| Jun 1, 2007 @ 4:22 PM |
does it realy matter if your nice or not?
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stealth121
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i think as myself as a nice guy. very outspoken. yes! though I am nice in general. i do treat people i'm with good . i would not cheat on them. i would try very hard to show them i love them. I do exspect the same in return. The thing is the nice or good guys are the ones that get dumped on. I would like to know why this is so. since wome are always crying for a good guy.
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| Jun 1, 2007 @ 4:38 PM |
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iceagehottie
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not all women treat men that way, but it does go both ways. men claim they want a nice girl, but yet, well ya know the drill.... lol like the saying goes and i will say it goes for both men and women... you will have to kiss alot of toads til you find the right one that actually changes to the prince/princess
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| Jun 1, 2007 @ 4:42 PM |
does it realy matter if your nice or not?
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geniekitten
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yes, ice you are a100% right on the money.....
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| Jun 1, 2007 @ 5:41 PM |
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sweetie1965
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I agree with that....im not going to let one ruin what might be there with another...it goes both ways. I treat people like good and get dumped on and dont understand why but guess some day i will get lucky....:)
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| Jun 2, 2007 @ 11:14 AM |
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stealth121
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i was kinda venting. i know it goes both ways. i was just commenting on my part.
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| Jun 2, 2007 @ 1:50 PM |
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iceagehottie
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121 its ok to vent, we all have to, we were just doin the same. have a great one 
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| Jun 2, 2007 @ 3:22 PM |
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sunfiregir1995
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i would say if the nice and good guys get dumped on something is wrong, i dont know anyone that would leave a good guy and nice guy,, unless it wasnt good at all for them,, most men are very rude and they go through menapause also, the only different thing is they never stop going through it, they are very rude . and what happen to the men that use to open car doors for the ladies,, havent seen that since the 80's ,, lmao, and they wonder why women are gay,,, lmao.. just an my out look..
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| Jun 5, 2007 @ 8:20 AM |
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Microchip
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I don't get it. Does it really matter if my nice or not? My WHAT is nice?
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| Jun 5, 2007 @ 3:37 PM |
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stealth121
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the what is meant as a person. not any part of my body. i don't care about the sex stuff. just want a women for a friend. then see if it grows. why does every thing have to revolve around sex
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| Jun 5, 2007 @ 5:54 PM |
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geniekitten
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that is a good question 121 " why does everything have to revolve around sex?" There is more to life than sex.. yes sex is nice but I want more than just meaningless sex
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| Jun 8, 2007 @ 6:58 PM |
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iceagehottie
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Ok, now the occassional meaningless sex is for some and I will admit that I have done it in the past, but I agree with Genie, I want something more than just that and I would like to meet men that are different that the "norm", meaning that a decent guy is kinda hard to find because I think they have all been burned and are afraid to come out and try again. I also dont blame them for this and I know women can be the same. Hmmm, for some reason, I feel like I have jumped off the conversation, so I will back out slowly and let you guys go on with your talk. 
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| Jun 9, 2007 @ 2:02 PM |
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stealth121
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well i am a nice guy. i admite i do say what is on my mind. i tell it as i see it and that is how i am. some don't like it and they have there right not too. yes i have been burnt bad before. and i am kinda shy in coming back into the dating thing. heck i would be tickled if i got someone to just pay attention to me. i'm not after sex and i hope there are some women like that too. i want a friend. then see where it goes from there.
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| Jun 9, 2007 @ 3:19 PM |
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iceagehottie
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Well hello there stealth, im ice, nice to meet ya....now if ya wanna chat and become friends that is cool with me. 
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| Jun 9, 2007 @ 4:56 PM |
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geniekitten
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hello stealth I'm genie nice to meet you and I am nice
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| Jun 12, 2007 @ 3:13 PM |
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Snoopyman
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I went out with a lady I met on here that said I was TOO nice!
(Is there even such a thing? LOL) 
We are still friends, but I guess everyone has a different
opinion of who they want to date.
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| Jun 12, 2007 @ 11:43 PM |
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iceagehottie
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Snoopy  that is odd, but I have heard men say that they have been told that and, well, if I ever met a nice guy in person, well I think I would pass out first and then try to get to know him. Hmmm...guess that is a concept that I could get used to 
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| Jun 14, 2007 @ 5:34 PM |
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stealth121
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well iceage, i am a nice guy for real. with a big heart and affectionate. want to find a good friend and see where it goes.
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| Jun 14, 2007 @ 6:29 PM |
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iceagehottie
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well, stealth, its nice to meet you again and we can chat sometime and it is nice to meet a nice guy
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| Jun 18, 2007 @ 7:22 PM |
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stealth121
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i hope you don't think i have stop talking to you ice. i told you about my step dad dying a weekago saterday. so i hope things are good with us. i realy think your a wounderfull women.
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| Jun 19, 2007 @ 12:39 PM |
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barelyhere
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I love nice men. I think some women have a misconception of what a "nice guy" is all about. Some women worry if the guy is too nice then maybe he can't protect the family when needed or settle up a bad business deal. For me, I want the qualities of a nice guy (gentle, sincere, honest, true gentlemen) but also I need a man who can step up and voice his opinion, fight for his family, and be tough when needed.
Some women mistake a "macho" guy as one who can hold his own. Believing since he fights with his fists and curses others "I can be safe with that man." Not true. A "real" man in every sense of that word can be both gentle & firm, soft spoken yet assertive. A nice guy doesn't mean you are going to be stuck with a "passive" guy. He could be the best of both worlds. Same with women. Men, you know this! Typically, a guy wants a lady in the streets and a freak in the bed. Well, us women want a nice guy but also a protector. We all wear many hats. So don't give up. Their are those of us out here who admire such qualities in a man.
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