that doesnt even no how the game is played.
Ok...you are married and unhappy. You should deal with this first and foremost!
If there is someone on this website that will even give you the time of day before you have filed for a divorce, then I am certainly glad that they contacted you instead of me. I do not want anything to do with them.
How can you stand back and promise: "honest,trusting,loving,caring and faithful"
to anyone on here, when you can not keep the commitment of "Love, Honor and Cherish"
And I wouldnt have to look on the computer anymore for that someone Hmmm, could that be because you know that the ones you know off the computer already know that you are full of shit and are a wannabe player?
I suggest that you expand the area from which you are choosing... NO self respecting "Lady" in the USA would want anything to do with you.
P.S. Good Luck Mike....YOU NEED IT!
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| Oct 9, 2006 @ 10:22 PM |
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male42
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It is people like you LUVMYCATS that dont find anyone and just get mad at the ones that is getting replys.And no I am not a player.You are just mad because i dont want anything to do with you.
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| Oct 9, 2006 @ 11:28 PM |
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SunBabe
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ICK! An attitude like that coupled with cheating on your wife and YOU have the NERVE to get angry at luvmycats HONESTY? 
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| Oct 9, 2006 @ 11:41 PM |
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male42
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Yes SUNBABE it seams like LUVMYCAT has an attitude problem and she needs to get that taken care of.Dont take her side.She isnt worth the problem.But if you think she is worth the problem.Then there is something wrong with both of you.
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| Oct 9, 2006 @ 11:49 PM |
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SunBabe
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NEITHER she nor I are MARRIED. NEITHER of us have EVER had a problem with having excellent relationships with MEN...or anyone. NEITHER of us are on the internet looking for a relationship while we have a SPOUSE.
Why is it that WE have the "problem"? Don't you think it'd be worth the effort to try and fix the problems you have at home FIRST before inflicting YOUR problems on some poor woman??  It's not FAIR to the women...OR your wife. It's dirty, nasty CHEATING -- no ifs ands or buts about it ~duh~
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AND, mister...you have the NERVE to WINK at me??? 
Please, get some professional counselling...AND a divorce, if you don't want to be MARRIED. 
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| Oct 9, 2006 @ 11:54 PM |
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wislowrider
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male42 said:
Yes SUNBABE it seams like LUVMYCAT has an attitude problem and she needs to get that taken care of.Dont take her side.She isnt worth the problem.But if you think she is worth the problem.Then there is something wrong with both of you.
Hey male, why ya gettin so defensinve? Luvmycats didn't say anything that others haven't said in response to your thread. Once again I have to refer to something I was taught while growing up.......those who get angrily defensive over what someone has said are more than likely guilty of what was said about them.
Just a piece of advice here for ya. In my very short time on this forum, I have already seen posts, made by 2 other members, deleted because they were flamin  each other. Besides it's not gentlemanly to attack the ladies.
Also I have to agree with one of the things Deno said.......
If ya don't want to hear the honest answer, then don't ask the question.
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| Oct 10, 2006 @ 6:49 AM |
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mailorderannie
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Yes SUNBABE it seams like LUVMYCAT has an attitude problem and she needs to get that taken care of.Dont take her side.She isnt worth the problem.But if you think she is worth the problem.Then there is something wrong with both of you.
Don't you realize that women not only read your original post about being married and looking, but they've read this as well? WHAT about YOUR attitude toward women is making you the slightest bit ATTRACTIVE?
Woman notice how men treat people. You are here stating you want an opportunity to cheat on your wife, and now saying women who stand up to you have attitude problems?
What about the men? Two men posted on this thread as well, but you ignored their posts which speaks even more about YOUR attitude toward women.
I agree with Deno...you don't know how to play the game...but thank goodness because some poor woman would end up screwed over by yet another player.
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| Oct 10, 2006 @ 12:14 PM |
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wislowrider
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Ya know now that I've thought about it more, his original post sounds like one of those.......
Things that make ya go hmmm
(referring to the song by C&C Music Factory)
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| Oct 10, 2006 @ 3:36 PM |
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luvmycats
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It is people like you LUVMYCATS that dont find anyone and just get mad at the ones that is getting replys.And no I am not a player.You are just mad because i dont want anything to do with you.
Uhhh.... I think you got that BACKWARDS. Its me that doesn't want anything to do with you. Think you better read my profile again, (if you ever read it). It says I am only looking for FRIENDS, NOT cheating men. Thank you very much.
Ooops, gues I did get childish and call you a name. I am sorry for that. I try not to call people names, guess this just got me a little too fired up. Kinda like the lying statement you made about me. But I am NOT going to call you a lier......
*Luvs looking around* "Anybody know who these shoes fit?"
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| Oct 10, 2006 @ 3:44 PM |
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luvmycats
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*Skipping down the sidewalk, going toward the playground singing*
Nobody likes me, everybody hates me
think I'll go and eat some worms,
Big fat juicy ones, little tiny squishy ones,
Oh how they wiggle and squrim.
First ya bite the heads off,
then ya suck the guts out,
then ya throw the skins awaaaaay.
I don't see how birdies can live, on worms three times a dayyyyyy.... 
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| Oct 10, 2006 @ 5:26 PM |
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DenoLoneWolf
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and the winner is: luvmycats, by unanimous decision 
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| Oct 10, 2006 @ 5:43 PM |
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rosiewitch2007
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lol@luvmycats!....Speaking as a woman out here....I get enough lying from single guys why put myself through it with a married guy? I agree that you should get out of this marriage before you start looking for another woman. Honestly, just because you are being upfront about being married doesn't make you a trustworthy or honest person. If a woman did find herself involved with you she'd always have to question where or whom you were with when you weren't with her, correct? Most women now a days have a wonderful self esteem and don't feel that they need to settle for someone else's sloppy seconds. I can be miserable all by myself rather than be miserable with a married or involved man. Like that old Dwight Yokam song says, "I'm not that lonely yet"....I hope that you come to terms with what everyone has said here and reflect on how your wife is feeling while you are out here on the internet looking for love. It's just consideration for another human's feelings is all we are saying. Get right with yourself and your wife before you start out to find another person to replace her. Marriage isn't always an easy road and if you are willing to jump ship after hitting rough seas then what's that say about your character? Save another woman the heartache and just end your marriage if you are that unhappy because in my past experience a married man seldom leaves his wife for the other woman and if they do that marriage or relationship doesn't last long either because of the mistrust that it was built on. I truly hope that there's not a woman that desperate that she feels that she has to settle for part time trists, lies and an unfaithful man.
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| Oct 12, 2006 @ 1:13 AM |
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male42
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Now lets see if I can name the bigest losers on here.Yes I can.They are DONNY ,WISLOWRIDER AND ANOTHER BIG LOSER DENOLONEWOLF .The name say it all.ALONE.
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