| Jul 21, 2007 @ 12:25 AM |
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iceagehottie
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Well some can be kinda slow ya know......... 
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| Jul 21, 2007 @ 2:54 PM |
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geniekitten
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evadently very slow
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| Jul 21, 2007 @ 6:55 PM |
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sirpissalot
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I never post anything. I hardly ever read these. But "luvmycats" pretty much broke it down. If everyone could lay it out there like that, there would be no more cheaters. There would be no more misunderstandings. There would be no more wars, or pestilence. OK, I always seem to overdue it. But way to go luvmycats!
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| Jul 21, 2007 @ 7:08 PM |
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geniekitten
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your comment was dead on.. and you did not overdue it..
have a nice time sirpissalot..
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| Sep 20, 2007 @ 5:21 AM |
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crash911
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I have a question for you, what is sad is that i probably already know the answer to
but anyways. I have sort of became interested in an (unhappily) married man, and i hear things about if things don't work about between them, and so on. and of course we would both have a lot to lose, more him than me anyways
But what is bothering me now is that I enjoy just the conversations we have, there has never been more than a hug that has happened. Is it worth it to enjoy the time that you can spend with someone, even though there is a rough chance it will ever be more than just the other woman. I somehow believe i like him enough to allow myself to deal with that kind of hurt, but for the time that we do have contact its incredible, and its not like he is pressuring an affair, but to me when search for an emotional connection with someone that is not your wife, to me i still feel kinda guilty. well since you are the married man being honest i could use some advice.
but just incase i don't get a reply atleast i got to vent out something that has been really bothering me, and i guess that is lot easier to do with a total stranger .
anyways, i honestly do hope to hear from you
Mandy
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| Sep 20, 2007 @ 7:36 PM |
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luvmycats
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Crash, you are in luck! The original poster canceled his account, BUT he now has a new one with a new name!
New name
Even though this thread was started a year ago, I haven't changed my mind one little bit. CHEATING IS CHEATING!  Can anyone say Scarlet Letter?
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| Sep 21, 2007 @ 12:43 AM |
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crash911
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i have a question that i have asked more than one person,
hopefully you can help me with this because you are married man being
honest with all the women on here
if a man is married (unhappily) 4 years, and has never had the desire to be unfaithful until he met me, what is the possibility of anything he is saying to be true
and should it really matter as long as the time we spend together even though has not been sexual is something i look forward to, is the connection we have worth the pain of the possibility of not being able to be with this person, should i enjoy the moment, end it now or just delay the hurt, which is odd because i am already torn all to pieces because deep down i know i have the answer, but i guess i just want a different one
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| Sep 21, 2007 @ 12:54 AM |
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crash911
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ok, do you believe that there is just one right person for another
and with the cheating, i mainly want to know what is going on in the
married mans mind, like are there some that really want to leave their stable or unstable life to start with a new person, how can you tell when they are sincere
what should you look for, and so on, because this man helped me get out of an abusive relationship that i had been stuck in for awhile
So maybe he is just good with words munipulative or whatever, but i do believe that if he just wanted me for a bed partner he would have already gave up
but like you said cheating is cheating, and i feel quilty for feeling guilty about having the feelings i do have
i really need some advice or just a slap on the back of the head
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| Sep 22, 2007 @ 8:18 AM |
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luvmycats
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i have a question that i have asked more than one person,
hopefully you can help me with this because you are married man being
honest with all the women on here I'm not the married man, but I hope I can answer your question, even though you aren't going to like it. 
if a man is married (unhappily) 4 years, and has never had the desire to be unfaithful until he met me, what is the possibility of anything he is saying to be true How do you KNOW, you are the only one he has had the desire to be unfaithful with? Because he told you? Hun, any man that is willing to be unfaithful, first learns how to lie really good.
and should it really matter as long as the time we spend together even though has not been sexual is something i look forward to, is the connection we have worth the pain of the possibility of not being able to be with this person, should i enjoy the moment, end it now or just delay the hurt, which is odd because i am already torn all to pieces because deep down i know i have the answer, but i guess i just want a different one
Only you can answer if it is worth the pain. Something to think about... If he is willing to be unfaithful to his wife, will you ever be able to trust him not to be unfaithful to you?
ok, do you believe that there is just one right person for another
and with the cheating, i mainly want to know what is going on in the
married mans mind, like are there some that really want to leave their stable or unstable life to start with a new person, how can you tell when they are sincere
what should you look for This is just my opinion, but I believe if a person is truly unhappy, they will get out of the relationship before getting into another one. Otherwise, it is the old saying, they want their cake and eat it too.
and so on, because this man helped me get out of an abusive relationship that i had been stuck in for awhile Friends do that. It sounds like he is using that in order to "get to you".
So maybe he is just good with words munipulative or whatever, Every person I have ever known that cheated was good with words and manipulative. They are also good at justifying why they stay.
but i do believe that if he just wanted me for a bed partner he would have already gave up Oh no sweetie, he is just bidding his time... waiting for you to be vulnerable enough to make that move.
but like you said cheating is cheating, and i feel quilty for feeling guilty about having the feelings i do have
If what you were feeling for this man were a good thing, you wouldn't have any guilty feelings. I think you have already realized this too.
i really need some advice or just a slap on the back of the head Heres a bop to the front of your head. 
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| Sep 22, 2007 @ 8:43 AM |
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sktrbuggie
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I just have a little something to say on this...
First of all...in my opinion...once a cheater always a cheater.  Second of all...if he is willing to cheat on his wife/significant other with you, and even leave her for you...who's to say he wont turn around and leave YOU for someone else when he gets tired of you? 
I was married to a cheating man, and it took me WAY to long to figure out what was going on. For years he cheated on me with anyone who would have him. I worked 3rd shift, so it made it convienent for him. I was with this man for 5 years, never once had a thought about another man. I loved him through thick and thin, then one day I found out what was going on and it was over. I have never stood for cheating, and I never will.  I would NEVER be with a man that I knew cheated on someone else. Like I said above...if he will cheat on someone else, he will cheat on you. Women are the same way. This isn't just about men. It's cheating in general. Cheaters have no conscience (sp?). Like my ex-husband, I kicked him out, filed for divorce and within 13 days of me kicking him out he was moved in with one of the women he was screwing behind my back...4 days after our divorce was final (which only took 2 months) he was engaged to her. I feel bad for her, but she knew he was married at the time. So it's her own decision to be with a cheating man. 
I hope you find the answers you are looking for. I would listen to luvmycats, she is one smart cookie!
Good luck 
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| Sep 26, 2007 @ 5:24 AM |
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| Jan 24 @ 7:34 PM |
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freespirit164
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After reading all the posts on this page including yours I would have to agree with everyone else if your not happy in your marriage end it, get over it and move on.
And like it has already been said, "If you don't want to know the answer don't ask the question because you may not like the answer.
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